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There are several parts to this weeks #CostumeThemedDateNight that I am excited about. Overall though, it’s still less setup & time than the Pirates date night!

Police officer night!

1 The Costume 2 The Setup 3 The Food & Drinks 4 The Movie 5 The Dance

1 The Costume

A local costume shop had a clearance sale. This was the only thing that mildly had my attention. The shorts don’t fit right on me & I prefer a miniskirt anyway. Fortunately I had one that matches pretty closely! I didn’t have matching boots, but I DO have some black heels that will do nicely. Thus, the idea for this weeks activity was born.

You can find this costume on Yandy. http://www.yandy.com/Officer-Sexy-Costume.php

2 The Setup

I found this great idea on Pinterest for giving a love note parking ticket. I found dozens of them & narrowed them down to two. To me, these look like parking tickets.

http://www.livluv.com/romantic-idea/parking-ticket-to-love

https://gitlab.com/EdLesMann/TemptationTicket/raw/master/TemptationTicket.pdf

I decided on the Temptation Ticket because I liked the option “source of steamy desires” as it gave me ideas for being a #VisuallyGenerousWife but I would probably use Parking Ticket to Love next time as the options are more generic. The Temptation Ticket seems more like something a husband would give a wife versus a wife giving one to the husband.

I printed it off on yellow piece of paper so it looks like a parking ticket. The plan is to sneak it out onto his car before he leaves for work.

I chose the option that would set the mood for the night. The ticket specifies that the night will have a movie, costume/lingerie, seductive dancing, and “Oral Delights” [which could be the food.. Or me.. Or him.. Or all of the above.. :-D ].

3 The Food & Drinks

Main course food: Bacon Donut Cheeseburger. I didn’t include a recipe as burgers are easy enough to find & customize. My family has a preferred taste that I know which makes it easy for me. Adding bacon & using donuts as buns is easy enough. Hubby likes a particular glazed donut from a local shop. I’ll pick up a few fresh in the morning. They tend to be rather thin so I am just using two donuts as the buns. If I had a thick donut, I would cut it in half like most places do.

Main course drink: Crime of Passion – a ice cream rum shake because burgers & ice cream shakes go well together! http://www.idrink.com/v.html?id=10601

Movie snack: Maple Glazed Peppered Bacon. These are so good & easy to just have a small plate of finger-food snacks. https://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes/maple-glazed-peppered-bacon/a052b0fc-c629-4bc6-b827-562ebb0f4eb8

The Dance Shots: Cop Car http://mybestcocktails.com/recipe-443-Cop-Car.html

4 The Movie

I’m usually not into the buddy-cop movies so I needed a movie that I wouldn’t loath but hubby would like. I decided on a comedy buddy-cop movie “21 Jump Street”. We will find out how good of a choice that is.. Any buddy cop movie could do well though.

5 The Dance

After the movie I have a Cop Car shots. Originally I was going to make him do shots along with the dance, but I don’t want him wasted – just relaxed & happy. As such, we are just going to do one each. I will bring them out as I start the music.

I was able to find a “clean” version of Lil Wayne’s Mrs Officer. It’s just under 4 minutes so I put together a routine for a sexy #DanceOfMahanaim. During the appropriate part of the song, I’m going to cuff his hands behind the chair.

I planning to end the dance in the “Bad Santa” position because I really want to play a round of #Unfettered. What better time to tease hubby mercilessly w/ breasts than when he’s in hand cuffs & I’m sitting in his lap after a sexy dance? Right? I’m totally going to win. :-D http://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/bad-santa/

That’s the plan! We will see how well it executes.

#CostumeThemeDateNight #Police Officer #miniskirt #Yandy #VisuallyGenerousWife #DanceOfMahanaim #buddy cop movie #CFSPs #BadSanta #Unfettered

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My daily scripture meditation.

Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.

Got me thinking. In what ways can I be a tree of life to my spouse? The obvious is sexual tease; #VisuallyGenerousWife. That creates desire that when fulfilled is a blessing to my hubby. But as I meditated, I thought of more. When I do my part as a wife & help him w/ a household project. At the completion, a desire has been fulfilled. Or when he is comes home hungry after a long day of work & I cook a nourishing meal. When he wants to play w/ the two boys in the evening, that is a desire fulfilled because I have cared for & watched over them all day so now they are happy & willing to play w/ their dad. But it even goes deeper. When we pray together & we see God working in our life & the lives of our family & friends. Something to ponder as you meditate on this passage. What are you doing to be a tree of life for your spouse?

