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The secret to adulting is this:

Learn how to reduce your resistance against the things you know you have to do.

You don’t have to like it or enjoy it. You just need to stop avoiding, delaying, or ignoring what you know to be in your best interest.

With repeated experience of the benefits, you will learn a new kind of appreciation for the practice we call “adulting.”

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the kiss - wenzhou edition

#Woh #Sooo delicate❤️

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WORD OF HONOR  —  episode thirty-four

#Zzh gave here such Puzzled™ face #🥺🥺😭 #woh

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…….shut the FUCK up are you serious

#Hehe welcooome

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Gong Jun as Dongfang Yuechu in the upcoming Fox Spirit Matchmaker: Red-Moon Pact.

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Sad, Damp Wen Kexing is finished! (As finished as I am able to make him. ) I'm not sure he looks as damp as I wanted, but at least he's sad.

#Woh #Sad wet littol mewmee

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My favourite thing about the Xianle trio is just how sickeningly codependent close they are. Like, what do you mean you haven’t been friends in 800 years, your friend group fell out in the most painful and traumatic way it possibly could have, and you all have the absolute most reason to hate each other- but in The Cave Of 10,000 gods Mu Qing and Feng Xin were absolutely appalled at the disrespect to their prince. They were fiercely protective, refusing to let Xie Lian bear witness to what they thought was an incredibly perverted insult to his honour. They went toe-to-toe with one of the most terrifying ghosts who ever lived, all in defence of him, and did so without ever thinking twice. They dragged him through that cave system with desperately protective determination, caring for him fiercely despite being misinformed about the situation, and even though they had no obligation to. I’m biting people. Mu Qing and Feng Xin never stopped caring about Xie Lian. He’s no longer their prince, he’s no longer their employer nor even their friend, but they would still put their lives in peril for him. Even when they thought he was a violent criminal (Lang Qianqiu ily but pls kys) they visited his palace to give him medicine for his arm (something about Mu Qing brushing off his injury and saying it isn’t that bad cause all martial gods get injured, then being the first in line to go heal him is so sickening and vile I love him) and make sure he’s alright, then physically fought over the implications from each other about the other having been a bad friend. All of the bullshit trauma, all of the heartache, all of the reason they could have to not give a shit about him, and they were throwing hands over who was a better friend. I hate them. (I love them.)

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dirk and todd are on the case!!

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ppl are always writing characters doing dumb shit like roasting a fresh-caught rabbit over an open flame instead of making a stew with that thing. great now you’re letting all the fat drip down into the fire as it cooks, wasting calories and flavor as well as causing the flame to flare up = inconsistent heat source,… when you could be maximizing the nutritional value of small game by making a soup or stew. Come on

#There's also such thing as “ground oven” where u basically need a hole a fire and rocks #and its like SO rare to be used in fiction #and even like thought about as an option #I myself only learned about it in school from a short story about a boy lost in siberia

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Gong Jun for MESSIKA PARIS.

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#When i was into witch in primary school i meticulously page by page entered all the sites google could find #I remember i stopped at page 66? Or smth like that

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Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.

#Yes

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i can’t believe this video exists

#Omggggg #Hahhaha #erha

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must respect & cherish shizun