āIām turning forty in August. Three kids, full time job. All my kids are under the age of seven. The amount of mental energy it takes, you know, juggling all of them and the constant questions about nothing. I mean, mom is busy, please, just give me a second. My husband tells me that itās just the season weāre in. Weāll get back to it. But I just want it to slow down so I can pause and breathe. Everything just changes so fast, you know? When youāre a little kid, and you turn into a teenager, itās like: āOh, Iām changing now.ā But youāve been coached. Youāre prepared for it. Then you go from teenager to college. Thatās a big change. Then from college into your twenties, still changing. But at some point you kinda feel like Iām an adult, and Iām done. But you just keep going. Itās like oh shit, no, no, Iām going to keep changing. And these arenāt like the earlier changes. These arenāt the ones you get to plan for. Well some of them are, like: āWeāre moving to a new place.ā Or āIām going to get a new job.ā Those you can be ready for. But as you get older shit starts getting thrown at you that youāre not planning for. Dodgeballs. And youāve just got to pivot. And all of the sudden you realize, that moment in time, right before the dodgeball, that was the last time you saw the old you. And you didnāt even get to say goodbye.ā
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Woof?
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Asteroid City (2023)
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other actors: I sent live rats to my costars and drank sewage water bc Iām a method actor
rpatz: I played sonic everyday ābut only the dark versionā to really get in the headspace
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R O B E R T P A T T I N S O N for QG
Photography By Jack Bridgland
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I don't think you trust in my, squidward suicide
I, cry, when spongebobs deserve to die
(to the tune of spoken word chop suey)
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im just someones weird sister
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partner
+ bonus
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āthe butch questionā by judith p. stelboum, published in common lives/lesbian lives: a lesbian quarterly no. 47, summer 1993
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i had a dream that a rat was like biting me and then it went up my pant leg and i pubched it to death (in my pants) because i didnt want it in there and when it fell back out the rat had a little crown and i took it off and put it on my head
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why are u here
to witness everything with all of you
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