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#and your question represents like the fundamental fatal flaw of the story i have spent literally 100s of hours on
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I have an anecdote about when I worked for a company and a co-worker left to work in a different state on military aircraft. He had to get a TS clearance and because we had worked for several years together he asked if I would be okay with being interviewed for his clearance. I said sure and an interviewer w the gov, arranged to come to my place of work and conduct the interview there. I was asked questions about him like how well did I know him, and whatever answer I gave led to more specific questions like if I answered a question about knowing his wife, they would ask if I thought his marriage sounded secure etc.
This memory of that experience was on my mind while I read your story and I wondered who Iceman would choose for his TS clearance interviews (and who the gov would choose for him) and what would they say? I feel like their "secret" would be uncovered in even a low level clearance (years later I had to submit names for a low level Public Trust clearance for my job) It was so embarrassing because I did not have many friends I was comfortable submitting for that as I kept my work and home life very separate.
Anyway, that is my "cool story, bro"
Thank you for such a great and well researched story!
this is indeed a cool story bro and touches on what is literally my story’s fatal flaw, which is: Yeah, a shitload of people would’ve known about it. I am going to hijack your question to talk about that, so my apologies, though i will get around to your question by the end. This is gonna be a really long post. I have a lot to say and a lot of ground to cover.
So I wanna start out by talking about the structure of this story and its core conflict, because while I’d like to say this story is rooted in an accurate depiction of the US military, obviously that’s not true; it’s rooted in the dynamic of the story that i wanted to tell, which is the story of a guy coming to realize the truth behind a Big Lie—him passing as straight. And that’s a pretty universal story, but it’s made more specific by the fact that a) the guy canonically wants to be the best in an institution that enforces the Big Lie and b) the guy canonically is so successful because he follows the rules/orders of that institution. So, for character growth, to put it simply, the guy (Ice) has to come to the conclusion that the Big Lie is a lie by himself. He can’t be told/ordered that the Big Lie is a lie, otherwise he hasn’t grown out of “just following orders.” (I’ll get to the Big Lie in a second. I made charts and story structure graphs below.)
The only other story about a Big Lie I can think of off the top of my head right now is Passing (1929) by Nella Larsen, which is about a Black woman in Chicago trying to pass as both white and straight. It’s a great book and I’ll try not to spoil it, you should really read it for yourself, but the terminology I’m going to use in this post comes from an analysis of it, so just to bring you up to speed—Clare, the woman trying to pass as white, is recognized by a friend, another Black-but-passing woman, Irene, who is shocked that Clare has abandoned her heritage (the truth of her, that is) and married a hyper-racist white man who doesn’t even know that she’s Black. So the book sets up a dynamic of the Big Lie that I’ve outlined here (hopefully it makes sense):
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I built on this dynamic for my fic. Ice is both a “dupe” and a “passing figure,” in that he believes the lie that he is straight and also passes for straight—but it’s also more complicated than that because he’s not actually straight (getting to that). Mav is an “in-group clairvoyant” and can recognize Ice as passing because he is also straight-passing. The Navy are a bunch of “dupes.” But…what is Slider, for instance, or your question’s hypothetical government official who, yes, will 100% find out because people always find out?
In comes my ginormous-and-overly-wordy WWGATTAI Plot and Character Dynamic Summary Graph. You don’t really have to read it all, the only important bits for this discussion are the leftmost column (“plot”) and the green quadrant (“out-group clairvoyants”).
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To summarize—people who know the truth can’t actually act on it, because for Ice’s character growth to make sense, he has to come to the truth himself. This forecloses the possibility of any outwardly homophobic action (by which I mean someone like a govt official or one of my lame OCs actually challenging him on his illegal relationship) in the plot, because for 90% of the story Ice is so fragile that he would probably just cave immediately and double down on the internalized homophobia. So, for plot purposes, everyone—including Mav, as it happens—has to sort of tiptoe around Ice’s obvious not-straightness and give him an unreasonable amount of grace so he can figure it out for himself. 
And therein lies the fatal flaw of this story. It is, like, not conceptually viable. Of course people would find out, of course the government would interrogate him about it, of course he’d have to confront the truth much sooner than TWENTY-FIVE years after he first starts messing around with Mav.  Which literally breaks my heart because I didn’t realize it was a fundamentally busted story until long after I had finished writing the base plot & couldn’t fix the overarching problems 😭 The thing is, it had to be this way, because there is at least a thirty-year gap between TG86 and TGM22, and TGM is obviously the emotional climax of the series and my story had to match that. So—fanfic and its canon constraints, everyone. 
But also… I can explain away these logical inconsistencies with story structure & character dynamic graphs to make the story make sense, sure, but it doesn’t change the truth of the matter, which is that… I hadn’t ever really thought about things like security clearances, and therefore wrote around them because I didn’t even know to consider them. And I know there are a bunch of other details in this story that betray my immaturity (anytime I talk about alcohol, for instance—I still am not legal to drink in this stupid country & have only cheap bad experiences to draw on; THE HOUSE—if i could rewrite this story from the beginning they would not have bought a fucking house together, what was I thinking???) and the lack of thought about the real-life logistics and consequences of secrecy is one of them. 
And it’s exactly what I mean when I say “I look at this story and all I see are its flaws,” which is why I wanted to write this post & get it on record. I have just enough life experience to read my own writing and know that it’s fundamentally unconvincing, and not enough life experience to know how to fix it. :(
But, to answer your original question, you’ve got me brainstorming a scene where Ice is asking Slider to be his character witness & Slider’s like “Look bro do you want me to lie to the federal government under oath for you because I will” and Ice has to be like “Legally I cannot ask that of you but”
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Being happy is the best cure of all diseases! – Patch Adams • Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all – the apathy of human beings. – Helen Keller • Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope of a cure. – Jane Austen • She frowned at him. ‘You are in love with solitude.’ ‘Is there a better cure for the world than solitude? – Meg Rosoff • She knew the intensity of adolescence, and knew no cure for it except growing up. And then one has age and experience, and mourns the loss of intensity. Maybe it’s why musicians and mathmaticians are said to peak young-poetry needs the fire of an unbounded universe. – Sara Paretsky • Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung • Some cures are worse than the dangers they combat. – Seneca the Younger • Some of the very greatest gifts bring an inevitable downside which you cannot “cure” without curing the gift at the same time. – Stephanie S. Tolan • Somebody told me I should put a pebble in my mouth to cure my stuttering. Well, I tried it, and during a scene I swallowed the pebble. That was the end of that. – Jean Rostand • Sometimes my need to love hurts– myself, my family, my cause. Is there a cure? Of course. But I refuse. Refuse to stop loving, to stop caring. To avoid those tears, that pain…To err on the side of passion is human and right and the only way I’ll live. – Jon Krakauer • Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.