Okay, so I've had my blog for about one and a half year and I created it because I wanted to have a place where I could freely and openly share my passion for black men and my views on interracial relationships from a white woman's perspective.
I have to admit that I am MINDBLOWN about the positive reactions I get from both women and men (both black and white) and it's made me an even stronger believer that black men are winning and I wanted to use this post to explain why:
In a new and increasingly feminised society, black men emerge as symbols of irresistible allure and attraction for us women, casting a shadow over the feeble masculinity of their white counterparts. As a white woman who appreciates the differences between femininity and masculinity, I can see why many woman are compelled to the strong, unbridled magnetism that sets Black men apart, both in the realm of sexual and emotional attractiveness, while exposing the fragile facade of white men's masculinity.
Black men possess a strong magnetism that breaks societal constructs which attracts us white women. Black men exude a sensual and sexual energy that leaves most white men trembling in their wake, their feeble attempts at masculinity paling in comparison to the strong, unbridled power that emanates from Black masculinity.
Beyond mere physicality, Black men offer a depth of emotional intimacy and understanding that white men can only dream of attaining. Black men possess an amazing ability to penetrate the emotional barriers of white women, forging connections that transcend the superficiality of white men's attempts at emotional connection. Black men posses a natural masculine need to care for and protect us women and also fight for us when needed to!
In the arms of a Black man, us white women are enveloped in a world of cultural richness and exoticism. Many women are simply not attracted to the bland homogeneity of white culture. Instead Black men offer exciting experiences that awaken a deep natural longing for adventure and exploration, leaving white men drowning in a sea of mediocrity and monotony.
Black men stand as strong symbols of masculinity and sexual liberation and freedom, shattering the chains of sexual repression that bind white men to outdated notions of masculinity and sexuality. With a fearless embrace of their own desires and pleasures, Black men unleash a strong passion and ecstasy that white women crave. In the essence of Black masculinity, white women find solace, fulfillment, and ecstasy—a testament to the unrivaled allure and power that Black men possess.
The bond between white girls and black men are NOT just about physical attraction!
Okay, so as a white girl who identifies herself as a 'snowbunny' I've read like hundreds and maybe even thousands of posts that try to depict the bond between white girls and black men.
While some really tries to explain the bond in depth and focus on the emotional and psychological properties of our attraction, mostly unfortunately only focus on the sexual attraction. So before I get any deeper into this, I just want to stress that MY definition of a snowbunny aren't based on mere superficial physical attraction. When I refer to myself as a snowbunny I define myself as 'a white female who are both emotionally, phycologically and physically attracted to black men'! You see how this is WAY different than just being sexually attracted to black men which is how the term 'snowbunny' is usually used?!
Okay, so yes! One of the main purposes I have with my blog is to convey how most of us white girls who define ourselves as 'snowbunnies', are more deeply attracted to black men than most posts depict! Black men aren't just superficial 'sexual fantasies' that come and go! Black men provide a much deeper fulfillment for most of us girls and though difficult to explain, the basis of this fulfillment is based on emotions and feelings and not physical or sexual fulfillment. I can't deny that these factors play a part too for most of us, but it's not the basis! By focusing solely on the sexual attraction we diminish the position that white females and black males have and that's wrong! The bond between us is about love, happiness, fulfillment and beauty. Things that should be cherished and respected!