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halliescomut · 9 months

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I defended Lom, but now I shall talk about Nuea

So...a lot of this is going to be a bit rant-y, because honestly there's some reactions that have been going on that really aggravate me. But I wanted to talk more about Nuea as a character in the show, and how I think he's being presented. You hear (for reasons unknown) a lot of discussion over how Lom is almost tricking Nuea by withholding the fact that his arrangement and marriage to Yiwa is in name only. I have so many problems with this read on the situation. While it is VERY common for BLs to use naivety as a trope, it's actually surprisingly rare to see from Mame. It's not one of her go-to's and so I was actually really surprised at how many people saw Nuea as 'innocent' (read virginal) or naive. We saw a similar reaction with Sky, this idea that he's an innocent little lamb, and I kind of figured that was because that's what Rain was. Rain was clearly modeled to be this sort of ingénue-style character, young, wide-eyed, innocent to an extent, but also experimental, not constrained by societal boundaries. But what the first encounter with Prapai showed was that he was not only not innocent, but experienced. Now granted many of his experiences were likely awful and traumatic, but Gun likely didn't got straight from 1 to 100, abusers rarely do, but there's also no clarity at all on whether Sky had any other intimate partners of his own choosing, whether a relationship or just another one-night stand. But circling back to my actual point, I think there are many viewers for which LITA was their first experience with Mame, and they believe Rain to be the blueprint for her 'bottoms' when in reality he's an outlier.

How this affects the perception of Nuea, is that since he is shown to be a fairly quiet, sensitive, kind person, some viewers began making assumptions. They assume that he's not physically experienced, that he's submissive, or even shy, and that's not really the case. We don't see much to indicate that at all in the show. He's very vocal for a lot of the show. He expresses his concerns to his boss freely, without concern for reprisal, and this certainly due at least in part to the type of boss she is, but even if she were some angry, obstinate crone, I doubt that would have stopped him. He's very vocal and honest in his conversations with Lom all through the series. He doesn't put up with any of Lom's rich/privileged BS. His kindness and empathy throughout is more a show of strength than anything. He's able to pretty easily get the results he wants without being rude, or mean. Even in his frustration with Lom, he's not vicious, but exasperated, reacting to Lom's childishness more like an exhausted nanny than anything else.

Nuea is confident, like really confident. He's confident in his abilities and skill at work. He's a confident gay man, he doesn't shy away from sex. His hesitation in regards to sleeping with Lom initially is based only on his knowledge of the likely fall-out (especially emotionally). Once we get to this most recent episode it's very clear that he has no hesitation in being an active and passionate partner.

I'm willing to bet after the absolute boss way that he shut down that shitty orchard customer, that we may see his confidence make an appearance next week in regards to Lom and Yiwa's mothers acting like petulant toddlers.

I think it's also important to remember that while he is younger than Lom (his actor is actually younger than ALL of the LITA boys), he's not actually all that young. While ages and timelines are pretty vague in the Mame-verse, Prapai should be about 30 in the Wedding Plan, and Lom is meant to have been his junior while they were getting their Masters, so he's probably 27-ish. Nuea, having attended university and worked as an event planner for several years is probably 25. He's not a child, and their age difference is practically negligible. Again, I feel this is an assumption based on the idea that LITA is the norm, when it's very much not. All of Mame's other main couples (in shows) have either been the same age, or with in a year or two of each other.

So while Lom may have some power/privilege over Nuea, it's very much situational and based on him being 'employed' by him, which is something that we as the audience know he could change if he really wanted to. We see that P'Im is more than willing to go to bat for her employees, Lom wouldn't be able to pull a Karen and get him fired, or forced to work with him. And while Lom is rich, Nuea's family has a generational business and owns a large amount of property. It's not the same level of rich by any means, Lom essentially has fuck you money, but it's still not like Nuea would be without resources and support if he chose to quit his job or leave Bangkok.

Also, the fact that he gets upset or cries over Lom, doesn't make him 'weak.' I've not heard anyone say that directly, but it's been implied. It's not weak for a man to be able to recognize and express his emotions. That's toxic masculinity bullshit, and we certainly don't want to be putting that pressure on characters that are actively defying it.