- Henri Nouwen • Stem cell research holds out the promise of finding cures and treatments for a wide range of diseases. – Tom Allen • Strong leaders understand that action cures indecision – Toyotomi Hideyoshi • The art of medicine consists in amusing the patient while nature cures the disease. – Voltaire • The best cure for hypochondria is to forget about your body and get interested in somebody else’s. – Goodman Ace • The best cure for procrastination is to have so much on your plate that procrastination is no longer an option. – Tavi Gevinson • The best cure for the body is a quiet mind. – Napoleon Bonaparte • The bitterness of the potion, and the abhorrence of the patient are necessary circumstances to the operation. It must be something to trouble and disturb the stomach that must purge and cure it. – Michel de Montaigne • The canter is a cure for every evil. – Benjamin Disraeli • The cure for a fallacious argument is a better argument, not the suppression of ideas. – Carl Sagan • The cure for admiring the House of Lords is to go and look at it. – Walter Bagehot • The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea. – Isak Dinesen • The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity. – Dorothy Parker • The cure for crime is not the electric chair, but the high chair.- J. Edgar Hoover • The cure for evil and disorder is more liberty, not suppression. – Alexander Berkman • The degree of polarization that currently exists in Washington is such where I think it’s fair to say if I presented a cure for cancer, getting legislation passed to move that forward would be a nail-biter. – Barack Obama • The disease is painless; it’s the cure that hurts. – Katharine Whitehorn • The doctor has been taught to be interested not in health but in disease. What the public is taught is that health is the cure for disease. – Ashley Montagu • The doctor of the future will no longer treat the human frame with drugs, but rather will cure and prevent disease with nutrition. – Thomas A. Edison • The general (federal) government will tend to monarchy, which will fortify itself from day to day, instead of working its own cures. – Thomas Jefferson • The good Lord send out a spirit of mortification to cure our distempers, or we are in a sad condition! – John Owen • The government is huge, stupid, greedy and makes nosy, officious and dangerous intrusions into the smallest corners of life – this much we can stand. But the real problem is that government is boring. We could cure or mitigate the other ills Washington visits on us if we could only bring ourselves to pay attention to Washington itself. But we cannot. – P. J. O’Rourke • The monopoly of a single bank is certainly an evil. The multiplication of them was intended to cure it; but it multiplied an influence of the same character with the first, and completed the supplanting the precious metals by a paper circulation. Between such parties the less we meddle the better. – Thomas Jefferson • The only cure for a real hangover is death. – Robert Benchley • The only cure for contempt is counter-contempt. – H. L. Mencken • The only cure for grief is action. – George Henry Lewes • The secret of being miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. The cure for it is occupation, because occupation means pre-occupation; and the pre-occupied person is neither happy nor unhappy, but simply alive and active. That is why it is necessary to happiness that one should be tired. – George Bernard Shaw • The sovereign cure for worry is prayer. – William James • The squeeze machine is not going to cure anybody, but it may help them relax; and a relaxed person will usually have better behavior. – Temple Grandin • The standard formulation on remedy is that it ought to cure past violations and prevent their recurrence. That’s what antitrust is all about. – Charles James • The surest cure for vanity is loneliness. – Tom Wolfe • The worst forms of depression are cured when Holy Scripture is believed. – Charles Spurgeon • Then we heard the rumours: that the last scientists were working on a cure that would end the plague and restore the world. Restore it? Why? I like the death! I like the misery! I like this world! – Vincent Klyn • There are no such things as incurables. There are only things for which man has not found a cure. – Bernard Baruch • There are two kinds of cloning right now. One is therapeutic cloning which is for coming up with cures for life threatening, really, really awful diseases. Then there is reproductive cloning, which is to make a human being out of your DNA and a donor egg – Mary Tyler Moore • There are two reasons for drinking wine…when you are thirsty, to cure it; the other, when you are not thirsty, to prevent it… prevention is better than cure. – Thomas Love Peacock • There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval. – George Santayana • There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval. The dark background which death supplies brings out the tender colours of life in all their purity. – George Santayana • There is no cure for emphysema, but you can start treating it and have a better quality of life. – Loni Anderson • There is no cure for the pride of a virtuous nation but pure religion.- Reinhold Niebuhr • There is no short and easy road, no magic cure for those ills which have afflicted mankind from the dawn of history. – Frank B. Kellogg • There is nothing in socialism that a little age or a little money will not cure.- Will Durant • There is nothing wrong with America that faith, love of freedom, intelligence, and energy of her citizens cannot cure.- Dwight D. Eisenhower • There is only one cure for gray hair. It was invented by a Frenchman. It is called the guillotine. – P. G. Wodehouse • There is still no cure for the common birthday. – John Glenn • There must be quite a few things that a hot bath won’t cure, but I don’t know many of them. – Sylvia Plath • There’s something to be said for useless days. You know, those days when you have nothing to do and all day to do it … Trust me, a beach and a bottomless drink may not cure the world’s problems but it can really get your head in the right place. Those are my favorite kind of days. – Kenny Chesney • These days I must take the world in small and carefully measured doses. It is a sort of homeopathic cure I am undergoing, though I am not certain what this cure is meant to mend. Perhaps I am learning to live amongst the living again. Practising, I mean. But no, that is not it. Being here is just a way of not being anywhere. – John Banville • They say even death can’t cure an idiot. -Ririn – Tite Kubo • Think of a single problem confronting the world today. Disease, poverty, global warming… If the problem is going to be solved, it is science that is going to solve it. Scientists tend to be unappreciated in the world at large, but you can hardly overstate the importance of the work they do. If anyone ever cures cancer, it will be a guy with a science degree. Or a woman with a science degree. – Bill Bryson • This is the curse of our age, even the strangest aberrations are no cure for boredom. – Stendhal • This syndrome, SARS, is now a worldwide health threat… The world needs to work together to find its cause, cure the sick and stop its spread. – Gro Harlem Brundtland • Those diseases which medicines do not cure, iron cures; those which iron cannot cure, fire cures; and those which fire cannot cure, are to be reckoned wholly incurable. – Hippocrates • Though all afflictions are evils in themselves, yet they are good for us, because they discover to us our disease and tend to our cure. – John Tillotson • Though I often looked for one, I finally had to admit that there could be no cure for Paris. – Paula McLain • Time is an herb that cures all Diseases. – Benjamin Franklin
• ‘Tis folly in one Nation to look for disinterested favors from another; that it must pay with a portion of its Independence for whatever it may accept under that character; that by such acceptance, it may place itself in the condition of having given equivalents for nominal favours and yet of being reproached with ingratitude for not giving more. There can be no greater error than to expect, or calculate upon real favours from Nation to Nation. ‘Tis an illusion which experience must cure, which a just pride ought to discard. – George Washington • Tis not always in a physician’s power to cure the sick; at times the disease is stronger than trained art. – Ovid • To cure a batting slump, I took my bat to bed with me. I wanted to know my bat a little better. – Richie Ashburn • To cure jealousy is to see it for what it is, a dissatisfaction with self. – Joan Didion • To cure the British disease with socialism was like trying to cure leukaemia with leeches. – Margaret Thatcher • To cure the violence, we must identify and heal the causes of hatred and violence. If we dont deal with the causes we will never be safe. – Peter Yarrow • To cure us of our immoderate love of gain, we should seriously consider how many goods there are that money will not purchase, and these the best; and how many evils there are that money will not remedy, and these the worst. – Charles Caleb Colton • To feel our ills is one thing, but to cure them is another. – Ovid • Travel, in the superficial sense at least, is a good cure for loneliness. When you travel, especially in the third world, you quickly find that you get more friends than you know what to do with. – Pico Iyer • Ulcerative colitis can be cured by the operation, but you cannot cure Crohn’s disease. – Mary Ann Mobley • Understanding does not cure evil, but it is a definite help, inasmuch as one can cope with a comprehensible darkness. – Carl Jung • Undeveloped though the science [of chemistry] is, it already has great power to bring benefits. Those accruing to physical welfare are readily recognized, as in providing cures, improving the materials needed for everyday living, moving to ameliorate the harm which mankind by its sheer numbers does to the environment, to say nothing of that which even today attends industrial development. And as we continue to improve our understanding of the basic science on which applications increasingly depend, material benefits of this and other kinds are secured for the future. – Henry Taube • We all have private ails. The troublemakers are they who need public cures for their private ails.