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janokenmun · 10 months

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basically i will post about: Whatever I Feel Like

if we're mutuals send me a dm and i might (not guaranteed) send u my discord so we can keep in contact in case site go explodey

cw: venty mental health stuff, relationship stuff, nsfw stuff, wack and hard kinks (also this blog uses unconventional nsfw tags! see below for details)

this may include:

-toki pona -english posts with toki pona translations -noitaposting -venty stuff (esp. relationship stuff) -hornyposts (filterable; see below) -non-venty relationshipy posts -rats -way too many memes -whatever randomass thoughts are on my mind at any given time -any brain contents i havent dumped on my friends already

feel free to dm im open to making new friends also feel free to send asks! also also please tell me if i rb something from a terf or otherwise-problematic person, BUT PLEASE LINK THE POST!!!!!! i rb like hundreds of things a day and i don't have the energy to filter through everything ive posted in the past day to see if it matches the vague description in a callout ask i got

also if u follow me or even just interact i WILL be looking through ur blog. this is a threat

also fair warning i post a fucking lot (mostly rbs) so if u follow be prepared for that (i assume theres a post limit since theres been multiple times where ive posted so much that tumblr cuts me off and refuses to let me post and gives me errors if i try to post)

btw im not comfy with kisses or cuddles from people im not dating!!

also if you're wondering about some personal details, im (cis) male, mostly straight, autism, possibly adhd, and open to play stellaris or warframe or mtg commander or other games

ill be trying to tag my own lewd posts with #janokenlewd, others' with #janantelewd, and cnc posts with #jancnclewd, so if you don't want to see that (or are a minor) absolutely block 'em!!!! i'll also be using #kenlalewd for things that i'm unsure on (like suggestive but not explicit stuff), im not gonna enforce that minors block that but it is recommended! please tell me if i don't appropriately tag nsfw (which likely will happen on occasion)!!! i'm trying to keep this a relatively safe space for minors, so i don't have to ban them completely, and having minors block those tags is an essential part of that! (additionally! i may leave sex ed or kink ed stuff untagged, as safety and education is important; if there's enough demand for it i might make a tag for nsfw education stuff).

basically this blog is just. My Brain

enjoy

BTW IMPORTANT NOTE: if i do/say something bad, tell me unambiguously! i will have genuinely no idea otherwise

nsfw stuff under the cut :3

more details about me are that im strictly top/dom, single, and open to doin lewd stuff with friends (and possibly boys! i have no idea!!!)

kinks include a bunch of like hard-dom stuff; cnc and brat tamer stuff are my favorite (especially cnc!!! <3<3<3), but i tend to like a lot of dom stuff tho! basically like just ask, there's also a bunch of kinks i have that i'm not comfortable stating publicly! also, i use the word "rape" here a lot; please block the cnc tag if you are uncomfortable with that!!!

limits include like gore/blood (tho a little blood is ok), and any of the like "unsanitary" kinks! also DO NOT TREAT ME LIKE A SUB OR TRY TO DOM ME IT MAKES ME VERY UNCOMFORTABLE, also don't misgender me or anything but that feels like a given! there might be other stuff but that Should be most of it, feel free to ask before sending if you're unsure

feel free to message and/or send asks (esp. if you're sub/switch girl)!!! best practice is to just ask directly before doing stuff, i.e. "hey do you mind if i send nudes" or "hey do u want to talk about kink stuff" or anything like that! tho sending nudes/porn/fantasies that *don't involve me* out of nowhere is likely okay ;3 (if u wanna be safe then ask first tho!! and specify the relevant kinks in case any are a turnoff)! i only rarely rp, i have to trust u first, so don't expect that immediately!

if you're a dom, top, and/or boy, i might still wanna talk about stuff, even if i don't wanna like rp or anything directly!! i'm super interested in human sexuality and hearing in-depth stuff about what kinks people have and why they have them is fascinating (and very hot) to me (and could give me ideas ;3), so if you wanna talk about that stuff please please please message!!!!

