#I don't typically like marriage irl for a plethora of reasons

[heartbeetz]

Wow what a wonderful day to remember that I am a man who loves men ♡

#don't reblog please #I'm just. :/ #usually I don't like those ''your f/os would never misgender you'' etc posts bc they feel like the bare minimum / dismissive somehow / idk #but Maybe I do want to think about my f/os making a point to use masc terms for me around people who Do misgender me #to make Them feel uncomfortable #specifically this is in regards to my father KNOWING that I'm trans and STILL calling me ''ma'am'' over text #which is one of the WORST feminine terms someone could use for me. I absolutely HATE it #I want someone (be it real or fictional) to call me their boyfriend in front of him #I don't typically like marriage irl for a plethora of reasons #but god what I wouldn't give to hold a small wedding just so my father can hear me referred to as someone's husband #my mother still doesn't Know I'm trans but she's already guessed I'm somehow not cis and/or am otherwise genderqueer / gnc... #and SHE will ''correct'' herself if she uses too many feminine terms for me WITHOUT ME SAYING ANYTHING #my father has KNOWN for two and a half years and is still stupid about it #whereas she pieced things together on her own (despite me trying to hide it) w/in the past six months! and she's better than him! #anyway. very sorry about the really long tags on this post #I'm just kinda in a bad brain space rn #roz posts #delete later maybe #probably not though? idk