#(the guy who sends the pictures (obviously theres a grandma goodmorning and goodnigh pic every day) is very stubborn

[aroaceofthesea]

With one of my groups of friends we do this thing where we say good morning and goodnight every day (theres a whole story behind why we're acting like boomers ok) and it eventually turned into saying youre not ok when you need help like those days we just say morning or night and then we can try to make that person cheer up and idk its just nice to have a daily check in to know how everyone's doing and also imo it's easier to ask for help by not saying smth than by saying it so it's easier to trick the brain into actually telling the others

#i have a hard time asking for help generally bc it sometimes feels like i dont need it enough #but like with this system i can trick my brain into being like. im just saying if i think the day will be good. it probably wont. #so dont say good. and it has actually helped me a lot honestly #bc many times when i would not have said anything i managed to do it and got so much support from my friends #it has helped me out of so many spirals lol #and you just need to not say one of the two words you say every day say night instead of good night. #the day was not good ill just say night. the day was good then its probably gonna be a good night #also if youre particularly happy we also have the very good morning/night variations #which also allow you to show off your plans for the day if you have any so thats a bonus #anyway yeah im so happy we do this i hope we dont ever stop #(the guy who sends the pictures (obviously theres a grandma goodmorning and goodnigh pic every day) is very stubborn #so i dont rlly see it ending any time soon)(actually his grandma makes the pictures which makes it extra nice) #also this way the group stays on the top of whatsapp so it doesn't completely die like it did once lol #mine #life #friends