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What have we missed?
How many of you are going completely crazy right now?? There is only so many things you can do in a 24 hour period of time. Some of us are going on 30 days in quarantine! There are so any FB posts out there on things families and single people are doing to stay busy and social with social distancing! Some are funny some are sad and some are just stupid. I have never wanted to go out on a…
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Single in a time of Craziness!
Singled, quarantined and possible end of the world and no on to share that with! This virus is seriously putting a damper on my sex life which is none, none and none. Had been even before this all happened. As you sit at home and have way to much time to think, it has come to mind that I am not sure I even want to find someone or can. I do have a roommate and kids to keep my mind busy. As…
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Quarantined!!! WOW
What is the world coming to??? When the isles in the grocery store are full with alcohol but out toilet paper and paper goods are all gone??? WTF if we are quarantined we need alcohol not toilet paper! I am going to stock up on liquor, games and red vines baby!!!! I am not sure who started this buy up all the toilet paper but really and then we have people who are freaking out and doing the…
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Texting? Where's the romance?
Texting? Where’s the romance?
Why can we not go back to the way it was years ago with dating? This whole online crap it doesn’t work. With all this online dating I think it has the men out there, and I am sure some woman, they are actually scared to approach anyone in public. This is how it works, you see someone across the room, sitting with friends, waiting in line and you watch them for a minute or two. No it’s not…
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Use your words!
I am not sure where or what my life will do in the next month! I am still wanting to get out of Durango so badly it is starting to physically hurt! It’s so amazing to me why I still get asked, “why?” My question is why would anyone want to stay? I am sure some people have moved here because they love it so much and they have had a second home here for a while, blah, blah, blah. I can tell…
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Best of Both Worlds! By golly I think I got it!!!
Best of Both Worlds! By golly I think I got it!!!
National Wine Day was yesterday!!! For those of you who did not realize it, today is as good as any to enjoy a bottle of wine!! For me some holiday’s are just stupid, I don’t understand why we even celebrate them? Valentines Day is one of those and for the love of God why do we celebrate Washington’s b-day and President’s day in the same freaking week? Kids are out of school on a Friday for…
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VD.... Oops Valentines Day, Why????
VD…. Oops Valentines Day, Why????
Valentines Day! Really?? I have never understood this holiday, can we even call it a holiday??? I did a little research on it and come to find out we have been celebrating Valentines since 496! Yep that is what I said 496 not 1496, 4 hundred and 96!! WTF people! This day is for showing your love to your true love! Well that is crap because you should do that everyday. For me to receive a…
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STUCK
“Stuck”, the word can mean so many things! For me I feel I have been “stuck” all my life! When I was a kid living in a house with 4 brothers and 2 sisters. I was second to the youngest and never seemed to do anything right. In my house you knew who the favorites were and I was not one of them. I felt stuck. So I got out, moved out and was on my own. Then all I did was work and have more…
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Romance,Mystery and Love, where did it go?
Romance,Mystery and Love, where did it go?
Sitting here today, its cold and quite. I am thinking about how silly we are about certain things at certain times. Like when you are in a relationship, how we question why someone wont call or let us know what he or she is doing. We sit there and wonder what they are thinking or not thinking! Then we start going into a tail spin, wondering if we are wasting our time and if this is going to…
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What we go through as woman
What we go through as woman
So I had a mammogram yesterday for the first time! WTF! It is not comfortable and it kind of hurts! I am getting to the age where I have to start to go in for all the old lady check up’s a pre check up’s and pre everything! The whole thing took maybe 7 minutes but that 7 minutes got me thinking! Which is never a good thing. I starting thinking about all the shit us woman have to get checked…
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Go Big!
Yesterday I was writing to you and I went off a little bit! LOL I know I do that a lot! I was going off on what my life has come to. Not that it is bad not at all, it might not be what I thought it would be! I still am too nice at times. I look around and see how other people are and how, if roles were reversed it would be different. I see how I handle my family and my life differently…
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Loneliness doesn't mean to settle!
Loneliness doesn’t mean to settle!
Your sitting there and a hand touches your shoulder, you look around and a handsome, well dressed man hands you the drink you have been drinking for the last hour. He goes on to sit down beside you and asks. “What is a beautiful lady doing sitting here all alone”? I know not the best line ever but its not the line that’s important its that you talk for hours and he wants to see you again…
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What kind of crazy are you?
What kind of crazy are you?
I think I might have a problem!!! I know some of you are thinking, “well duh have you read your posts?”! See part of me likes being single and not having to answer or let’s be honest “deal” with another person. I think a much bigger part of me want’s to be in a real true relationship. The thing is, I want it to just happen! I don’t want to have to go through all the questions and all the…
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What do I want? Real? One? Polygamy?
What do I want? Real? One? Polygamy?
I’m sitting here this morning in my new house drinking a cup of coffee and just thinking about the past. It’s cold here, very fucking cold and I hate it! I know I get asked all the time” why do you live in Colorado if you hate the cold?” Trust me I have left a few times and for some reason I end up back here. All I can think of is that its familiar and there is someone upstairs that doesn’t…
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2020, so much to do so little time!!!!
2020, so much to do so little time!!!!
20 wines in 20 days? 20 men in 20 weeks? 20 countries in 20 days? There are so many 20 in 20 days or weeks out there. From resolutions to diets to just about anything you want to do to change or make better in your life. I learned a long time ago to not put limitations on myself because I always disappoint myself. This is the year I will not limit myself, I will not question myself and I…
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Tis the Season for bad decisions!
Tis the Season for bad decisions!
Tis the season for all kinds of bad decisions. The fun kind and the bad kind. With the end of the year approaching quickly, if any of you are like me we want to try fit in those lost loves or choices that were never fully executed in before the New Year. That way we may possible get that midnight kiss! In getting the courage up to contact an old lover to see if “it could be” or wonder what…
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Arrangements, Prostitution, Dating, all the Same!
Arrangements, Prostitution, Dating, all the Same!
This dating thing is really gotten fucked up in our world! Once you think you have it figure out, you have no clue! I am not an expert on all of this or what other woman think but I know how I feel and from talking with my friends how they feel about it! Conclusion is that, single woman from 40 to 60 are looking for two things. One is eventually a relationship with a man that will last for…
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