#aaaand there are more closely related people to complain about penders than EchidnaFan123 here :P

[julie-su]

You used to be so petty.. give in! Bite and kill!

No-- I USED to be a teenager with unchecked anger management issues :P

My state of Zen includes getting petty and pedantic to friends and family in private, and then letting it wash over me and fly away. I've nothing petty to say, I already sent it off downstream!

-- A little bit of pettiness and cattiness is healthy. But not thrown onto a public forum, where it may so live forever, stacked and seeping with loathing, and forever a part of you, and whatever it may be you are striking at. You don't know who idolises you on the internet, and how many strangers will take your minor petty grievances, and double down fuelled by your words. I chose responsibility over the catharsis of being rude on the internet, ha.

It's just better not to air out my petty grievances to say mean things out loud on the internet, I've found.

#when I DO kick off online - that's when you know I'm truly miffed #aaaand there are more closely related people to complain about penders than EchidnaFan123 here :P #I've never even talked to the guy #there are better people to tell tales of him XD