A submissive relationship without sex #2 – Trust
(This is a series of posts about the question above, which I was involved in with an offline group, and here at Tumblr a bit. To read the other sections (and other unrelated posts) click on the tag #thoughts below.)
ALL of the feedback of our group and others was that if you want to have a fulfilling submissive relationship without sex, you need to start right at the beginning what will end up being the hardest step of all: find a man you know and trust. It won’t work otherwise. Such men exist, but not all girls know one. By trust I don’t just mean he tells the truth, doesn’t tell lies. I mean he will give you the attention and care you need in this experience. He will be be intelligent, understanding, a quick thinker, compassionate. Someone who is used to taking charge. Oh, and one other important condition – he needs to be experienced with Domination and submission. Believe me, such men exist. My man isn’t the only one. Trust is an embrace into which you can pour yourself safely. Good luck.
21 notes
·
View notes
She's just a girl, kneeling in front of a guy... and his worthy woman ..
339 notes
·
View notes
i just! i wanna be the kind of submissive that isnt JUST a little sex toy but is *also* a safe haven for their dom. like, yes i want you to want me sexually and dominate me and use me, but i also want you to need me as much as i feel like i need you. i want the exchange to be equal, where we both provide a comfort and a shelter for each other, even if we provide it to one another in different ways. we both take care of each other, emotionally, spiritually, sexually, physically. we should make each other feel safe and loved and wanted in ways that no one else can, inside and outside of the bedroom. that's what i want!
5K notes
·
View notes