#ESPECIALLY when you juxtapose this with the bullshit sparkpelt got

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honestly feel like i wouldnt care as much about fernsong and his lack of an actual followup to that throwaway line if people didn't start being asshats to people who still hc'd ivypool as a lesbian and going "omg if you think about it its still queer though bc fernsong has a feminine name and its sooooo gnc for men to babysit their kids <3" very easy way to get me to hate an inoffensive character actually.

#ESPECIALLY when you juxtapose this with the bullshit sparkpelt got #oh its ok that this guy wasnt ACTUALLY shown being better to his kids. the line is a good effort on its own!! we can infer he still did it! #but the woman who had ppd and was struggling with the trauma of her husband and childs deaths should get fucking crucified #like it just REEKS of ''fathers deserve endless praise for the bare minimum or less but for mothers its just expected'' #even if no one is flat out saying that