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#AND THAT IRIS IS USING THAT MOMENT AS A WHAT NOT TO DO lololol brutal.
uldren-sov · 5 months
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@plushchimera "she does not want comfort nor seeks it from her friends" 🥲 (I'm gonna blame Seven!)
Listen I wanted to answer this here bc it might get a little long lolol
BC I DON'T THINK ITS ONLY SEVEN'S FAULT.
or at least it's not all seven's fault lolol
It more has to do with her coping mechanisms and like her view of her place in the band, plus like things that have just like, never changed with her.
Despite not like really needing a lot of comfort because she already has like proven to herself that she can manage on her own, survive on her own, through Seven leaving. It's a huge boost of her self-confidence. AND she was never really that level of open or vulnerable with anyone but Seven. So, it's not as though she like closed herself off from her friends when Seven left, they were never just in that position to begin with.
NOW throw all the responsibility and her position as leader on top of that so that there's even less incentive to rely on the band for things she might see as needing to be her problems (and ONLY her problems.)
Does she default into older, bad, habits? YEAH PROBABLY. But that just comes from a shitty childhood rather than Seven leaving. It's just a mix of her perception/responsibility of being the leader, people relying on her to work, bad coping habits stemming from her loneliness and isolation when she was younger, ............... AND OKAY YEAH MAYBE A LITTLE BIT OF SEVEN'S BULLSHIT.
nevermind i'm blaming seven too
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