#I'm not saying Kaidan's *never* dated or had sex but the overall vibe of that + Kaidan himself mentioning in me3

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I can't help but think of Kaidan as not being a particularly sexual person for most of his life but like once he's with Shepard. Well it's me1 Kaidan vs me3 Kaidan who's throwing Shepard on the bed and just in general absolutely slutting it up in the dlc you feel. And I don't think it's just Shepard that's inspired this change but it's certainly helped.

#the fact that Kaidan is talking in me1 about what's her name like she's the girl who got away just has the vibe of. #I'm not saying Kaidan's *never* dated or had sex but the overall vibe of that + Kaidan himself mentioning in me3 #'have you ever known me to be with anyone? Maybe I'm just choosy...' which is slightly weird when you consider #we haven't spent *that* much time around each other. But overall it makes it feel like he's communicating. #He *hasn't* dated much. And while I know Kaidan only isn't bi in me1 because of homophobia #I kind of like the concept that he specifically hasn't dated a man before. #(I also get the vibe that Kaidan's not really into casual sex which compounds the vibe to *me*) #certainly everyone's free to read Kaidan how they please and it would make perfect sense to think otherwise