I guess in conclusion, my point is that Nuea is a bad-ass, the best kind of bad-ass even, one with a kind heart, and that he's more than capable of standing up for himself both in general and with Lom.

As a final note, what I realized watching episode 3 is that Lom 10000% has a competency kink, and further watching of the show only confirms that. He first encounters Nuea while he works at Pai's wedding and immediately begins lusting. The wedding suit try-ons where he looks at Nuea after learning he took pictures of each choice so that you don't have to try something on over and over again. He gets riled up watching him do the event where Payu proposes. He falls even harder watching Nuea put the creep in his place. Like...he just loves watching his man get shit done, and I respect (and understand) that.

#Wedding Plan #Wedding Plan the series #Mame BL #LomNuea #NueaLom #Nuea x Lom #Lom x Nuea #Sunny Wannarat #Pak Naphat

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asylumwise · 10 months

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Oh that PhayuRain proposal was *cheff’s kiss* 😭 so perfect for these boys!!

I love their cameos in Wedding Plan, it almost feels natural. I want them to keep popping up in WP. I mean, Nuea needs to start planning the PhayuRain wedding, right? I can imagine Rain arriving at their first appointment with a whole folder of moodboards.

What if Wedding Plan starts with Lom attending the PrapaiSky wedding alone and ends with him taking Nuea as his date to the wedding of Phayu& Rain 😭😭

#wedding plan the series #thai bl drama #asian bl drama #thai bl #bl drama #wpts #wedding plan #love in the air #love in the air series #lita #phayurain #phayu lita #rain lita #bossnoeul #that was one damn good proposal

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piningintrovert · 4 months

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2023: A Year in Review

Thank you for the tag @wanderlust-in-my-soul and @25shadesoffebruary; I'm always down for a trip down memory lane

Rules: Link your favorite and most popular post(s) of each month of the year and tag some CCs friends

January

Most popular: Payu and Rain make up, Love in the Air Special Episode (understandable lol just like with everything else, they were insane for this) Favorite: Yeo Jung becoming Dong Eun's executioner, The Glory (full black and white set, my beloved AND this monologue is just so *gestures wildly*) Honorable mention: Tinn asking Sound to help Chinzilla, My School President (had a lot fun playing the text and emoji animations; it took forever and a day but it was worth it)

February

Most popular: The Complete BL Sass™ Collection (finally gave the people what they wanted lol) Favorite: Masumi finding out the world is going to end, The End of the World With You (one word: ACTING)

March

Most popular: You're my man; don't call yourself a pebble, My Beautiful Man 2 Favorite: (same as above)

April

Most popular: Payu touching Rain's lips, Love in the Air (deleted scene) Favorite: Kiyoi just wanted Hira to feed him, My Beautiful Man 2 (shameless plug for my "don't mind me" collection)

May

Most popular: Why do you like me?, Be My Favorite Tralier Favorite: Deleted scene from Payu & Rain's first time, Love in the Air (I still maintain that it was a CRIME to cut that scene out)

June

Most popular: Bad Buddy meta; Ink and Wai are the only ones who know about Pat and Pran's relationship as shown with their outfits Favorite: Tongfah and Paper's first kiss, Second Chance (the blue in this scene speaks to me)

July

Most popular: Payu and Rain attending Sky and Prapai's wedding, Wedding Plan (I would like to know when we're getting the special episode of WP where Nuea plans Payu and Rain's wedding) Favorite: Domestic Kazuma and Ren, Tokyo in April is...

August

Most popular: Henry, the world-class insomniac, Red, White & Royal Blue Favorite: Prince Henry "You're in his DMs" tweet (this was the first time I made an edit like this and I love how it came out)

September, October & November

I went offline for a bit so nothing for these months

December

Most popular: Smol Rain next to Big Zaddy Payu, Love in the Air (first set after my three month hiatus; way to come back with a bang) Favorite: Welcome to Smirk City, Pit Babe (the first gif... need I say more?)