- Eric Hoffer • We all labour against our own cure, for death is the cure of all diseases. – Thomas Browne • We are a caring nation, and our values should also guide us on how we harness the gifts of science. New medical breakthroughs bring the hope of cures for terrible diseases and treatments that can improve the lives of millions. Our challenge is to make sure that science serves the cause of humanity instead of the other way around. – George W. Bush • We are all potentially such sick men. The sanest and best of us are of one clay with lunatics and prison-inmates. And whenever we feel this, such a sense of the vanity of our voluntary career comes over us, that all our morality appears but as a plaster hiding a sore it can never cure, and all our well-doing as the hollowest substitute for that well-being that our lives ought to be grounded in, but alas! are not. – William James • We can endure neither our vices nor their cure. – Livy • We cannot idealize technology. Technology is only and always the reflection of our own imagination, and its uses must be conditioned by our own values. Technology can help cure diseases, but we can prevent a lot of diseases by old-fashioned changes in behavior. – William J. Clinton • We don’t devote enough scientific research to finding a cure for jerks. – Bill Watterson • We have known about the placebo effect for many years. This is a remarkable effect – placebo can cure 30 percent in many cases. – Matthieu Ricard • We Spaniards know a sickness of the heart that only gold can cure. • What sense would it make or what would it benfit a physician if he discovered the origin of the diseases but could not cure or alleviate them?- Paracelsus • When thinking won’t cure fear, action will. – W. Clement Stone • When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand.- Henri Nouwen • When you sing gospel you have a feeling there is a cure for what’s wrong. – Mahalia Jackson • Whiskey is by far the most popular of all remedies that won’t cure a cold. – Jerry Vale • Why do you hasten to remove anything which hurts your eye, while if something affects your soul you postpone the cure until next year? -Horace • Within the Scripture there is a balm for every wound, a salve for every sore. – Charles Spurgeon • Work cures everything. – Henri Matisse • Work is its own cure. You have to like it better than being loved. – Marge Piercy • Worry is spiritual short sight… Its cure is intelligent faith. – Paul Brunton • Yes, he’s like a rash for which there’s no cure. It only goes away for a bit before returning unexpectedly to ruin every pleasurable experience. He should have been named Herpes rather than ZT. Or maybe just Herpes Z, since he’s a very special irritant. (Arik) – Sherrilyn Kenyon • Yes, she is.” He looks at me, his face carved in pain. “She is dying, Sara. She will die, either tonight or tomorrow or maybe a year from now if we’re really lucky. You heard what Dr. Chance said. Arsenic’s not a cure. It just postpones what’s coming.” My eyes fill up with tears. “But I love her,” I say, because that is reason enough. – Jodi Picoult • You can die of the cure before you die of the illness. – Michael Landon • You know, the cure for all this talk is really a good dose of incompetent government. You get that alternative and you’ll never put Singapore together again: Humpty Dumpty cannot be put together again… my asset values will disappear, my apartments will be worth a fraction of what they were, my ministers’ jobs will be in peril, their security will be at risk and their women will become maids in other people’s countries, foreign workers. – Lee Kuan Yew • You use hypnosis not as a cure but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn. – Milton H. Erickson • You’re a disease. And I’m the cure. – Sylvester Stallone • You’re on earth. There’s no cure for that. – Samuel Beckett • You’ve got to have some adversity and learn from it. I’m working hard, but I didn’t expect a cure in one day. You learn. You move on. You hold your head up. You go on to the next day. – Chuck Knoblauch
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• A careful physician . . . before he attempts to administer a remedy to his patient, must investigate not only the malady of the man he wishes to cure, but also his habits when in health, and his physical constitution. – Marcus Tullius Cicero • A central claim of the Bush administration’s foreign policy is that the spread of democracy in the Middle East is the cure for terrorism. – Timothy Garton Ash • A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love. – Friedrich Nietzsche • A real hangover is nothing to try out family remedies on. The only cure for a real hangover is death. – Robert Benchley • A republic, by which I mean a government in which the scheme of representation takes place, opens a different prospect and promises the cure for which we are seeking. – James Madison • A sure cure for seasickness is to sit under a tree. – Spike Milligan • A well-chosen anthology is a complete dispensary of medicine for the more common mental disorders, and may be used as much for prevention as cure. – Robert Graves • Absence – that common cure of love. – Lord Byron • Action cures fear, inaction creates terror. – Douglas Horton • Ah, did we but rightly understand what the demerit of sin is, we would rather admire the bounty of God than complain of the straithandedness of Providence. And if we did but consider that there lies upon God no obligation of justice or gratitud to reward any of our duties, it would cure our murmurs (Gen. 32:10). – John Flavel • All a man’s affairs become diseased when he wishes to cure evils by evils. – Sophocles • All preachers of morality, as also all theologians have a bad habit in common: all of them try to persuade man that he is very ill, and that a severe, final, radical cure is necessary. – Friedrich Nietzsche • Always laugh when you can. It is cheap medicine. – Lord Byron • An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. – Benjamin Franklin • And even if you didn’t fall in love in the eighties, in your mind it will feel like the eighties, all innocent and airbrushed, with bright colors and shoulder pads and Pat Benetar or the Cure on the soundtrack. – Jonathan Tropper • And I’m going to work as hard as I can… for cancer research and hopefully, maybe, we’ll have some cures and some breakthroughs. I’d like to think I’m going to fight my brains out to be back here again next year for the Arthur Ashe recipient. I want to give it next year! – Jim Valvano • And there are lots of drug companies that are working on cure or medicine. – Mort Kondracke • As a cure for worrying, work is better than whiskey. – • As soon as he ceased to be mad he became merely stupid. There are maladies we must not seek to cure because they alone protect us from others that are more serious. – Marcel Proust • As soon as we find a cure, we will utilize any of the donations to go toward providing medication to those who can’t afford it. That is my goal. – Montel Williams • as the physicians say it happens in hectic fever, that in the beginning of the malady it is easy to cure but difficult to detect, but in the course of time, not having been either detected or treated in the beginning, it becomes easy to detect but difficult to cure – Niccolo Machiavelli • At the heart of our misunderstanding and infantile behavior is the wish for a miracle cure. – James Howard Kunstler
