#and it's even harder because ppl have become so excessively judgemental now

[buckleydiazmp4]

hm.

#i guess a lot of ppl will disagree or whatever but #that post about the 'weird cliques' forming on tumblr? i agree with it actually #and a lot of ppl justify it by saying that they all share passions and are similar and interact a lot and that's bound to happen #and yeah maybe they're right #but it doesn't mean everyone likes that #because for the people that don't belong to those 'cliques' it just takes the fun out of the experience #like specifically in fandoms #if you're in a fandom that fandom probably has a looot of members #but when there are like ten or fifteen or a small number like that that have formed their own little group #and then they post stuff about it out of context and all you see in your dash is those interactions #then it's less enjoyable for you because it kinda feels like you're intruding #and sure. everybody has the right to make friends in here. that's cool and everything #but some people aren't the kind to just randomly go into somebody's inbox or messages and just instantly make a lot of friends #and it's even harder because ppl have become so excessively judgemental now #like if you don't have the exact same opinions in every topic that they do #then you're instantly 'cancelled' or blocked or unfollowed #how are we supposed to try to make friends that way? #so logging into tumblr end up becoming stressful and boring instead of a place to enjoy your passions and your favorite things #it's kinda sad #i am NOT writing all this for ppl to take pity on me though #that would be very much worse #it's just to voice that opinion about 'cliques' and exclusion #and listen you're free to have a tumblr friend group #just don't make all of your public posts about that! there's group chats and private messages for a reason. use the more pls #again i don't mean to sound salty or judgy or mean #it's just an opinion #it's just that this is kind of becoming the same social dynamic of real life #and that's cool! it makes for a more realistic experience or whatever #but for those who have trouble socially interacting in real life it's not fun #end of rant and i actually kinda hope nobody reads this whole thing lol