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put this question on the forms at the doctor's office

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Day 613

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random 1/4

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fuck i completely forgot i need to curl up on my couch and scroll my phone for six hours. can we reschedule

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"We're drinking dead people tea?// Aren't we all?"

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i had to. (based on this tweet) before you say anything about imogen's 8 strength, i don't care. she's buff TO ME

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science fiction author Octavia E. Butler (1979)

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A brief moment of rationality from the bird place.

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Redraw of this it just fits too well

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This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.

When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.

I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.

This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy

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Edinburgh, Scotland.

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700 year old home in Iran