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Hey! So this came up on dash and I got a little carried away to the point it was too many characters to put in the comments section lol. Of course every Lee is unique and you know yours best so here's just some little options for you to pick from if you think any might work 🫶:

Use it against them: As you know shameless Lees can be a little harder to fluster, but just as fun, and it also makes twisting their own words against them sooo much easier. If they agree with a tease like the one above just keep it going, something along the lines of "Yeah? You do? So I guess you won't mind if I tickle here, right? Or here? How about here? Ooor should we go here instead? Is this spot worse, or is it this one?" Once they get sufficiently giggly you can start switching it back on them with comments like "Awww what's wrong, you said you loved this! Why are you getting all flustered now?" Proceed to get them on their worst spots if you know what they are, or just have fun with it if you don't, as soon as they come out with any semblance of anything along the lines of even a stuttered 'stop!' or 'okay!' ect, or get particularly squirmy, then you can start laying on the teases about how you're just accommodating exactly what they wanted. The "What? I'm just giving you the tickles you asked for, cutie." or "Oh please, I know you don't mean that, you said as much! Stop being so dramatic and take your tickles like a good *insert-whatever-nickname-they-like-here." -- Things to that effect.

It also kind of depends on how much you want to play with the fact they're shameless about it, and to what extent they are, you know? I mean sure they can admit they love it but can they tell you it tickles? Can they even use that word? And if so can they say it while being tickled? Because if not then suddenly you have a lot more teasy options in your arsenal. You can also skirt around the fact with teases that don't really give them an option for that kind of response, things like: - "Uh oh....I think we found a spot!" - "I'm not even/barely touching you, wow you're in trouble." - "You're so cute when you squirm around like that." - *Counting down from any number as your fingers wiggle closer and closer* - "Oh ~ it tickles here? really? How bad?" 

(Those last few are ones I'm sure you already know, but like I say it's all just ✨options✨ lmao.) Hope this helps get some ideas flowing a little! And if I completely missed the mark on the sort of teases you had in mind then my IMs are always open 🤗

anyone have good teases for lees who like being tickled and have no shame? trust me i’m very happy that my lee has no shame, but every time i try to tease them it’s like

“aww, you love this sooo much” 😈

“heehee yeah” ☺️☺️☺️

#ler moods #tickle community

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That point when a lee finally breaks and can’t hold in their laughter anymore and you get to remind them that they swore to you that they weren’t ticklish there >>>

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shoutout to all of the lees who think they’re not good enough. all of the ones who criticise themselves about their body image. the ones who hate their laugh. the ones who feel like they’re not worthy of getting tickled. the ones who compare themselves to other lees. the ones who haven’t experienced a session yet. the ones who think they’re not pretty enough to be tickled. i love you ALL so incredibly much and i hope you start to realise your worth ❤️

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personally i think girls who get embarrassed easily should be tickled but that’s just me idk

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@ my mutuals who are struggling to love themselves right now or just in general. I love you and I’m proud of you. You’ll get there. You’re worth it.

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I love it when the tickle models can't resist and break from the role play to tickle back the one that's supposed to be tickling them in the scenario

#When it *accidentally* turns into a tickle fight #Which lbr is just Lee code for 'wreck me' 🥰 #Super cute

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My favorite ler move you ask?

Easy. You know when you have a lee with their arms tied up so they’re all precious and stretched out? You just hover your hands over both of their sides, just barely an inch away from the skin, then you look down at em with that playful look and you coo “don’t you squirm babygirl… don’t you move an inch! Uh ohhhhh I’m gonna get you pretty thing… don’t move! Oooh don’t squirm!”

And then suddenly, one of their sides will touch your hand (cause of course they start to squirm when you coo down at them). Just a few squeezes send them back to the other hand on the opposite side and then just…

Rinse and repeat. For minutes on end… until they’re bouncing back and forth so quickly and squealing for a break.

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“not there” is one of my favorites. like i would’ve tickled you there regardless but hey thanks for confirming how fucking badly it tickles! makes my job easier! 🥰

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Imagine having a bellybutton that ticklish

~ TheTickleRoom

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The bondage setup portion of sessions is one of our favorite things: it’s a great opportunity for silliness and last minute bravery before the helplessness truly settles in.

