#I read somewhwre that it takes half the amount of time you were in a relationship to heal from it

[theartinmyheart]

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#I read somewhwre that it takes half the amount of time you were in a relationship to heal from it #something like that #and I feel like that’s definitely accurate #my most significant relationship was about 6 years and I’d say it took me a good 3 years to completely heal #it’s crazy bc looking back I never thought I’d get to where I’m at now #but it’s been a while now that I’ve made peace within myself about it #I’m just really glad I made it here w out making a huge life changing decision along the way #like I could’ve really put myself in some situations that would’ve prevented the healing and growth I needed #really proud of myself for getting here and continuing to be a better me every day #I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection lately and this is one of those things I realized I’ve overcome and that’s dope