#(this is coming from an nb w no intentions to physically transition btw)

[starberry-skies]

idk i think there’s something to be said abt being an overenthusiastic ally. like obv the cishetallos aren’t perfect but.... it gets to the point where i don’t know if they’re being supportive bc they’re supposed to or if they actually care.

#something ive noticed abt trans ppl..... #(this is coming from an nb w no intentions to physically transition btw) #is whenever a cis person hears that someone is trans;; they go over the top w compliments. all abt physical appearance #its always oh ur transmasc? that's why youre so handsome manly etc etc #oh ur transfem? youre so pretty beautiful etc etc #yk? #maybe this is out of bounds for me #just a weird thing ive noticed #and it could be me picking up on things that arent there #forgive me if this is too much or smth #oh while im talking abt this #... sometimes ppl's positivity posts aren't positive .. :/ #i mean like #at one point i was considering using this arospec label that i thought really fit me #then i was looking thru the tag on tumblr #''[label] is NOT creepy. idk why ppl think that [label] shouldn't belong in the aspec community'' #smth like that #and i was like ha ha. huh?? #and now im super afraid to use it!!! bc what if it is creepy?? i don't think it is?? help????? #whoops its wAIT TWO AM #I THOUGHT IT WAS ONE #shiiiiiiiiit #chirping