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PLEASING A WOMAN?
A while ago at a gathering I was listening to a conversation between some young guys and a woman older than them. The conversation was about sex, some questions, it was flirty, and then one of the guys said, ‘I know how to please a woman.’
He meant he knows ‘how to make a woman cum.’
What struck me about this was how narrow a definition it is of pleasing a woman. How it's come from a space of such limited possibility. How it’s fuelled by a porn society view of what we’ve made the epitome of sex. How it buys into the idea of sex as a performance and an achievement.
Nobody ever sat this guy down and spoke to him of masculine presence. Of holding the space for a woman to create and take her pleasure. Of the amazing possibilities that lie beyond orgasm. Of love and tenderness. Of talking and sharing. Of opening his heart to her. Of holding the space for her to open her heart to him. Of sensuality and slowness. Of connection and intimacy. Of exploration and discovery. Of the power of vulnerability. Of the safety he creates for her. Of the power of her sexual fire, and how to match it with his own. Of sexual energy. Of the union of heart and sex. Of reaching deep into himself to see who he is, and of sharing that. Of working on himself. Of questioning what is this thing to be a man, to be a sexual man, to be a lover. Of love itself.
Yes, he’s young.
Yes, he’ll learn.
Will he?
Who is going to teach him?
Who will offer him the opportunity to go beyond the narrow definition most men live with?
Who will show him the path to a manhood of body, mind, heart and soul?
Who will take him beyond the generation of angry, frustrated men who express masculinity with violence and with hatred?
Who will tell him of the power of connection over separation?
Who will show him how to free himself from a society that perpetuates myth and misunderstanding of sexuality, of himself and of women?
Who will show him of his power, his strength, his gentleness, and how to manifest them?
I think back to the last Sex Expo we did. I was giving talks and presenting experiences in The Theatre of the Erotic. This was the only genuine expression of pleasure there. The rest was porn, strippers, toys, gimmicks, the hype of sex. It's toxic, without a context to put it in.
From the comments after the shows we did, the questions people asked, it affirms how important this work of Conscious Sexuality (Sensuality) is.
If we can teach more people, of any age, the power of sexual energy, of the fullness of being a man, of being a woman, of the choices we have, we can go a long way to changing things in our world.
Have orgasms, give your partner pleasure.
That's the tip of the iceberg.
You want to please a woman, learn what it is to be a man, a Conscious Man.
Jonti Searll
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