my chemical romance is the funniest and weirdest band ever. They’re all fucking losers who would genuinely rather play dnd than hook up with groupies. The singer used to work at Cartoon Network. The bassist is on the fbi watchlist for crimes against disney. One guitarist is a guitar god but he also used to keep a little action figure of spiderman in his pocket all the time, the other is like a little lap dog of a man, but he’s also on the fbi watchlist for death threats against a us president. They refused to be on the twilight soundtrack, one of the most popular franchises at the time but then they preformed on yo gabba gabba and re-recorded one of their songs in simlish.
i know everyone's already said 'cringe culture is dead' etc but PLEASE i am BEGGING you if you want to do something but think 'oh its weird/embarrassing'- do the thing!! Be yourself!!! wear a tail or kandi or anime merch!! Use neopronouns or xenogenders or microlabels that only you know about!!! Self ship and publish fanfic and fanart!! do things that you enjoy!!! !!!!!
When one has experienced a form of trauma or isolation that resulted in an involuntary feeling of being mentally “age locked”.
A trauma induced feeling of being “too young” or feeling like things are moving too fast. While you know you are the age of your body, and you do not experience mental development delays,, you still feel as if you are mentally younger than you are.
This can manifest in three different ways: Feeling as if you have mentally locked in the age of when your trauma took place. Feeling as if your mental age isn’t locked, but you still feel mentally younger, as if trauma slowed your mental age. OR Feeling as if you are locked in a mental age that was comforting to you (before or after trauma).
This is different from age regression as you aren’t in the headspace of a child, and you are fully aware of your current age and responsibilities. It is also different from age dreaming as it is not voluntary. It also is different from DID/OSDD as you are still the same person, not an alter or trauma holder. Therefore, this ID is not regression or system exclusive. (Although systems and regressors may use this!!)
Typically aetacinnotis becomes more apparent during stressful situations that require adult thinking or more complex skills. It also becomes more apparent when you look at the bigger picture of people your age. You may feel behind, but as if everyone else is moving too fast and you are at a steady pace.
Name Info
Aetacinnotis
pronunciation: eye-tah-chi-notice
(Aeta)te + cin(cinno) + men(tis)
Aetate is latin for age, Cincinno for lock, and mentis for mental.
I was unable to find a documentation of this in medical terms, a coined transid/age identity, or in age regression vocabulary. While I am not a medical professional, I have personally experienced this and witnessed multiple others experience it as well. I believe this is the first coining of this, but if I am wrong then please DM me with proof.
DISCLAIMER EDIT: it has been brought to my attention some people may use this as a gender or a disorder in itself. It is not a gender, only a term to describe a mental state. It also is not a disorder in itself, only an isolated symptom of other potential disorders. with that said if you experience this seeking therapy or treatment is highly advised.
(Image ID: A flag with 4 blue stripes at the top going from darkest to lightest, then a black stripe, then 4 more stripes going from white to gray)
TransHarmed
An identity where you are a transid that would make you desire to be harmed in some way or be some form of victim to a crime or some form of abuse! (Example: TransRapeVictim, TransAbuseVictim, etc)
This identity does not inherently mean you want these things. It can be used if you had something happen in a past life, in source, etc!
(This flag is an invert of the TransHarmful flag!)