#I remember someone bringing up whether the public callout would result in more mess

[artsycooky13]

To those who remember a reblog regarding a post about user harassment back in Sept last year on my blog (I have since deleted this, but I know there are reblogs of it else where)

I wanted to let yall know that I (and only I) have reconciled with the user.

So just in case you see smth somewhere and are concerned for me, thanks, though I should have things sorted out for the most part, at least as far as I am aware of from my end. This was a very personal decision. Saying this for the record, there were multiple people affected by the situation, just because I resolved something with someone doesnt mean others have- this was a complicated situation. I can say that things have improved overall and hopefully, all that is left is to recover from it all.

(if you have no idea what im talking about- dont worry, tl;dr i resolved some stuff with someone s'all)

#reconciliation happened about two months or so ago #wanted to make sure it was a legitimate effort and not a cop out #had to deal with an ENTIRE year of non stop stress and anguish- im glad its finally over- at least for now #still recovering from everything and i hope this is the only other post that is in regards to 'that' situation ever #If this decision ends up back firing for whatever reason I honestly dont know what id do with myself #i just wanna sleep peacefully tmrw and not worry about anymore conflict #I remember someone bringing up whether the public callout would result in more mess #all I can say is- it got worse and real scary before it got better #at least- it was for me #Im doing okay right now- I had this post typed up and in the drafts for a while #it was just a matter of when to post it is all #its complicated some days- but its been good for the most part #serious #vent