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In high school, I made the first real friends I ever had because one of them came up to me at lunch and started talking about the Cure. – Sarah Vowell • Better to hunt in fields, for health unbought, Than fee the doctor for a nauseous draught, The wise, for cure, on exercise depend; God never made his work for man to mend. – John Dryden • But cord blood also holds the great potential of producing pleural potential cells that could cure many other diseases such as juvenile diabetes, a disease that I live with every day. – Dan Lipinski • But is not He who created it for the sake of the sick body more than the remedy? And is not He who cures the soul, which is more than the body, greater? – Paracelsus • But love’s a malady without a cure. – John Dryden • CAFE is like trying to cure obesity by requiring clothing manufacturers to make smaller sizes. – Bob Lutz • Capital punishment is as fundamentally wrong as a cure for crime as charity is wrong as a cure for poverty. – Henry Ford • Communism is the opiate of the intellectuals – With no cure except as a guillotine might be called a cure for dandruff. – Clare Boothe Luce • Compassion will cure more sins than condemnation. – Henry Ward Beecher • Cure for writer’s block: blow something up(in the story) – Scott Westerfeld • Cure sometimes, treat often, comfort always. – Hippocrates • Cure the symptoms, cure the disease. – Michael Crichton • Cure yourself of the inclination to bother about how you look to other people. Be concerned only . . . with the idea God has of you. – Miguel de Unamuno • Diabetes is a disease that’s had a deep impact on my family. My little brother has had type 1 diabetes since he was a baby and I have spent time learning about the disease and trying to bring attention to it so that one day soon we will reach a cure. – Izabel Goulart • Doctors can do almost anything nowadays, can’t they, unless they kill you while they’re trying to cure you. – Agatha Christie • Environmental degradation is an iatrogenic disease induced by economic physicians who treat the basic malady of unlimited wants by prescribing unlimited growth…. Yet one certainly does not cure a treatment-induced disease by increasing the treatment dosage. – Herman E. Daly • Even though I’m not running anymore, we still have to try to find a cure for cancer. Other people should go ahead and try to do their own thing now. – Terry Fox • Every man finds his limitations, Mr. Holmes, but at least it cures us of the weakness of self-satisfaction. – Arthur Conan Doyle • Every need brings in what’s needed. Pain bears its cure like a child. – Rumi • Every need brings what’s needed. Pain bears its cure like a child. Having nothing produces provisions. Ask a difficult question, And the marvelous answer appears. – Rumi • Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same – hardihood. Give them raw truth. – John Jay Chapman • Everyone has his faults which he continually repeats: neither fear nor shame can cure them. – Jean de La Fontaine • For it is with the mysteries of our religion, as with wholesome pills for the sick, which swallowed whole, have the virtue to cure; but chewed, are for the most part cast up again without effect. – Thomas Hobbes • Freedom and not servitude is the cure of anarchy; as religion, and not atheism, is the true remedy of superstition. – Edmund Burke • God’s wounds cure, sin’s kisses kill. – William Gurnall • Good Lord, I don’t know what ‘rights’ a man has! And I don’t know the solution of boredom. If I did, I’d be the one philosopher that had the cure for living. But I do know that about ten times as many people find their lives dull, and unnecessarily dull, as ever admit it; and I do believe that if we busted out and admitted it sometimes, instead of being nice and patient and loyal for sixty years, and then nice and patient and dead for the rest of eternity, why, maybe, possibly, we might make life more fun. – Sinclair Lewis • Governments, like clocks, go from the motion men give them, and as governments are made and moved by men, so by them they are ruined too. Wherefore governments rather depend upon men, than men upon governments. Let men be good, and the government cannot be bad; if it be ill, they will cure it. But if men be bad, let the government be never so good, they will endeavour to warp and spoil it to their turn. – William Penn • Great healers, people of divine realization, do not cure by chance but by exact knowledge. – Paramahansa Yogananda • Grief is itself a medicine. – William Cowper • hate is a virus, revenge its only cure! – Eric Jerome Dickey • He who cures a disease may be the skillfullest, but he that prevents it is the safest physician. – Thomas Fuller • Hitherto my observations have only aimed at a vindication of the provision in question, on the ground of theoretic propriety . . . . But there remains to be mentioned a positive advantage . . . I allude to the circumstance of uniformity in the time of elections for the House of Representatives. It is more than possible, that this uniformity may be found by experience to be of great importance to the public welfare; both as a security against the perpetuation of the same spirit in the body; and as a cure for the diseases of faction. – Alexander Hamilton • How does one cure the soul? Through the senses – Oscar Wilde • I am convinced that all our attempts to change the letter of the law and to reeducate people have been, and are, merely band-aid solutions for a fatal hemorrhage. The system will never change because our starting point is flawed. The secular view of man can neither give the grandeur that God alone can give, nor can it see the evil within the human heart that God alone can reveal and cure, for atheism implicitly denudes each individual of the grand image God has imprinted upon His creation. – Ravi Zacharias • I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death. – Robert Fulghum • I can cure your men of walking off the [flight] program. Let’s put on the girls. – Jacqueline Cochran • I cannot cure myself of that most woeful of youth’s follies – thinking that those who care about us will care for the things that mean much to us. – D. H. Lawrence • I can’t stomach any kind of notion that serious fiction is good for us, because I don’t believe that everything that’s wrong with the world has a cure. – Jonathan Franzen • I do a lot of races for the cure for breast cancer. – Mary Ann Mobley • I do not understand how anyone can, in good conscience, tell a family whose child is suffering from a life-threatening disease that politics is more important than finding a cure. – Jim Doyle • I don’t know, when I was a kid, when I would see shows that changed my life, I would go to see shows where there was my mother taking us to see classic rock concerts, like Zeppelin, or when I saw Pink Floyd or when I saw, you know, when I was a little older, and I saw Nine Inch Nails, and I saw The Cure. – Jared Leto • I don’t mind being an advocate for weed. It’s not as bad as tobacco, alcohol or firearms, for that matter. There’s no reason it shouldn’t be legalized. You can make all kinds of stuff out of hemp. I think the cure for cancer’s probably in cannabis-who knows? – Method Man • I don’t think makeup is rocket science or a cure for cancer. – Cindy Crawford • I find myself frequently depressed – perhaps more so than any other person here. And I find no better cure for that depression than to trust in the Lord with all my heart, and seek to realize afresh the power of the peace-speaking blood of Jesus, and His infinite love in dying upon the cross to put away all my transgressions. – Charles Spurgeon • I have a friend who says a beautiful painting can cure headaches, but I want it to cure a little bit more! I want it to cure the society of voting for Donald Trump. – Pat Steir • I have a perfect cure for a sore throat: cut it.- Alfred Hitchcock • I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it’s the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It’s probably the most important thing in a person. – Audrey Hepburn • I love science, and it pains me to think that so many are terrified of the subject or feel that choosing science means you cannot also choose compassion, or the arts, or be awed by nature. Science is not meant to cure us of mystery, but to reinvent and reinvigorate it. – Robert M. Sapolsky • I may have found the cure for cancer, and I think it might be Thom Yorke Serum. – Thom Yorke • I see the cure is not worth the pain. – Plutarch • I think every bowl game is exciting, but when you get to play in a bowl game that represents a cause that the Cure Bowl represents, I think that’s an honor. – Scott Frost • I think on the efficiency level, not only the distribution level, capitalism is a flawed system. It probably has the same virtues as Churchill attributed to democracy: It’s the worst system except for any other. And I think that’s right, but it cannot be thought that some unmitigated belief in free markets is a cure even from the efficiency point of view. – Kenneth Arrow • I think that one of the causes of these repeated failures is that our best and greatest men have greatly underestimated the size of this question (slavery). They have constantly brought forward small cures for great sores-plasters too small to cover the wound. That is one reason that all settlements have proved so temporary-so evanescent. – Abraham Lincoln • I try to give to the poor people for love what the rich could get for money. No, I wouldn’t touch a leper for a thousand pounds; yet I willingly cure him for the love of God. – Mother Teresa • I’m addicted to your allure and I’m fiending for a cure. – Christina Aguilera • Ideas devour the ages as men are devoured by their passions. When man is cured, human nature will cure itself perhaps. – Honore de Balzac • If a little dreaming is dangerous, the cure for it is not to dream less but to dream more, to dream all the time. – Marcel Proust • If family violence teaches children that might makes right at home, how will we hope to cure the futile impulse to solve worldly conflicts with force? – Letty Cottin Pogrebin • If I could get every single