It's always nice to look back on the year like this because I sometimes feel like I don't contribute enough to the fandom (dw I'm actively trying to change that mindset ^-^), and something like this really helps puts things into perspective for me. Even with a three-month hiatus, I created quite a bit of content—content that I'm proud of :)

Tagging @raypakorn @musicdramalove @snimeat @forcebook @spicyvampire @aejeonghae @maxescheibechlinichacheli @dengswei; feel free to ignore~

#tag game #love in the air #the glory #my school president #the end of the world with you #my beautiful man #be my favorite #bad buddy #second chance #wedding plan #pit babe #raemakes

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bl-bam-beyond · 2 years

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BL- BOYS LOVE:

Series: STAR & SKY: STAR IN MY MIND (2022, THAILAND)

I'm loving this concept. Waiting for Episode 2. But the premise is a bit misleading. Daonuea (NATACHAI BOONPRASERT aka DUNK) confesses to his crush Khabkluen (ARCHEN AYDIN aka JOONG) in 11 grade year before leaving study in Germany and is shot down.

Daonuea returns to attend university and is reunited with his crush as Freshy Boy Contestants and roommates.

The tagline: What will happen when you stop loving someone and they begin loving you?

Daonuea is still clearly interested in Kluen but suppressing it. But it appears another guy Typhoon is going to throw his hat in the ring for Daonuea's affections.

And what is with Nuea constantly bumping his head.

#GIFS by ME #BL (BOYS LOVE)#THAILAND #UNREQUITED LOVE #CHANGE OF HEART?#HAS KLUEN ALWAYS BEEN INTO DAONUEA?#BUMPING HIS HEAD FREQUENTLY #CUTE COUPLE

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thailandamulets · 5 years

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Somdej Pra Nakprok Nuea Din Pasom Wan 2518 BE Wat Pratat Panom Blessing by Ajarn Fan

A highly recommended amulet and Votive Tablet for Buddhanussati, A Perfect amulet for protection, reminder of mindfulness, and powerful practice, with remembrance and reverence to the Triple Gem, and remembrance of the Sacred Buddha Relic within the Stupa at Wat Pratat Panom, with the empowerment of a large number of masters who attended this grand ceremony with Pra Ajarn Fan Ajaro. Many…

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thaibuddhistamulet · 6 years

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Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan was a great Master Monk who managed to evade the fame of other more willing publicly known monks of his era, but was one of the great monks with powerful Wicha, of an equal status to many other Masters whose names may be more well known Internationally.

Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan Jantaro of Wat Na Udom was very famous for his cord wrapped Takrut amulets, which are highly revered by the devotees of Wat Na Udom and the province around the temple, and which are Nationally famous as perhaps the most popular talismanic charm of this great Arya Sangha Monk. Famous for his cord wrapped Takrut Tone, Takrut Bailan, and Takrut Hnang Glong Plae, as well as his Guru Monk Coins, which carry many stories of miraculous events from devotees who wore them.

Below; Rian Taep Yin Dee Block Raek Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan Block Niyom Dtok Code Na 2536 BE

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The Rian Taep Yin Dee Block Raek Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan was made in three different types of sacred metal, 3 made in solid gold, 200 in solid silver, and 10,000 in sacred copper (Nuea Tong Daeng), with Code Na. Some with two types of code stamps were made,, of which only a few were handed out during the ceremony (Gammagarn). Only an estimated 20 coins were made with two code stamps.

Below; Bia Gae LP Ya Tan Suan

Bia Gae Phu Ya Tan Suan Wat Na Udom

Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan was born in the year 2543 BE and was the son of a family of famers, and had 8 siblings. he helped his parents with the farm until he was 20 years old, and since he had been feeling inclined to ordain into the Monkhood (Sangha) for some years already, decided to ask his parents for permission to ordain into the Buddhist clergy and go stay at a temple to practice the Dhamma.

He was ordained at the temple of Wat Na Udom in Pibun Mangsaharn. his Upachaya Ordaining Officer was Pra Atigarn Prohmma, and his Pra Gammawajajarn Prompting Officer was Pra Dee. Pra Bua was his Pra Anusawanajarn Witness. After ordinations Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan received the ordained name of ‘Jantaro’ which means ‘he who knows the difference between what is needed and what is merely desired’.

