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ftm stands for fuck that man

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People with siblings or know a pair of siblings I've got a question for you

the other day I had a conversation with a guy who said sibling friendships don't really count bc that's family and I'm just like, ??? yeah that's my family but I can also like my sister as a person and have a friendship with her. So I'm just curious to see what the general vibe here is.

btw the "it's complicated" option is for ppl who are either estranged siblings, parenting their siblings, or some other issue they've got going on not any weird freak shit(ifkyk)

Anyways choose your option and if want you can explain in the tags

#i heart my sister

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you are 16. you are talking with a gay man in his 50s or 60s, a friend, huge and gentle with a scarf and short fluffy curls of gray hair, who has directed you in two plays staged in your mid-size artsy town. (he has not yet asked you to be in his production of The Laramie Project which will change your life. this conversation will also change your life.)

he is talking about theatre. he is talking about theatre when he was younger. he says, "of course, it was AIDS then." in the pause, you ask him. clumsy and quiet and 16 and "straight," you ask him. what was it like.

he takes a moment in which his face is not like a person's face. "there was a time," he says, "i'm not sure how long, years. when i went to a funeral every weekend." he tells you about two funerals in a day, and choosing between friends when you couldn't make it to both. he does not look at you, he looks at them. his wet grey gaze is so clear that you start to see ghosts. it will be years before you understand why it feels like your grief too. why the ghosts call you family.

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ugh, Im craving some big burly hugs right now…. *doodles*

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summer hater here

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ithink wearing a faggy outfit and listening to shitty music will solve most if not all of yr problems

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The majority of people are horny. People are always going to be horny. You cannot stop people from being horny. Throughout history there have been extensive attempts to suppress horniness and they haven’t worked. You can be mad about it all you want but horniness will prevail against any adversity. There will always be an aspect of horniness within society. Sexuality cannot be contained by having missionary sex with your spouse alone in the privacy of a dark bedroom.

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The more the bear identity is mainstreamed, the more it gets sanitised. The more you get people insisting it doesn't mean what it means, that it's just for "buff and mayyybe a little chubby" "dad bod" "strongman build" whatever euphemism they can to deny fat men a place in their own community.

Fat hairy gay men built this place for themselves and now you're barging in and pretending they never belonged there.

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hey if ur a communist u should be an anarchist instead. hey if ur an anarchist you should brush your teeth more often

#i brushed my teeth today be proud of me

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Visibly trans people in customer facing retail and food services are braver than any marine and provide a far greater service to society

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Maybe cis men are right about sports. Seeing a bunch of sweating men compete against each other is fun

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a gun holster is more or less functionally the same as lingerie

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“it’s hard for me to undo internalized racism because i’m autistic” ok try harder then. like this isn’t optional. either deal with it or accept that poc aren’t gonna like you and are gonna think you’re a racist. what kind of copout shit excuse is that. stop being racist

#bruhhhhhhhh

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#crying screaming throwing up

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So what do you do if you meet a tranny guy and you take the pants off and its a pussy instead of a dick?

me personally?

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its called a happy trail bc i combust with joy when i see one