#Scripture #Proverbs #VisuallyGenerousWife

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I finally got the last item for tomorrows #CostumeThemeDateNight! First, the costume that I found in the bargain bin w/ the lovely CJ Gibson! [come on, how was I supposed to pass it up?] Food! I will be cooking the Pirate Stew all day. It should be ready shortly after he gets home. For drinks I will be serving Captain’s Vacation. For a movie snack & dessert, Pineapple Upside-Down Cake. Games & movie! When hubby gets home, I will be waiting in costume & will have a “treasure map” of the house & yard that he has to follow. It will take him to the next riddle that he must solve to find the next map & so on. Several times along the way, he will have to challenge me to “Pirates Dice” [paying me in treasure to do so! Wikipedia calls it “Liar’s Dice”]. He will find along the way a bunch of fake gold & costume jewelry [hooray $1 store!] and the movie: Muppets Treasure Island. After the movie, the final clue will lead him on a three-part treasure hunt to find “The Ultimate Booty”. Me! ;-) The first stage will be a map to the bedroom that tells him he must find the key first w/ a riddle for stage two. That riddle will take him to a condom w/ a key painted on it. The third stage is the where I will be in the bedroom waiting.

#CostumeThemeDateNight #Pirate #Yandy #CJ Gibson #GirlCrush #VisuallyGenerousWife

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Challenge to teach for wives

I have a challenge for wives to help strengthen their bond w/ their husband & strengthen their marriage.

“Wives: What if God wanted you to enjoy sex as much as your husband does? Pretty sure that was His plan. #SexTip“ - #TheMarriageBed #Quote

First the sad story that inspired this challenge, then the challenge.

As the “low-drive” spouse, I MUST force myself into a sexual mindset. It is why so many of the daily blogs I read are ones that encourage the pursuit of a physical connection w/ my spouse. I need that encouragement! It’s also why I look for fun & creative ways to engage in physical intimacy w/ my husband. I also meet w/ other women that help mentor me & encourage me.

Yesterday I met w/ two other women for coffee after lunch. Both I respect greatly & are much older than I by a few decades. I’ve gained much wisdom about life, God, marriage, & family from them. As we chatted, an item came on the news that shifted our conversation to recent politics. Then a related tangent took us in a new direction.

While looking at the protest coverage on the TV ‘S’ said “How many more marriages are they going to destroy?” After a moment she continued “I bought wholeheartedly into the women’s lib movement in the 60’s. I was free, independent, & I had sex when I wanted to have sex & only when there was something in it for me. That selfish lie destroyed the sex life between my husband & I forever; it brought us to the brink of divorce so many times. By the time I realized it was a selfish lie meant to destroy marriages, families, & homes it was too late for a complete healing.”

‘B’ agreed. “Instead of seeking God first, then my husband, then my family - I sought myself first, second, third, & so on. It was 15 years into my marriage when I suddenly realized that my husband didn’t know how to pursue me & properly excite me sexually. Then I had the horror thought that I had no idea how to do the same for him!”

I asked the obvious question “How did you fix things?”

‘S’ said “We never fixed our sex life. Time & age took it away before we could. It left a gaping hole in our lives where we should have bonded. We now pursue other things together in retirement, but they aren’t the same. They don’t unite us in the same emotional, physical, spiritual way that sex was designed to unite two flesh into one being.”

‘B’ answered “Lots of prayer & lots of sex. We had more sex in my late 40’s then we did my 20’s & 30’s. It was a terrible trade off. We waited too long. Age brought us much more challenge & frustration.”

I again asked the obvious question “How do I avoid the same mistakes?” This conversation sparked the basis for the challenges.

