People who give their partner the cold shoulder — deliberately ignoring the partner or responding minimally — damage the relationship by making their partner feel worthless and invisible, as if they’re not there, not valued. And people who treat their partners with contempt and criticize them not only kill the love in the relationship, but they also kill their partner's ability to fight off viruses and cancers. Being mean is the death knell of relationship.
Too much attention or too much fighting tires us and makes us feel like the relationship is too much work, but a relationship that requires no energy is a dead relationship. It’s not just about finding a love worth fighting for; it’s about finding a love we need to fight for.
1. Mahilig akong kumain. 🍝🍔🍟🍱🍣🍴🍜🍚🍲🍢🍧 Period. Haha 2. Madrama ako sa buhay. Di lang halata kasi lagi ako nakasmile. :) yeheees. 3. Im a frustrated pianist and guitarist. Sinubukan kong mag-aral pero wala eh. 4. May pagkaindecisive ako. Yung tipong bibili lang ako ng isang damit 100 yrs ang aabutin. Lol 5. May pagakuripot ako. Sana ikayaman ko to. Hahahah. 6. I love acting, dancing and singing. Oh how i miss the stage. Hehe 7. I want to travel the world. Someday! 👊 8. Dream ko magkaroon ng travel show. Or kahit si Darla na lang ako, solb na ko. 9. I love stars. 10. Gusto ko rin maging fashion designer at news anchor. Commercial Model na rin at artista. Lahat na. Hehe 11. Overthinker. 12. Favorite color ko ang purple. Pati blue green at pink. 13. 13 is my date of birth, Opal ang birthstone ko and i was born in the year of the Monkey. 14. Gusto ko magkaroon ng bear na kasing laki ko. or kahit yung U shape na unan. Ehem sana nababasa mo to. Haha 15. I love horror movies. Esp kapag bitter ako. Pero may pagkaduwag ako minsan. Tapang tapangan lang. 16. Im a great fan of korean movies and series. The best ang mga Romcom nila. Saranghae! ❤ 17 . Feeling ko bipolar ako. Pero hindi naman ako masyadong moody. In short abnormal ako. Haha 18. Sometimes im afraid to take risks but if it's worth it, ill give it all. #noregrets 19. Ayoko ng carrots. Pero kung small cuts lang. Keri. 20. I love adventures. Gusto ko mamundok, mag para gliding, magsurf, magpakasurvivor sa isang isla at marami pang iba. (na kasama ka, ahihi 😉) 21. I hate arguments. Di ako magaling makipag away. Hehe 22. Gusto ko pumayat. Pero tinatamad ako kumilos. 😂 Hehehe 23. Ayokong naseseenzoned at yung napakatagal magreply. Sino ba naman ang gustong nababalewala? It hurts you know. Haha #whogoat 23. Mababaw lang ang aking kaligayahan. 😁 25. I do believe in the golden rule. Do unto others what you want others do unto you. Pero minsan ang lang talaga hirap pangatawanan. ✌
Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm. - Proverbs 13:20
My dear sister,
Walk with the wise.
Talk with the wise
Hang out with the wise…
Wait for a relationship with the one who is wise!
If a guy cannot tell you where he’s leading your heart, then don’t let him consume all of your time and energy. When you spend all of your time investing in someone who isn’t willing to commit, you’re pretty your heart in a very dangerous place. It’s not wise to let someone just take your heart and run with it. Even if it’s nothing more than a texting conversation right now, if this has been going on for weeks and months and he hasn’t made any effort to be serious about, it’s time to back away and guard your heart! Don’t walk with anyone who can’t tell you where things are going.
Remember this if:
1. He’s texting you all the time
2. He’s spending a lot time with you
3. He’s flirting with you
4. He’s been intimate with you
5. He asked you out
6. He throws hints as if he’s serious, but won’t commit
7. He talks to you, but also talks to other girls
8. He seems like a good guy, but is making bad decisions
If there is a guy in your life who is doing any of these things yet he can’t tell you where if he is willing to commit to you or not, know that this does not mean he is a terrible person, but he has simply not made a choice to be wise right now, and my dear sister, don’t allow yourself to be emotionally tied to someone who is not taking you seriously. Your heart belongs to God and whatever guy is texting you right now, or is paying extra attention to you right now has to know that. I know sometimes it is tempting to just do anything to not have to be alone, or maybe, you just REALLY like him…but it doesn’t matter how much you like him, he can’t just lead you on like that.
Proverbs 4:23 reminds us to guard our hearts because everything we do flows from it! So wait for the one who is pursuing God with his life and knows who your heart belongs to!
Further reading: Pr. 4:23, 2:20, 15:31
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