cancer genome sequence that has been sequenced; if I could ever put it in one repository, we have the capacity to do a million billion calculations per second. We’ll be able to find out more in 10 minutes more than it would take 10 Nobel laureates 10 years to find out about the patterns of cancer and the cures for cancer. – Joe Biden • If I found a cure for a huge disease, while I was hobbling up onstage to accept the Nobel Prize they’d be playing the theme song from ‘Three’s Company’. – John Ritter • If the cause of poverty is marginalization, the cure is inclusion. – Richard John Neuhaus • If the federal government is truly serious about doing something with the AIDS virus, we need to take steps that would isolate the carriers of this plague…. It is difficult to understand the public policy towards AIDS. It is the first time in the history of civilization in which the carriers of a genuine plague have not been isolated from the general population, and in which this deadly disease for which there is no cure is being treated as a civil rights issue instead of the true health crisis it represents. – Mike Huckabee • If there is a remedy or a cure, a solution to a problem or difficulty, why worry? – Matthieu Ricard • If you are too fond of new remedies, first you will not cure your patients; secondly, you will have no patients to cure. – Astley Cooper • If you do a good job for others, you heal yourself at the same time, because a dose of joy is a spiritual cure. – Dietrich Bonhoeffer • In a high tech world the cure for the tragic shortcomings and perilous fallacies of human intuition is education, but education in economics, evolutionary biology, probability and statistics – unfortunately most High School and College curricula have barely changed since Medieval times! – Steven Pinker • In all of history, we have found just one cure for error—a partial antidote against making and repeating grand, foolish mistakes, a remedy against self-deception. That antidote is criticism. – David Brin • In everyone there sleeps. A sense of life lived according to love. To some it means the difference they could make. By loving others, but across most it sweeps. As all they might have done had they been loved. That nothing cures.- Philip Larkin • In the mathematics I can report no deficience, except that it be that men do not sufficiently understand the excellent use of the pure mathematics, in that they do remedy and cure many defects in the wit and faculties intellectual. For if the wit be too dull, they sharpen it; if too wandering, they fix it; if too inherent in the sense, they abstract it. – Roger Bacon • It is a happy circumstance in human affairs that evils which are not cured in one way will cure themselves in some other. – Thomas Jefferson • It is a mistake that there is no bath that will cure people’s manners, but drowning would help. – Mark Twain • It is a strange form of anger, difficult to cure, when two friends turn upon each other in hatred. – Euripides • It is not a nature cure, a system of faith healing, or a physical culture, or a medical treatment, or a semi-occult philosophy. As to what it is, Dewey’s brief but striking description appeals most and has the least chance of being proved incorrect: ‘It the Alexander Technique bears the same relation to education that education itself bears to all other human activities.’ – John Dewey • It is safer and wiser to cure unhealthy rivalry than to suppress it. – Obafemi Awolowo • It may be concluded that a pure democracy . . . can admit no cure for the mischiefs of faction. – James Madison • It was Christianity which first painted the devil on the worlds walls; It was Christianity which first brought sin into the world. Belief in the cure which it offered has now been shaken to it’s deepest roots; but belief in the sickness which it taught and propagated continues to exists. – Friedrich Nietzsche • It was hell to go through what I went through. I didn’t know I had so many friends. Many people gave a damn about my situation. They helped cure me. – Bela Lugosi • It’s all about time, dimwit time, inferior time, people checking watches and other devices, other reminders. This is time draining out of our lives. Cities were built to measure time, to remove time from nature. There’s an endless counting down, he said. When you strip away surfaces, when you see into it, what’s left is terror. This is the thing that literature was meant to cure. The epic poem, the bedtime story. – Don DeLillo • Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat… Never take yourself too seriously. – Og Mandino • Let nothing which can be treated by diet be treated by other means. – Maimonides • Love cures people – both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it. – Karl A. Menninger • Love is the beginning, the middle, and the end of the pathway of discipleship. It comforts, counsels, cures, and consoles. It leads us through valleys of darkness and through the veil of death. In the end love leads us to the glory and grandeur of eternal life. – Joseph B. Wirthlin • Love is the cure, for your pain will keep giving birth to more pain until your eyes constantly exhale love as effortlessly as your body yields its scent. – Rumi • Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives. – Louise Hay • Many dishes many diseases, Many medicines few cures.- Benjamin Franklin • Medical science has proven time and again that when the resources are provided, great progress in the treatment, cure, and prevention of disease can occur. – Michael J. Fox • More important is the fact that embryonic stem cell research could lead to new treatments and cures for the many Americans afflicted with life-threatening and debilitating diseases. – Ron Kind • Movies are fun, but they’re not a cure for cancer. – Warren Beatty • Much smoking kills live men and cures dead swine. – George D. Prentice • My best friends when I was young were always doctors. I used to dress up in a white gauze helmet and go round and see babies born and cadavers cut open. This fascinated me, but I could never bring myself to disciplining myself to the point where I could learn all the details that one has to learn to be a good doctor. This is the sort of opposition: somebody who deals directly with human experiences, is able to cure, to mend, to help, this sort of thing. – Sylvia Plath • My body grew hot, then cold. I tried to eat the bed sheets. My heart beat madly. Every joint in my body ached. When I took the cure they took it all away from me. – Bela Lugosi • My father invented a cure for which there was no disease and unfortunately my mother caught it and died of it. – Victor Borge • My wish is, that the Convention may adopt no temporizing expedient, but probe the defects of the Constitution [i.e., the Articles of Confederation] to the bottom, and provide radical cures. – George Washington • No disorders have employed so many quacks, as those that have no cure; and no sciences have exercised so many quills, as those that have no certainty. – Charles Caleb Colton • No other method in this world is able to cure/rectify the demons that exist within human beings in this world – only nature and the animal kingdom, but you also have to bring through your participation and diligent application in facing the demons within. – Timothy Treadwell • Noble deeds and hot baths are the best cures for depression.- Dodie Smith • Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul. – Oscar Wilde • Nothing is wrong with California that a rise in the ocean level wouldn’t cure. – Ross Macdonald • Nowhere is it more true that “prevention is better than cure,” than in the case of Parasitic Diseases. – Rudolf Leuckart • Of all ills that one endures, hope is a cheap and universal cure. – Abraham Cowley • Oh, insomnia! Ah, well, I know a good cure for it… Get plenty of sleep. – W. C. Fields • One of the best temporary cures for pride and affectation is seasickness; a man who wants to vomit never puts on airs.- Josh Billings • Only desperation can account for what the Chinese do in the name of ‘medicine.’ That’s something you might remind your New Age friends who’ve gone gaga over ‘holistic medicine’ and ‘alternative Chinese cures. – Anthony Bourdain • Participate joyfully in the sorrows of the world. We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy. – Joseph Campbell • People always called the Cure gloomy, but listening to the Cure made me happy. There was something about the gloominess that gave me comfort, and I think we’re the same way. – Billy Corgan • People who want a cure, provided they can have it without pain, are like those who favour progress, provided they can have it without change. – Anthony de Mello • People with the boat bug are never happier than when they are poking around marinas, fantasizing about owning other people’s boats. It’s a disease that costs more to cure than any other single common learning disability. – Randy Wayne • Philosophy, like medicine, has plenty of drugs, few good remedies, and hardly any specific cures. – Nicolas Chamfort • Physicians must discover the weaknesses of the human mind, and even condescend to humor them, or they will never be called in to cure the infirmities of the body. – Charles Caleb Colton • Physicians of the utmost fame, Were called at once; but when they came They answered, as they took their fees, ‘There is no Cure for this Disease.’ – Hilaire Belloc • Posterity has never made the grave’s embrace less cruel. It simply assuages our fear of death, because there is no better cure for out inevitable morality then the illusion of a beautiful eternity. But there is one illusion I still hold dear: that is the thought of an enlightened nation. That is the only future I still dream of. – Yasmina Khadra • Precaution is better than cure. – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe • Prevention is better than cure. – Desiderius Erasmus • Psychoanalysis is the mental illness it purports to cure – Karl Kraus • Red is the ultimate cure for sadness. – Bill Blass • Remember laughing? Laughter enhances the blood flow to the body’s extremities and improves cardiovascular function. Laughter releases endorphins and other natural mood elevating and pain-killing chemicals, improves the transfer of oxygen and nutrients to internal organs. Laughter boosts the immune system and helps the body fight off disease, cancer cells as well as viral, bacterial and other infections. Being happy is the best cure of all diseases! – Patch Adams • Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all – the apathy of human beings. – Helen Keller • Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope of a cure. – Jane Austen • She frowned at him. ‘You are in love with solitude.’ ‘Is there a better cure for the world than solitude? – Meg Rosoff • She knew the intensity of adolescence, and knew no cure for it except growing up. And then one has age and experience, and mourns the loss of intensity. Maybe it’s why musicians and mathmaticians are said to peak young-poetry needs the fire of an unbounded universe. – Sara Paretsky • Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung • Some cures are worse than the dangers they combat. – Seneca the Younger • Some of the very greatest gifts bring an inevitable downside which you cannot “cure” without curing the gift at the same time. – Stephanie S. Tolan • Somebody told me I should put a pebble in my mouth to cure my stuttering. Well, I tried it, and during a scene I swallowed the pebble. That was the end of that. – Jean Rostand • Sometimes my need to love hurts– myself, my family, my cause. Is there a cure? Of course. But I refuse. Refuse to stop loving, to stop caring. To avoid those tears, that pain…To err on the side of passion is human and right and the only way I’ll live. – Jon Krakauer • Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.- Henri Nouwen • Stem cell research holds out the promise of finding cures and treatments for a wide range of diseases. – Tom Allen • Strong leaders understand that action cures indecision – Toyotomi Hideyoshi • The art of medicine consists in amusing the patient while nature cures the disease. – Voltaire • The best cure for hypochondria is to forget about your body and get interested in somebody else’s. – Goodman Ace • The best cure for procrastination is to have so much on your plate that procrastination is no longer an option. – Tavi Gevinson • The best cure for the body is a quiet mind. – Napoleon Bonaparte • The bitterness of the potion, and the abhorrence of the patient are necessary circumstances to the operation. It must be something to trouble and disturb the stomach that must purge and cure it. – Michel de Montaigne • The canter is a cure for every evil. – Benjamin Disraeli • The cure for a fallacious argument is a better argument, not the suppression of ideas. – Carl Sagan • The cure for admiring the House of Lords is to go and look at it. – Walter Bagehot • The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea. – Isak Dinesen • The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity. – Dorothy Parker • The cure for crime is not the electric chair, but the high chair.- J. Edgar Hoover • The cure for evil and disorder is more liberty, not suppression. – Alexander Berkman • The degree of polarization that currently exists in Washington is such where I think it’s fair to say if I presented a cure for cancer, getting legislation passed to move that forward would be a nail-biter. – Barack Obama • The disease is painless; it’s the cure that hurts. – Katharine Whitehorn • The doctor has been taught to be interested not in health but in disease. What the public is taught is that health is the cure for disease. – Ashley Montagu • The doctor of the future will no longer treat the human frame with drugs, but rather will cure and prevent disease with nutrition. – Thomas A. Edison • The general (federal) government will tend to monarchy, which will fortify itself from day to day, instead of working its own cures. – Thomas Jefferson • The good Lord send out a spirit of mortification to cure our distempers, or we are in a sad condition! – John Owen • The government is huge, stupid, greedy and makes nosy, officious and dangerous intrusions into the smallest corners of life – this much we can stand. But the real problem is that government is boring. We could cure or mitigate the other ills Washington visits on us if we could only bring ourselves to pay attention to Washington itself. But we cannot. – P. J. O’Rourke • The monopoly of a single bank is certainly an evil. The multiplication of them was intended to cure it; but it multiplied an influence of the same character with the first, and completed the supplanting the precious metals by a paper circulation. Between such parties the less we meddle the better. – Thomas Jefferson • The only cure for a real hangover is death. – Robert Benchley • The only cure for contempt is counter-contempt. – H. L. Mencken • The only cure for grief is action. – George Henry Lewes • The secret of being miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. The cure for it is occupation, because occupation means pre-occupation; and the pre-occupied person is neither happy nor unhappy, but simply alive and active. That is why it is necessary to happiness that one should be tired. – George Bernard Shaw • The sovereign cure for worry is prayer. – William James • The squeeze machine is not going to cure anybody, but it may help them relax; and a relaxed person will usually have better behavior. – Temple Grandin • The standard formulation on remedy is that it ought to cure past violations and prevent their recurrence. That’s what antitrust is all about. – Charles James • The surest cure for vanity is loneliness. – Tom Wolfe • The worst forms of depression are cured when Holy Scripture is believed. – Charles Spurgeon • Then we heard the rumours: that the last scientists were working on a cure that would end the plague and restore the world. Restore it? Why? I like the death! I like the misery! I like this world! – Vincent Klyn • There are no such things as incurables. There are only things for which man has not found a cure. – Bernard Baruch • There are two kinds of cloning right now. One is therapeutic cloning which is for coming up with cures for life threatening, really, really awful diseases. Then there is reproductive cloning, which is to make a human being out of your DNA and a donor egg – Mary Tyler Moore • There are two reasons for drinking wine…when you are thirsty, to cure it; the other, when you are not thirsty, to prevent it… prevention is better than cure. – Thomas Love Peacock • There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval. – George Santayana • There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval. The dark background which death supplies brings out the tender colours of life in all their purity. – George Santayana • There is no cure for emphysema, but you can start treating it and have a better quality of life. – Loni Anderson • There is no cure for the pride of a virtuous nation but pure religion.- Reinhold Niebuhr • There is no short and easy road, no magic cure for those ills which have afflicted mankind from the dawn of history. – Frank B. Kellogg • There is nothing in socialism that a little age or a little money will not cure.- Will Durant • There is nothing wrong with America that faith, love of freedom, intelligence, and energy of her citizens cannot cure.- Dwight D. Eisenhower • There is only one cure for gray hair. It was invented by a Frenchman. It is called the guillotine. – P. G. Wodehouse • There is still no cure for the common birthday. – John Glenn • There must be quite a few things that a hot bath won’t cure, but I don’t know many of them. – Sylvia Plath • There’s something to be said for useless days. You know, those days when you have nothing to do and all day to do it … Trust me, a beach and a bottomless drink may not cure the world’s problems but it can really get your head in the right place. Those are my favorite kind of days. – Kenny Chesney • These days I must take the world in small and carefully measured doses. It is a sort of homeopathic cure I am undergoing, though I am not certain what this cure is meant to mend. Perhaps I am learning to live amongst the living again. Practising, I mean. But no, that is not it. Being here is just a way of not being anywhere. – John Banville • They say even death can’t cure an idiot. -Ririn – Tite Kubo • Think of a single problem confronting the world today. Disease, poverty, global warming… If the problem is going to be solved, it is science that is going to solve it. Scientists tend to be unappreciated in the world at large, but you can hardly overstate the importance of the work they do. If anyone ever cures cancer, it will be a guy with a science degree. Or a woman with a science degree. – Bill Bryson • This is the curse of our age, even the strangest aberrations are no cure for boredom. – Stendhal • This syndrome, SARS, is now a worldwide health threat… The world needs to work together to find its cause, cure the sick and stop its spread. – Gro Harlem Brundtland • Those diseases which medicines do not cure, iron cures; those which iron cannot cure, fire cures; and those which fire cannot cure, are to be reckoned wholly incurable. – Hippocrates • Though all afflictions are evils in themselves, yet they are good for us, because they discover to us our disease and tend to our cure. – John Tillotson • Though I often looked for one, I finally had to admit that there could be no cure for Paris. – Paula McLain • Time is an herb that cures all Diseases. – Benjamin Franklin
