#‘not every cis gnc person is trans and you shouldn’t conflate gnc with trans’

[mars-ipan]

god i wish this website understood nuance and individual situations better

#marzi speaks #not gonna say too much on it #but the phrase: #‘not every cis gnc person is trans and you shouldn’t conflate gnc with trans’ #and the phrase: #‘a lot of people realize they’re trans after spending some time being gnc’ #can coexist !!!! #those are both true statements !!! #idk. i’m a gnc person who later realized i was trans #my mom is a gnc woman who is not trans. #she’s not an egg. we’ve talked about gender stuff. shems fully comfortable as a woman #i was technically an egg- though due to my genderfluidity i was ok with being perceived as a girl. smth just felt missing #neither of us ‘did it wrong’ #idk i see really intense arguments on both sides of this debate and like . guys it is not that deep please calm down :( #you shouldn’t harrass people and assume their identities for them. there’s also nothing wrong with a silly joke #just PLEASE stop equating people who say ‘hey someone presenting differently doesn’t always mean they’re trans’ to fucking don’t say gay!! #it isn’t ABOUT that stop stop stop !!! #be fucking nice to each other please i’m losing it