astarion whispering just how pathetic tav is being while they grind on his leg, his hand on their face and asking them if this is truly what they wanted from him - of course it isn’t - but he’s not feeling very forgiving since tav found it fitting to agree with gale over him.
this goes on for hours until tav is practically a whimpering mess.
tav never knows what mood gale is in depending on how he says “might i have a word with you, dear?” because it either leads to sex, a lecture, or ranting.