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#Which. Has been something I've kind of very much been missing/yearning for irl I will admit
ante--meridiem
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To socialise or not to socialise, that is the question.
#Looked at two places I could move out to & they are complete opposite vibes in terms of socialableness
#Both have roommates ofc but one gives me a lot more of my own space & it seems like I would barely have to interact with them at all
#So I'd be left pretty much completely alone. Which is usually the dream
#And ngl knowing the other people there would keep to themselves & have no interest in knowing me is especially relieving
#Given the whole thing that pushed me to move out in the first place
#The other has extremely small & cozy vibes. Owner's stuff all over the place
#By cozy I do mean cluttered
#The girl I met with there (not the person I'd be renting from) gave me a tour for five-ten mins
#And then the next 30 mins-60 mins we spent chatting over tea
#Someone more sociable than me might call it instant bestie vibes
#Which. Has been something I've kind of very much been missing/yearning for irl I will admit
#& from the sound of it the person subletting has the same vibes with her
#She says he's 'interesting' and 'I'd like him'
#From the combination of her description and the clutter I'm getting eccentric professor vibes
#Which is generally a good vibe to me
#But I am even more skittish of renting from someone t
#Too sociable
#After prev landlord
#Though I want to trust othet tenant's vibe check. Because it might actually be very nice to have some kind of real life friends
#It's also a very different kind of sociable than prev landlord
#She was 'chatty and gets you to open up easily' sociable & it sounds like the other guy will be approximately the same
#& also 'repeatedly assures you can ask her to stop if she's being too much' sociable. Which is always a relief
#Meanwhile prev landlord was 'wants to know why you're not relaxed & tells you you should be without doing anything to help you be' sociable
#'gets very pushy about finding time to talk/hang out' sociable
#'teases you for being awkward' sociable
#None of which were the real issue with him of course. But they didn't help & I can't help but see them as red flags in retrospect
#I'm currently leaning towards 'to socialise' because it was a very cosy vibe & I do feel starved of irl friendship just a bit
#But it could either be very good or very bad
#& I don't want to risk very bad again
#Anyway. This has been missives from a pizza shop I ducked into to charge my phone before I go back to being lost in a snowstorm
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