The first challenge setup: * Does your husband know how to communicate love to you? For many women, the process of sex starts long before we get into bed. Does your husband know that? What does he need to know to help prepare you? Be direct, never nag! Make it clear what you need & want. Don’t assume he knows already – maybe he does, maybe he doesn’t – tell him again clearly. - “Honey, the kids are stressing me out. It would help me tonight if you can settle them down now, please.” - “I really need clean laundry tomorrow. Will you please help take that off my mind so I can think about more entertaining things in the bedroom?” - “Today has me so tense. Will you please sit & let me curl up in your arms? I just want you to hold me for a long while without any other distractions.” - “I would greatly appreciate it if you spend time w/ me helping put up dishes & clean the kitchen.” - “Did you know that repeated science studies have shown a 30 second hug lowers heart rate, stress, & anxiety? Or know that it releases oxytocin & increases desire in women? I would be very grateful if you would intentionally pursue that daily w/ me.”

Summary #1: Communicate to your husband how to show love to you. Tell your husband what you need to reach an intimate mind-space.

The second challenge setup: The wife’s body belongs to her husband. [1 Corinthians 7:4 #Scripture] * Have you taught your husband how to touch you to take you from zero to climax? Have you taught him the subtle differences between a light touch when you are relaxed & a light touch when you are aroused? Have you given your husband your whole body to explore & learn or are you with holding parts from him?

Only you can teach him these things! Anything he’s learned from any source that is NOT you is WRONG! Every woman is different & your husband can only learn what works FOR you FROM you!

Repeated surveys have shown that men enjoy cunnilingus much more than the media gives them credit for. Here is just one example: https://site.themarriagebed.com/surveys/how-do-you-feel-about-giving-oral

* 70% of men enjoy doing oral sex on their wives for themselves * 66% enjoy doing it because she enjoys it. * No men said they dislike or hate doing oral sex on their wife * Almost half of men would do oral on their wife more often is she let them. * Most men are totally into every aspect of doing oral on their wife. Have you taught your husband what you enjoy about oral sex?

What about other parts of your body?

My husband is a ‘leg man’. It was easy to teach him what I liked & I learned to get comfortable w/ the touches he liked.

I am an ‘ass girl’. For years, I secretly liked it when he would gently place his hand there or would give it a soft squeeze. I hesitated exploring & teaching him for so long because my upbringing said it was wrong to enjoy being touched there. It has only been recently that I have begun to teach my husband when I like a firm massage (after a squat workout!), when I like a soft caress (stressful day), & when I just want a gentle touch (most days). He is slowly learning when it is a good time to give a gentle squeeze when we hug versus a pick-me-up-by-both-hands-squeeze hug. It’s still my responsibility to be highly communicative to him to tell him what kind of touch I want & need as I explicitly tell him what to do & how long to do it. The rewards are great as he continues to learn the are of my body that feels surprisingly good to me.

While neither one of us considers ourselves to be ‘breast people’, we’ve repeatedly found the benefits of me teaching him how to touch, kiss, caress, & suck on my almost-too-sensitive-to-play-w/-breasts. I’ve blogged about this before where I have all but begged wives to teach their husbands their breasts: https://miniskirtday.tumblr.com/post/155296659456/teach-your-husband-your-breasts

Spouse breast play is good for your sex life! https://miniskirtday.tumblr.com/post/158046146951/breast-play-is-best-in-marriage

Even better, science studies have found STRONG evidence that the time a husband enjoys the breasts of his wife is linked to good health & increased desire for his wife!

Summary #2 Teach your husband to know your body sexually as well as he knows his.

The third challenge setup: The husband’s body belongs to his wife. [1 Corinthians 7:4 #Scripture] * Do you know your husbands body? Do you know when you are teasing him & when you are stimulating him? Do you know his body well enough to know when he is about to climax so that you can hold him off for a bit longer or know his body well enough to know when he has hit the point-of-no-return? * Do you know which part of your body stimulates him the most? How does he react when you use your hands, mouth, breast, ass, legs, feet, ect? Why not have a fun flirty exploratory night? Maybe he loves the visual of one but the stimulation of another? * Do you know how to give fellatio? If your version is to just put it in your mouth & wait till your neck is sore, then you have a lot to learn! * Can you give him a quickie w/ your mouth &/or hands that is as fast as he can do it himself? Do you know when he enjoys a strong grip versus when he prefers a soft grip? Can you recognize w/ your mouth &/or hands the pulses that indicate his building orgasm? * Have you ever encouraged him to masturbate for you? Have you watched him as he does it? What stroke does he prefer? Does it change at different levels of arousal? Is it fast? Is it slow? Does he change grip or focus when he approaches orgasm?