this is a paraphilia-safe space!!! if you have paraphilias, including the big ones, you're safe here and i accept you :). depending on what it is i might not want to talk about it, turnoffs are turnoffs, but i still accept you for who you are :) also relatedly id probably be considered proship tho im not really in that community so i may not understand the full nuance and ramifications of that term

also obviously. if you're a minor then don't interact lewdly with me?? you shoudlnt even be reading this and you should have #janantelewd and #janokenlewd blocked as well, that's the compromise i've made so that i don't have to just block every minor that follows me since i post a bunch of sfw stuff too, violators of the contract will be obliterated with the force of a thousand suns

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levyfiles · 4 years

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Not trying to be the negative nancy while everyone is excited about the all the content but i'm starting to think I should quit the patreon. i got the $5 tier which is what i can afford right now but the perks aren't really that many except for the discord server and really the fans on there give me so much secondhand embarrassment W/ the stuff they say to the boys and about themselves just bums me out. I wanna support the boys but I feel sick and sad trying to participate in the patreon

Hey, nonnyb, let me just start by saying that I realise this answer is two and a half weeks late and I’m sorry. I had to kinda let this ask sizzle because I hadn’t as of yet reconciled my own feelings about the server and I didn’t want to weigh in without considering all the facts. So here’s a long-winded answer that I hope assuages the wait but

[NOTE: read at your own discretion. the following contains a commentary on official fan spaces in general]

For one thing, I do hope that you didn’t end up canceling your patronage because despite how much it’s been the most emphasized benefit, it’s the 5th thing on the list of things listed here

Those are quite a few things to enjoy that still involve interacting with Shane, Ryan or Steven directly. They look at the patreon directly to answer questions on WW+ and they read the feedback they receive there and given the actual speed and energy on the server these days, you can really tell that, much like any content creator that makes a server, they don’t check the space or backread as often as one might think.

But you know what? I do actually get it. Of course the server sounds exciting in theory. The first few weeks, while heavy on the adjustments and really upsetting moments where people said some pretty icky things, it was nice that you could live-react to an episode or one of their series, knowing that they were there to receive the positive comments and reactions, but like any fan space, it grows and much like the energy in youtube comments, their mentions on Twitter, or even attending a panel where people without filters can just shout out whatever first comes to their mind. It’s easy to get drowned out by the ones that want to be the loudest thing in the room and don’t care about the humanity or the comfort of the people they’re yelling or chatting at. The purpose of the server, in Any community, is an illusion based in the ideal of direct, intimate conversation with the people you’re supporting but like any space where the content creator is mildly present, it slowly becomes a toxic space and that is an inevitability.

I don’t want you to feel like I’m saying all this in the vein of telling you to “get over it” because I’ve talked to a number of people on here who have either quit the discord, gone up a tier or cancelled, or muted everything so they don’t get notifications or risk reading something triggering but these are the facts and I’m gonna give it to you straight. Not every official fandom curated space is a safe space, and the closer you are to interacting with content creators or the tighter the parasocial interaction gets, the more you’re liable to witness the full scope of the effect a parasocial relationship can have on a person, primarily a young person. That is also the nature of a centralized space for fan interaction; it’s just so central which means there is no way to categorize the energies of the people you interact with; there is no blocking/muting or communities for specific kinds of fans.

What the gist of it is, is that the server isn’t even the most important aspect of being on the Watcher patreon. The server is a great way to yell into a void hoping one of the crew or the boys is watching and often times, it’s about being as performative as possible. Some people there are Really chill and respectful, but if you find it hard to endure and scroll past some of the more alienating/intrusive conversations there, I would advise you to stick around on the patreon at least. Come to the safer fandom spaces, join a more specific server for fans only who like to talk about their patreon content, or feel free to shoot me a message. There’s a search function on the server itself so you can find out if Shane, Steven, or Ryan have said anything recently and I’d say if you want to pay them a compliment, just jump in on the appropriate channel and say your bit and then leave. .

Plus, there’s a podcast coming, nonnyhun! The keyword is Content! They’re kicking up their social media game; their interaction with their community is so much more open than it was at Buzzfeed. Who needs the server, know what I mean?

#discourse #cobweb tag #personal?#idk #it's funny because I just finished having a conversation about making a space for fans who just wanna talk about the patreon stuff without #Anonybae

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