So we all know that Tumblr is US-centric. But to what degree? (and can we skew the results of this poll by posting it at a time where they should be asleep?)
False allegations don't make me panic anymore. There was a period where I was so mentally ill that you could make me believe anything about myself if you acted sufficiently like I was "in trouble", but that period has passed. You just had the advantage when my brain hadn't yet been allowed to develop beyond age 9.
the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.