A wife should NEVER encourage her husband to masturbate by himself or to other women. The next time he is in the mood but you may not be, encourage him to masturbate for you. Give him a sexy smile, flirt w/ your eyes, & tease him a bit visually. Then watch what he does & how he pleasures himself. Learn from it & then try it out.

Need more suggestions on things to try on him? Gather ideas from http://www.marriagebed.tips/ & then try them out.

Summary #3 Learn your husbands body sexually as well as you know yours.

The challenge! * Plan out SIX (6) days this month for sexual connection w/ your spouse. * In the days leading up to each of the six planned events explicitly tell your husband TWO (2) things that he should do to help prepare you for sex for that event (hugs, laundry, flowers, ect). * Plan one night where you watch & learn as he stimulates himself. * Plan two nights where you try to apply what you learned. * Plan five nights where you teach him how to stimulate you. Let at least one night be exclusively your breasts. * Every night you should clearly tell your husband one thing he can do that will improve the moment for you as a teachable moment.

Notice that there is overlap in the number of things to plan & the number of night available. That is intentional! Be creative in how you approach the situation. Here’s one example:

Explicitly tell him that the kids rooms need to be cleaned & he should over see the process. Explicitly tell him you would like back massage to relax. Tell him one thing about the massage that he could learn for next time. Teach him how to do that one thing & let him practice. When you are relaxed & ready, invite him to sex.

There you go! Plan out 6 nights this month to learn & teach sex w/ your husband! Whatever your current skill level is, increase it this month!

#Challenge #VisuallyGenerousWife #LoveYourSpouse

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Response to AMA.

A few days ago I received an AMA. I responded that I wanted to take some time to think about it. Unfortunately, tumblr seems to have deleted the post! [GRRR] As I don’t remember the name of the one who asked, I am going to post here. I am paraphrasing the question to protect the sensitivity of the question [& I don’t remember the exact words. :-)] But first, to the original author: I’m terribly sorry I wasn’t more careful w/ your AMA. How do I encourage my wife to be more engaging sexually?

The original question was more specific to many ideas that I write about in my feed, but since I’m making this open to everyone I am making it a bit more general.

The “too long; didn’t read” version is this: I can only tell you about my journey. I have tips & resources at the bottom that I hope can help you better. At least they did for us.

Here is why that question is hard for me. If I were to go back in time to a younger me & tell me just how damaging my thoughts on sex were to my marriage, I’m not so sure I would believe myself. I had to hit a pretty hard low in order for the truth to hit me. I had to come to the realization that marriage is hard & I have to be just as proactive & engaged in working to build it as he was. I had to make myself realize that serving my husband visually, sexually, and physically was a ministry of service to him, our marriage, & then to myself.

It wasn’t immediate. It took time before my husband began to have a desire to serve me & my needs for emotional & spiritual connection. It wasn’t until that healing began that I could properly express my desires for him to step up & lead the family in the way that I & the children needed him to.

For some time, I worked HARD to serve him w/ little of my needs met in return. It’s tough work to kill it in the gym & lead a healthy lifestyle. It’s tougher to do that & raise young children. To add to that the time & energy to shave my legs daily & dress in ways that were visually appealing to him was a massive task. But all of that & then to give my body to him as well? There were days I wondered if it was worth it at all.

Now I know that YES! It IS worth it! Once hubby & I were communicating in love [& not yelling] we realized we work together quite well as a team. He leads the family as we need him to [including spiritually], & he seeks to meet my needs for our emotional connection. I seek to be a #VisuallyGenerousWife for him. As a family we are leading a more fit & healthy life which is great as we have support & encouragement w/ each other.

But I still have to work at sex. A lot. It is hard to push out distractions of the day some times. I have to force myself to learn & discover sex. While it has gotten SO much easier to enjoy [& I do enjoy it], it still doesn’t come as naturally as it does him. His drive is just much higher. I also had a LOT of garbage anti-sex rhetoric when I was younger [which I have ranted on in past posts]. It took SO much work for me to relax & begin to explore my sexuality w/ my hubby. But I learned so much when I finally did.