• ‘Tis folly in one Nation to look for disinterested favors from another; that it must pay with a portion of its Independence for whatever it may accept under that character; that by such acceptance, it may place itself in the condition of having given equivalents for nominal favours and yet of being reproached with ingratitude for not giving more. There can be no greater error than to expect, or calculate upon real favours from Nation to Nation. ‘Tis an illusion which experience must cure, which a just pride ought to discard. – George Washington • Tis not always in a physician’s power to cure the sick; at times the disease is stronger than trained art. – Ovid • To cure a batting slump, I took my bat to bed with me. I wanted to know my bat a little better. – Richie Ashburn • To cure jealousy is to see it for what it is, a dissatisfaction with self. – Joan Didion • To cure the British disease with socialism was like trying to cure leukaemia with leeches. – Margaret Thatcher • To cure the violence, we must identify and heal the causes of hatred and violence. If we dont deal with the causes we will never be safe. – Peter Yarrow • To cure us of our immoderate love of gain, we should seriously consider how many goods there are that money will not purchase, and these the best; and how many evils there are that money will not remedy, and these the worst. – Charles Caleb Colton • To feel our ills is one thing, but to cure them is another. – Ovid • Travel, in the superficial sense at least, is a good cure for loneliness. When you travel, especially in the third world, you quickly find that you get more friends than you know what to do with. – Pico Iyer • Ulcerative colitis can be cured by the operation, but you cannot cure Crohn’s disease. – Mary Ann Mobley • Understanding does not cure evil, but it is a definite help, inasmuch as one can cope with a comprehensible darkness. – Carl Jung • Undeveloped though the science [of chemistry] is, it already has great power to bring benefits. Those accruing to physical welfare are readily recognized, as in providing cures, improving the materials needed for everyday living, moving to ameliorate the harm which mankind by its sheer numbers does to the environment, to say nothing of that which even today attends industrial development. And as we continue to improve our understanding of the basic science on which applications increasingly depend, material benefits of this and other kinds are secured for the future. – Henry Taube • We all have private ails. The troublemakers are they who need public cures for their private ails.- Eric Hoffer • We all labour against our own cure, for death is the cure of all diseases. – Thomas Browne • We are a caring nation, and our values should also guide us on how we harness the gifts of science. New medical breakthroughs bring the hope of cures for terrible diseases and treatments that can improve the lives of millions. Our challenge is to make sure that science serves the cause of humanity instead of the other way around. – George W. Bush • We are all potentially such sick men. The sanest and best of us are of one clay with lunatics and prison-inmates. And whenever we feel this, such a sense of the vanity of our voluntary career comes over us, that all our morality appears but as a plaster hiding a sore it can never cure, and all our well-doing as the hollowest substitute for that well-being that our lives ought to be grounded in, but alas! are not. – William James • We can endure neither our vices nor their cure. – Livy • We cannot idealize technology. Technology is only and always the reflection of our own imagination, and its uses must be conditioned by our own values. Technology can help cure diseases, but we can prevent a lot of diseases by old-fashioned changes in behavior. – William J. Clinton • We don’t devote enough scientific research to finding a cure for jerks. – Bill Watterson • We have known about the placebo effect for many years. This is a remarkable effect – placebo can cure 30 percent in many cases. – Matthieu Ricard • We Spaniards know a sickness of the heart that only gold can cure. • What sense would it make or what would it benfit a physician if he discovered the origin of the diseases but could not cure or alleviate them?- Paracelsus • When thinking won’t cure fear, action will. – W. Clement Stone • When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand.- Henri Nouwen • When you sing gospel you have a feeling there is a cure for what’s wrong. – Mahalia Jackson • Whiskey is by far the most popular of all remedies that won’t cure a cold. – Jerry Vale • Why do you hasten to remove anything which hurts your eye, while if something affects your soul you postpone the cure until next year? -Horace • Within the Scripture there is a balm for every wound, a salve for every sore. – Charles Spurgeon • Work cures everything. – Henri Matisse • Work is its own cure. You have to like it better than being loved. – Marge Piercy • Worry is spiritual short sight… Its cure is intelligent faith. – Paul Brunton • Yes, he’s like a rash for which there’s no cure. It only goes away for a bit before returning unexpectedly to ruin every pleasurable experience. He should have been named Herpes rather than ZT. Or maybe just Herpes Z, since he’s a very special irritant. (Arik) – Sherrilyn Kenyon • Yes, she is.” He looks at me, his face carved in pain. “She is dying, Sara. She will die, either tonight or tomorrow or maybe a year from now if we’re really lucky. You heard what Dr. Chance said. Arsenic’s not a cure. It just postpones what’s coming.” My eyes fill up with tears. “But I love her,” I say, because that is reason enough. – Jodi Picoult • You can die of the cure before you die of the illness. – Michael Landon • You know, the cure for all this talk is really a good dose of incompetent government. You get that alternative and you’ll never put Singapore together again: Humpty Dumpty cannot be put together again… my asset values will disappear, my apartments will be worth a fraction of what they were, my ministers’ jobs will be in peril, their security will be at risk and their women will become maids in other people’s countries, foreign workers. – Lee Kuan Yew • You use hypnosis not as a cure but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn. – Milton H. Erickson • You’re a disease. And I’m the cure. – Sylvester Stallone • You’re on earth. There’s no cure for that. – Samuel Beckett • You’ve got to have some adversity and learn from it. I’m working hard, but I didn’t expect a cure in one day. You learn. You move on. You hold your head up. You go on to the next day. – Chuck Knoblauch
