I never thought that I would be a victim of domestic abuse. I can’t believe this is the way my life went. I know it’s not over... I know I can move on and be okay. But it’s so sad to have my whole life turn over in one night. It went from being happy and having a life with another person... to being alone. Living still, but alone. How do you get past this. How do you move on...
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Please stop, y'all. Don’t compare conditions. While it isn’t incorrect to say that it is better to have alopecia areata than cancer, it’s also a stupid thing to say. Not only does in invalidate the feelings of alopecians, and then cause guilt about those feelings, it’s also something that you would never do about other conditions.
"Oh you have eczema? Well, at least it’s not leprosy”.
“…what?"
If you have Alopecia or a Hair loss Problem or know someone who does, because way to many people believe they are alone in this struggle. We should remind them that they aren’t alone and that they are beautiful. We are all here for you friend!
So after going back to wearing a wig I thought I’d share some fairly obvious rules on how to act around someone with a wig.
1) Do not stare.
2) Do not ask if it is a wig. It’s none of your business.
3) If the person denies it is wig accept it and do NOT bring it up ever again. They don’t want to talk about it.
4) Do not threaten to pull it off. It will never be funny.
These all happened daily to me and caused me to have constant panic attacks when I left the house so please never do these things.
She's falling but she doesn't think he'll catch her. Cause her last relationship was a disaster Accusations everyday she didn't know why All her calls would be ignored he's on his own time. Shoulda' ended it before it started All she ever got was broken hearted He was cheating on her tryna' flip it Back on her like a victim. Now she's all alone and starting over Now she's got baggage on her shoulder But the new guy really loves her She loves him but she doesn't trust herself anymore.