Honestly, one of the things that freaked me out at first but ended up being such a blessing, was when we made a rule together that basically said “In me, or on me.” I wanted to be a part of his every orgasm to better understand his drive. I knew he masturbated & it irritated me but mostly because I didn’t understand his need for release 3+ times a week. The first few times were awkward & near embarrassingly painful. I was terrible at providing visual stimulation & just laid there quiet & motionless [Please wives, don’t EVER do that!]. He felt just as awkward as I did. But we soon realized that I didn’t want to just be present, I wanted to be engaged & he NEEDED me to me engaged even if it was as simple as a smile & a wiggle of the hips. I found that I loved how much he adored me & looked forward to the times when I would tease him. He loved watching me dance & be provocative. It took SO LITTLE work on my part & we felt so much closer together as we cuddled in his post-masterbation-orgasm. On nights when I did want to have sex, that closeness was even sweeter.

If you don’t want to read about more “non-traditional” sex acts, please just skip this paragraph. The next step we took was when I let him pleasure himself w/ my legs. I work HARD to keep them looking good & I work HARD to keep them smooth. Yeah! Of course I want him to enjoy them! He’d better enjoy them every day for the work I put into them!! But especially on the days when I don’t want sex! It was such an easy next step as it required nothing more then what I was already doing, keeping my legs pleasurable. He did the work & we shared in the beautiful bonding after. [It took a while to go from ‘this is kind of weird’ to ‘this is really kinky & really hot that my hubby gets so excited about me’]. Another example. If you were to go back to me just before I got married & that me was to be told “You are going to absolutely adore the sexual pleasure your husband gives your ass that you are actually going to excitedly long for it” I can promise you I would’ve been so freaked out that I would’ve run away & never married. The abusive religious stigma that was my sexual education would’ve parallelized me even thinking about such a “degrading” act. Instead, it started w/ a post-gym-squat-challenge massage that felt amazing & I wanted more. 6 months later, I was craving his touch on my cheeks as we moved into exploratory. A YEAR & 9 months after the massage that it was sexual & the lies of my past were shattered when I said “How have we missed out on this for so long?!”

Here’s the thing, going from my “Good girls don’t do that” to “sex is fun” to “#MarriedSexRocks” to “Including non-traditional sex which can be delightful!” isn’t small steps. I don’t think there is any way you could have convinced the younger me to make those leaps. It absolutely is, in my opinion, “a journey of a thousand miles begins w/ one step.” I could NOT HAVE EVER allowed such things to happen if I didn’t absolutely trust my hubby, & it took us a lot of time, effort, & hard work to build that relationship to that point.

Back to the original question: How do I encourage my wife to be more engaging sexually? First, realize that women don’t have the same sex drive as men. Rude jokes, crude statements, & lewd behavior doesn’t work on us. The VAST majority of us need to have an emotional connection.

Second, if a woman doesn’t feel emotionally, financially, & physically secure, it is going to be harder for her to open up & relax. Establish trust & work to meet her needs. Trust me. This isn’t easy. This is hard. This is a lot of work. But it is worth it. The bonus, this is essentially a HUGE step of foreplay for a woman. Third, talk about sex freely. Get over the embarrassment. Have honest conversations about what you each want. Don’t be pushy, but be honest.

Fourth, seek help from people who have made it real priority in their life to deal w/ these kinds of topics & advice. There are a ton of great materials out there. As a Christian, these are the ones that helped me the most. For Books Sheila Gregoire - The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Dr. Douglas E. Rosenau - A Celebration of Sex Francis & Lisa Chan - You & me forever [I adore this book! Great for the spiritual connection that encourages spouses to be spiritually active] Kevin Leman - Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage [Another I love] Tim Kimmel - Grace Filled Marriage: The Missing Piece [This helped us both through a rough patch; the timing was perfect for us on this one.] For blogs http://forgivenwife.com/ she speaks to my situation & does so far better than I could. https://www.hotholyhumorous.blogspot.com/ Parker has an amazing talent for dealing w/ women's sexual issues. She is so encouraging. http://www.the-generous-wife.com/  & www.the-generous-husband.com are both excellent sources of information & encouragement. Paul & Lori also run themarriagebed.com which I am a HUGE fan of. If you follow me on Gab or Twitter, I post/repost about them all the time. For Sex exploration http://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/ is a great resource for position ideas. http://www.marriagebed.tips/ gives excellent advice on things to try in bed. I hope that helps you some. May God heal your relationship & bring insane amounts of pleasure to your marriage bed. Edit & Update: Maurine made a great comment on Gab. “Sometimes it is simple things like good hygiene, doing chores so she has energy. Date nights...“ That is so good. Personally, I craved the emotional connection. I was ok w/ date nights happening infrequently & didn’t mind it being a cheap restaurant & a movie. But now, our monthly date nights are things that I really look forward to because we connect on so many more levels. Also, when hubby does chores off my to do list, that is sexy. :-)