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"Tell me about a time when you failed. What did you learn from the experience?" The common trope of an answer is: "Candidate X screws up, but with no major or irreparable harm done. The situation doesn't unveil some kind of fatal flaw, but rather an easily explained mistake. And in fact an important lesson was learned that paves the way to a brighter future." My story? To paraphrase Game of Thrones, "If you're looking for a happy ending, you've come to the wrong place." Sort of. Flashback to winter 2009. I was three-and-a-half years into my time at McKinsey. I'd had a pretty traditional path at the Firm: from b-school summer, to full-time associate, to junior engagement manager (EM), to experienced EM building client and functional homes. While every project presented its unique challenges, I had the general approach down through dozens of client engagements. I had a good track record. My spikes were in problem-solving and running through brick walls to get things done. I was preparing to take on a new project which would require spending a good chunk of time spent overseas. I knew the client and quite a bit about the specific focus of the study, for which I had a lot of passion. I also had worked with one of the lead partners on the engagement. The international aspect was new for me, and being away from my family for long stretches would be a challenge. But, I figured that a) it would be a good test to see whether I was in this consulting game for the long haul, and b) I could handle it. After all, it was just one project, and this was far from my first rodeo. A mere three weeks later, life was hell. The team was working until all hours of the night and throughout the weekend. We were churning out powerpoint decks that the main clients were figuratively crapping all over (possibly literally as well). Unhappy clients lead to stressed out partners, which in turn lead to constant calls that make the team crank even harder... although not necessarily more effectively. We were spiraling out of control in the vicious cycle of a failing team. Staggering back into the upscale hotel that had become a virtual jail cell for me one evening, I looked at my reflection in the elevator doors and wondered how it all could have gone so horribly wrong. There were a lot of potential excuses. The client was way behind in the market, both in share and in years- lack of satisfaction with our "strategy recommendations" was inevitable. I also had learned a week or so in, that we had actually done a similar study not once, but TWICE before for the same client (albeit for different people at the client) over the last 18 months. The team setup was also not ideal, with multiple Partners involved, giving wildly different direction at times. The scope was expansive. But I couldn't shake the fact that there was one simple root cause of our struggles and mistakes: the problem was me. In the thick of the battle, I couldn't figure out how to break us out of the death spiral and get us back on track. It was a disaster. Eventually, the team took evasive action in order to salvage the engagement and actually deliver some value for the client: The associate principal was anointed lead Partner, stepped up and provided clear direction for the entire teamThey brought on another engagement manager. Although I stayed on the project until the end, I effectively stepped back into a senior associate role again and owned a set of workstreams, no longer the entire studyThe actual associates on the team pulled things together on their workstreams In the end, as a team we delivered on what we committed to at the beginning of the engagement. Check the box. However, it took us longer than planned, with significantly more resources than expected. And the team really suffered during that time, top-to-bottom. Even more importantly, I believe the impact our engagement had for the client was hurt by the sub-par way in which the study proceeded. Looking back on it, our recommendations were sound and would have set them up to be in much better shape today... if they had followed them. BUT they didn't. Is it fair to put that on the hired guns... the people that write decks but don't have the ownership to execute? Maybe not. But as consultants, we pride ourselves on our ability to influence. We spend countless hours on clear thinking and communication, developing actionable recommendations, and establishing relationships. So as I see it, if the brilliant answer doesn't get executed, it's on us. I can't see how a self-respecting consultant could think otherwise and abdicate responsibility. To this day, over four years later, I still put the sub-par nature of the study, which may have contributed to their lack of faith in the findings and subsequent lack of follow-through, on my shoulders. As the engagement manager, you're QB1. The team goes largely as you go. And on this particular study, I failed. What could I have done differently? I've thought about that a lot. There were a number of tactical things that contributed to the team's struggles... decisions around how much time to allocate to different activities, who to include in different discussions, how to tell the story around our findings. Going back, I would change a lot of those things. A lot of little things. However, having given it some time, I now realize that there was one fundamental thing that I needed to do that I didn't: I needed to lead. And with the benefit of hindsight, I now see that what I was doing was not leading. I WAS driving against a gantt chart workplan we developed at the beginning of the engagement. I had the team making powerpoint pages to populate the sections of a deck, against a story I had constructed with the partners early on. I was deferring to more senior people from my Firm and from the client. I was scheduling and conducting meetings. I was being an administrator.I WAS NOT actively questioning whether we were doing the right thing by taking on this engagement for arguably a third time. I was not pushing back on the senior client aggressively and "speaking truth to power." I was not helping the team cut through the BS in order to get to the right answer. I was not evangelizing that answer and being a force for change with the key clients. I was not being a leader. I realize now that for all the great skills I had developed during my formative years in consulting (structured problem-solving, story-telling, managing projects), I had developed some really bad habits too (conformity, deference, conservatism). I had fallen into traps that take good consultants and suck the value-add right out of them. And on this particular engagement, these things contributed mightily to my struggles and my ultimate downfall as an EM. It's hard to come back from a misstep at McKinsey.People do it, of course. Noteworthy was the Director Emeritus I met early on, who claimed to have been "counseled to leave" on three different occasions before being elected to senior partner. However, screwing up an engagement is a little like having an off-year in the Big Leagues where you hit .220. Yes, you could come back from that, especially if you had a decent track record before. But you'll need someone to take a chance on you. And even then, it's going to be a ton of work rebuilding your reputation. I stuck around the Firm for another couple months. I benefited from having an extremely supportive group surrounding me on that international engagement, allowing me to finish out my tour of duty with some degree of satisfaction and pride intact. I then had a few more engagements that were relatively more successful- happier clients, happier teams. But in the end, like many before me, I left the Firm. What led me to leave wasn't the hard work it would take to get my McK rep back in shape. Rather, it was two critical realizations: I want to make decisions more than I want to influence decision-makers. When you hit this point, you know consulting is no longer for you at a very fundamental levelI care about my family. This big international engagement caused me to make personal sacrifices that make it all seem not worth it, no matter how hard or easy the study I look back fondly at my time at McK and credit it for making me into a professional, I refer to what I learned from the place. I go to the occasional reunion. But I don't have any regrets about leaving the Firm and take pride in what I was able to accomplish when I was there. Still, even today, I think back on this particular experience often. You might forget some of your successes and accolades, but you never forget your failures. I remind myself to continually seek out ways to lead, and to keep from going through the motions. I actively engage. I push my team members to find the high-impact path, even if it's not necessarily the one we'd originally set out on. I call bullshit on things. I also force myself to step back from whatever firedrill my team or others might be engaged in and think about whether we're doing the right things or if we have our collective heads up our... you get the idea. It's served me well so far and made work a lot more fulfilling. (note: this is that "paves the way to a brighter future" part for me) It's also made me feel like I can be myself at work much more than I did as a member of the Firm. Perhaps it was the thing about representing a collective partnership, serving a particular client paying a pretty penny, or just the overwhelming legacy of the place. Clients were just as likely to refer to me as "McKinsey" as they were by my first name. I know many still at the Firm that have been able to maintain a distinct style and sense of individuality throughout... I just couldn't do it myself while I was there. For those thousands of fresh recruits about to start with McK or other professional services firms, I'd leave you with the advice Columbia B-School professor (and former McK EM), Hitendra Wadhwa, gave to me before I signed on full-time: "Always remember that you're smart." Each one of you will be challenged on a daily basis- by your clients, and even more fiercely by your own teams. And each of you will stumble, if not fall, at some point. Remembering that you're "smart," and the confidence that comes with that- the confidence to pick yourself up and to continually lead- is what will sustain you and help you to ultimately succeed.
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