Below; Takrut Tone Thak Chueak Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan – Wat Na Udom

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After his ordination into the Buddhist clergy he dedicated himself to very diligently learning the Dharma and to practice chanting prayers in Pali. He would always attend and study the Patimokkha every month during the Patiimokkha recitations of the Vinaya Pitaka.

Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan

He remained at the temple for a period of 3 years under the tutelage of the abbot Luang Por Jao Atigarn Suan, where after he moved on to stay at the temple of Wat Kam Hwa. He then remained there to practice for 3 months, where are after, he traveled to study the Dharma vinaya add the temple of Wat Samrong Yai in Bangkok, where by coincidence, Por Tan Hmon, who was the Abbot of this Temple was an uncle of Phu Ya Tan Suan.

It was here, that he studied the basics and began to apply the first practices of Vipassana Kammathana Insight Mindfulness Techniques. His uncle Luang Por Hmon was a very strict monk indeed with very strong rules about keeping the Buddhist Vinaya. Whatever his monks would be doing he would expect them to do it with full concentration and fullest effort, without distraction which was part of his method of teaching them to concentrate which is of course, the heart of meditation

Below; Pra Gleep Bua Roop Muean 2542 BE Amulets Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan

Pra Gleep Bua Roop Muean 2542 BE Amulets Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan

Luang Por Hmon would take Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan into the forest cemetery, to teach and demonstrate to him the methods of controlling the breathing in and out, and would take him regularly to spend nights meditating in the cemetery, to master his techniques of breath mindfulness. After a few sessions, Luang Por Hmon, who was both his mentor and uncle gave him permission to go alone and continue this practice in solitude in the Cemetery as often as possible.

After this he began to teach his nephew Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan, th secret practices of occult sorcery, and instructed him in reading and writing Khom ancient Khmer Sanskrit script, which is the script that must be used for inscription of magic spells In Thai Buddha Magic. Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan also learned how to write the inscriptions in Khom, Khmer, and Aksorn Tam Isan type magical alphabets.

Ya Tan Suan Jantaro Wat Na Udom

Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan as a Young Monk

Famous for his cord wrapped Takrut Tone, Takrut Bailan, and Takrut Hnang Glong Plae, as well as his Guru Monk Coins, which carry many stories of miraculous events from devotees who wore them. His Sacred Power was considered immeasurable, as devotees noticed that Luang Phu’s Look Om Chan Hmak betel areca balls, and his hair after head shaving, would turn into ‘Pratat’ relic crystals.

Famous for his many Takrut amulets such as the Takrut Ha Kasat 5 Kings spell, for its Maha Ud Gunstopper Power, Klaew Klaad and Kong Grapan. His Takrut Sai Rok Pra Putta Jao, Takrut Tone Thak Chueak cord wrapped spells, Takrut Gab Raberd Bombsilencer, Takrut Upakut, Takrut Sariga Dtom Hwae, Takrut Hnag Glong Dtaek (broken temple drumskin), renowned for its Powerful Metta, his Takrut Gai Kheun Rot Long Ra (famed for Kaa Khaay selling power), the Takrut Khao Dta made from Ngern Bpaag Phii (coin from the mouth of a corpse which was cremated on a tuesday – powerful necromancy), the Takrut Klord Look Ngaay (easy birthgiving spell).

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Apart from his many famous Takrut amulets, Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan Mastered the Wicha of making Pha Yant Sacred Yantra Cloths, Look Prakam magical Rosary making, Nang Kwak Statues, Rahu Om Jantr Asura Deva Eclipse God amulets, See Phueng Metta Balm, Prakam Tone (Look Om), Wicha Riak Suudt, the Wicha for making Pong Ittijae, Pong Bpathamang, and other sacred powders. He was known to possess a very unusual powerful Wicha to make special Holy Water, and the Wicha Hmaa Kin Jai (Dog eats Your Thoughts spell), which is another inimitable magic spell of Phu Ya Tan Suan of the Metta Variety.

LP Ya Tan Suan – Famous Old Amulets Luang Phu Ya Tan Suan was a great Master Monk who managed to evade the fame of other more willing publicly known monks of his era, but was one of the great monks with powerful Wicha, of an equal status to many other Masters whose names may be more well known Internationally.

#Biography #Buddhist Monks #Coin Amulets #Guru Monk #Tankai

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