#MarriedSexRocks #MarriageIsHard #VisuallyGenerousWife #AMA #Advice #HopeThisHelps

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Be a #VisuallyGenerousWife ladies!

#LoveYourHusband #VisuallyGenerousWife #SongOfSongs #Scripture #PinUp #Pin-Up #harry ekman #Marcia Falk

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National SuperHero Day Yesterday, I took the two boys w/ me to find the oldest some new pants. When we got to the thrift store, a guy out front was handing out flyers. Apparently April 28th is #NationalSuperHeroDay & the comic book store at our local mall was doing special events in the afternoon.

This is a day I TOTALLY would have planed a #CostumeThemeDateNight for it if I had known earlier. Oh well.

Since we were at the thrift store anyway, we decided to see if there were any costumes still around.The eldest REALLY wanted the minions costume as soon as he saw it. Not really super hero & a touch small, but for 7$ it was worth it for a day [or however long he has it before he forgets & I sneak it back to the donation pile]. We found a cute superman shirt w/ a cape sewn on for the youngest. A tad big, but not bad for 6$. I picked up the pants needed & off we went to the event. The event was definitely geared toward an older crowd. I didn’t even recognize most of people in costume. We got several pictures of the kids w/ a Batman, a Superman, Thor, & Black Widow [The boys didn’t really know the last two as they aren’t in a lot of the boys cartoons]. The event had a bunch of costumes on sale that were WAY expensive, but I found this cute Wonder Woman sun guard that I liked for 30$. It was the same price as I found on Amazon so I bought it. I didn’t have matching bottoms, but I was confident one of my miniskirts would work.

When we got home, the boys were super excited about the super heros they met. It was all they were talking about; including when I asked about what they wanted for dinner. They didn’t want pizza, no they wanted HERO pizza. Soda wouldn’t cut it either. They wanted SUPER soda. When hubby called to say he was on his way home, I told him about our afternoon & that they boys wanted to watch a super hero movie. I decided to get into my make-shift outfit before he got home. The sun guard is tight but seems to be of decent quality. Not sure I would ever wear it out in public [but that is mostly my issues; not the fault of the shirt]. It is snug enough that the girls probably wouldn’t move around much [a good thing at the beach when you’re surfing!] but I did end up putting on my gives-me-a-nice-big-boost bra. The blue in my miniskirt is ever so slightly off [just a touch too light & metallic], but it is close enough. I paired it w/ my red 3″ heels [again, just ever so slightly off in the color] & it wasn’t too terrible of a costume. Certainly a rush job & it didn’t really match a 100%, but it was close enough for a last minute idea. “Whoa!” Hubby said when he saw me “If Wonder Woman looked like this when I was a kid I would have read a lot more comics!” "I’m pretty sure she wears far less & properly matches colors.” “Yeah, but she never looked this good.” Aww. Isn’t he sweet? But, honey? “Yeah, right!” My sarcasm was certainly evident. The boys wanted to watch the Lego movie again. Everything is awesome - until you get that song stuck in your head for the 28-billionth time. I shopped on my laptop for miniskirts & heels while all my boys watched the movie. I did do my best to distract hubby though. It always makes me smile when he spends more time looking at me instead of the movie. Hubby put the boys to bed. Then I put HIM to bed. Men enjoy intimacy more when their wife is enthusiastic & confident. Something in me just said “I’m wearing her clothes, that must mean I’M Wonder Woman right now.” So I was. A few recommendations for wives when they get that sudden surge of confidence. Riding the North Face

Rodeo - Cowgirl where you keep your clitoris stimulated against him the whole time. It wasn’t a planned Costume Theme Date Night, but it ended up begin a fun one anyway! :-)

#NationalSuperHeroDay #CostumeThemeDateNight #ministkirt #Wonder Woman #VisuallyGenerousWife