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softgirlhaven · 1 year
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Feel.
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Let me start off by saying this: stop trying to find something that will finally trick your mind into believing it to be real.
I recently got curious as to why we read so much on how to manifest and once we have all the knowledge we need, we seek more and more.
The more we read the more clueless and helpless we feel. These are things I think abt often, in order to make my posts as helpful as possible because I see what a lot of you struggle in.
First you seek your desires, and when you're told you should not seek your desires-you seek to not seek them. You seek the feeling and then you're told it comes from the state- so now you seek to feel the state.
You read this post that tells you you should understand how loa works and now you seek to understand.
This is because you feel yourself to be a certain way, and take it as the truth.
I sat with myself and started thinking about where I went wrong, why I feel so trapped and helpless when I have knowledge on everything I need to know and more I order to manifest?
I came to the conclusion that to me, a lot of loa posts teach manifesting and everything around it like a school book. Like the topic itself is beautiful, but when you try to explain it logically, it becomes boring and forceful.
You seek more information because the way it's given to you.
I came to the conclusion that I never liked the word "belief", it's what always stopped. It traps me into trying hard, repeating info until you get overwhelmed and bullying yourself when you sprial. Creating blockages by feeling like something is wrong with you.
I'm glad Edward art's recent video talks about this, and as he would put it; it creates a hell of your own.
When you think of belief, you think of I think of habit and something that's hardended and complex. When you think of habit you think of repetition, and then you go back to repeating affirmations until you spiral again and fall down.
Only to ignore being honest with yourself because you're afraid and deny yourself that care when you need it to the most
Let me make it clear when I say: your problem is not belief, it is feeling.
If you are looking for a step by step loa manifestation routine that will guarantee you your desires faster than the void, you're in the wrong place, and have the wrong idea.
It is then when you sprial. When you restrict yourself and logically try to make yourself strongly belief in your manifestation.
A lot of you have seen repeating lines from every loa blog, mabye you're tired of us saying that "imagination is the only reality" and " you are God and other than you there is none above " and wished we'd say something different, something that would help you, but what else is there??
What else is there more to say after discovering you are God and that everything is a reflection within you?? Nothing because it covers everything there is to know.
You only "fail to manifest" when you fail to feel yourself be God. Not believe yourself be God, FEEL yourself to be God, feel to be the only reality, when you fail to feel yourself be the only one in power, that is when you state comes forward and you dress yourself in it.
Please meditate on my words, and truly accept yourself to be the only one. I'm talking about feeling it to the bone, not just become aware and then go onto the next post, realize what this means to you. The rest follows you, as everything does.
If it's said that everything is taken care of, thay you need only to go to the end, be aware that as God it is already so, then what else is there to do other than accept and feel how it is?
You only need to give yourself permission to shamelessly feel yourself to be, and all the worries you had before will quiet down. Do not think about checking how much you believe you have your desires and actually enjoy what it's like already having them.
Don't try to believe, but feel.
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Demerdzhi, Crimea by Andrey Krivtsov
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my "do nothing" method
this isn't a method in itself but this is litteraly the funniest thing on earth for me and the best method i've ever tried. litteraly whenever i want something, i just instantly switch into a state of mind where i have that thing.
this is litteraly the concept of manifesting.
and what's funny is that everyone (and me as well) has or had this way of thinking that makes us overcomplicate anything. so now here we are looking for self concept affirmations and extra powerful "dangerous" subliminal and writing down 100x affs that sounds extremely wrong and unatural to us. what's funny is that, most of us will do all of those things without really understanding the purpose of it and even if it's not necessary at all to understand everything, i truly believe that it could be one of the main problems of manifestors.
how we manifest.
obviously we don't rlly know how it appears in our 3D as much as we don't rlly know why or how we live on a floating ball in litteraly nothing... my point is, you are in a state of mind. In the Neville Goddard reddit, i've learned a loooot of things and i understood this before really manifesting instantly. you are constantly in a state of mind; for exemple:
right now i am in a state of mind where i am writing my post about manifestation
5 hours ago i was in a state of mind where i was eating a kebab
and 1 year ago i was in a state of mind where i was struggling to get my desires
when you are manifesting, the state of mind that you are trying to reach is: i am in a state of mind where i have my desires
this is pure logic.
If you don't have your desires, you're thinking: "oh... i don't have my desires i should work on getting my desires."
and if you have them you're thinking "cool ! i have my desires, i don't need to do anything now."
and as you know (or don't), you must convince yourself that you have your desires in order to get them right? so (back to the method thing lol) why would you need to do anything if you have your desires ?
why would you need to take a bath if you are clean ? cuz you like that ? then sure ! take a bath to have fun, not to get clean since you already are.
why would you need to go buy bread if you already have some ? you don't need 2 baguettes, you have enough home and you are not even hungry since you already ate one (unless you're french and if you are then it's impossible that you don't have enough bread !)
see ? this is stupid, but this how we should think in order to get our desires. just replace bread or bath with your manifestation and see:
why would you need to write affirmations if you already are dating them ? cuz you like that ? then sure ! write affs for fun, not to manifest them since you already are dating them.
why would you need to listen to subs if you already have your desired body ? you don't need to manifest your desired body again, you already have it and you are satisfied with it !
and yes methods still works, ofc, but i truly believe that it can make you take way more time than it should espacially when your beginning and getting to understand manifestation.
anyways it's getting late and i'm tired and stuff so in the end
JUST GET IN THE RIGHT MINDSET AND YOU WILL GET YOU'RE STUFF THAT'S IT YOU DONT NEED TO WRITE 555 AFS PER HOUR
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゚: *✧ 𝑳𝒖𝒙𝒖𝒓𝒚 𝑩𝒆𝒅𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎 ✧*:・゚
I am so grateful for my luxury bedroom. I have plenty of space in my walk in closet where I can quickly see my whole wardrobe! I love taking long soaks in my deep bathtub surrounded by lit candles. I love falling into bed after a long day of shopping or traveling. I love spending time in front of my vanity where I can do all of my beauty care. I'm grateful for my perfect safe space.
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Think clearly about the destination 🩶
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softgirlhaven · 1 year
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you either have it or you don't, there is no TRYING to have.
give it to yourself right now. do it. don't question, don't rationalize, just accept it as yours RIGHT NOW. NOW NOW NOW.
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