#also furthermore the discussion that crops up abt ‘reading abt people u dont relate to’ is so strange

[luobingmeis]

lrb i think something very. interesting. that has cropped up from the push for “good pure moral media” is that it has simultaneously brought the “push for representation” movement—something that is good and should be promoted bc all different types of people should be represented in media, not just the white/cis/het/able-bodied—to this idea that media should at all times be Representative. like maybe it’s just a slight difference but i think a lot abt that post that occasionally goes around that’s like “if ur writing just to check of a series of boxes in representation, ur gonna end up with very flat characters.” like, yes, A Lot of the conversation abt representation also began with a lot of media falling into the trope that the only Black/queer/disabled character was also the villain, which then in turn causes negative associations while also feeding into stereotypes one way or another, so i won’t discredit that. but Now it’s like. how much media upholds itself on “finally being pure representation.” finally showing “good people.” like yes at all times u should be cognizant of Who ur representing and in What way (who is the villain, who is the antagonist, who is being upheld as the good heroic one, etc), but sometimes it just feels like. “everyone in this media has to be good and pure to prove it’s not like degenerative ~other~ media” (op’s note: heavy sarcasm there) or it feels like “if we don’t represent everyone here in a way that is relatable to every viewer and if they are not all good and pure then we will be torn apart.” which then feeds into the concept of “relatability” which, again, i feel like used to be about how like. you can relate to a character even if they are not like you (which tbh i believe that you shouldn’t have to relate to a character at all to enjoy and understand a story but i digress bc the main point and this one are not mutually exclusive), and now has become a bit. hm. like things are upheld as universally relatable Because of how good and pure it is? and that it Should be relatable and if it isn’t that’s Your problem.” or the even more fun “why are you consuming this media if you don’t relate to it/the characters aren’t like you” because apparently fiction is made solely so you can relate to it and not because it’s art that can be, yes, related to, but also appreciated and understood without needing to point at it and be like “that guy is like me.”

which is all to say i think more people need to read more books where the characters you love do stuff that makes you say “hey that’s fucked up.” and then you realize you still love the character and it does not change your Real Person Morals because you have come to the realization that the books you are reading as an adult are meant to entertain and are not the same as the books you read when you were five years old (you know, the ones that were meant to teach you that lying is bad and hitting people is wrong).

which is all to say (part two) that we should also not go completely opposite end of the spectrum bc that is how we cycle back to “””coincidentally””” making the only minority character the villain and perpetuating stereotypes left and right. so maybe there’s a nice middle ground.

#anyways i think ************ is fun and cute but the way the fans are showing their whole entire ass on twitter #upholding it as the epitome of good pure representation while also being very racist abt it #has really got me thinking #and also my more hot take i have begun to hate the push for needing to relate to characters #*hot take in a sarcastic/joking way. if i could edit tags on mobile i would take that out bc it feels dismissive of the prev point #and i am someone who has /related/ to characters #and still do!! #but sometimes it feels like. #there is this idea that if u cannot relate and project #and treat a professionally published character as just a mold for u to shape and take away from canon #and essentially make into an oc #then there’s something wrong with the media #also furthermore the discussion that crops up abt ‘reading abt people u dont relate to’ is so strange #bc there was such a push to publish all different kinds of stories #(rightfully so) #but now sometimes u see discourse and it’s like #people very much view consuming media as just a way to see urself /and only that and nothing else/ #and thus if u consume something that doesn’t represent who u are- u must have bad intentions #(which isn’t to say that relating or wanting to see urself is inherently bad #absolutely not! #but it’s like. art in general needs to be made and treated as /more/ #bc if it just works to represent and nothing else #we will just keep having these moral panics and less and less nuance)