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That ask you got from that anon is a big red flag in my eyes. Her comfort is so much more important than being able to tickle her properly as you said. A lot of Lees feel uncomfortable in their own skin and for some it takes a while for them to feel comfortable enough to be that vulnerable. They need patience and reassurance from their ler, not convincing into doing something they dont feel comfortable doing. I really hope this lee hasn't made a bad choice here and that they don't have a bad experience with this one

Couldn't agree more. Asks like that genuinely worry me so much and I hope the Lee stays safe 💚

#asks

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Okay now stay with me.

The pose where your Lee is laying down on their back (not even tied down.)

And you have them put their arms up above their head… and you sit on their arms? Maybe even securing them in the crook of your knees?

A perfect pose/way to lock in a Lee.

Lee is helpless and exposed? ✅

Lee’s spots are not only exposed but also taught/ready for tickles? ✅

Lee face up, and forced to look up at you? ✅

Lee can still wriggle around and kick… but can’t get away? ✅

Lee can’t bury their face so their laughter and begging can still be audible, and they can still hear you? ✅

Oh? Your underarms and sides are really really ticklish? Hmmm. Well you see, thankfully I’m right here so you can tell me all about it. Go ahead, tell me how even a small touch there makes you go wild… I’ll just rest my hands along your underarms and…

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What about CNC? That's not abuse. Those tags were assuming and a little kink shaming ngl 🤷‍♂️

Honey, I don't even know how that relates to what I was just speaking about but the clue for it is right there in the god damn name: Consensual non-consent. It's not a 'oh hey! you're into cnc so I can coerce you into something you don't want to do without any prior discussion.' it's a 'hey we're both consenting adults who are kind of into this idea, let's talk about it and go over hard limits.' See the difference? Sure it might not be something that interests me, but even I know that.

#Apologies for dragging this out on the dash #I usually tend to just ignore/delete this kind of thing but i'm in the mood to fight some ignorant people tonight apparently #don't worry this will be the last one I respond to for now 🫶

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So my lee friend and i are potentially meeting up pretty soon and i can't wait to tickle the shit out of her!

It's gonna be great, the only issue is that she's pretty adamant she wants to keep all her clothes on no matter what. She said she'll take her shoes and socks off and maybe wear a t-shirt or whatever but i just, idk if i can tickle her properly like that you know? Do you have any advice to help convince her it's okay and way better without?

I mean.....I really don't know what kind of response you were expecting to get from this? I was half debating just ignoring it like I usually do with asks in this wheelhouse but you know what, these topics are important, so let's talk about it. If i'm being honest, I don't think you should be Lering for anyone if you can't respect a boundary like that to the point you're asking for advice on how to gaslight her about it??? You were so close to having the right mindset at the end there; convince her it's okay. That is literally all you need to do. Because it is. Because I can't believe I actually have to say this, but her comfort level with her own body has absolutely nothing to do with you.

Your job as a Ler is to make sure she's safe, comfortable, and enjoying a scene as much as you are. That's it. Tickles over clothes are completely valid and still fun and great. If during pre-session talks you get the okay to sneak hands under clothes so long as skin isn't on display, amazing. You literally mentioned her being okay with giving you her bare feet, that's no small thing! Open and honest communication is genuinely the most important thing in any of these spaces, and she's doing that with you. You owe it to her to do the same if it's truly something that'll prevent you wanting that experience, but don't you dare make her feel guilty about it. If a lack of clothing is more important to you than your Lee's comfort level then I really don't know what to tell you other than the fact you should probably re-evaluate that mindset before meeting up with anyone.

#I know it's a bit of a rant #I'm just so sick of the whole 'my Lee's uncomfortable but I really want them to do a thing' asks I've been getting lately #At what point in ANY aspect of my blog does it look like we're of the same mindset?? #I don't care how you word it - trying to coerce anyone into doing anything they're uncomfortable with isn't a healthy dynamic #it's just abuse #like how tf is that not obvious?!

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Happy International Women's Day to disabled women, neurodivergent women, poor women, fat women, queer women, women of color, Jewish women, Muslim women, women who are sex workers, women who are addicts, women who are homeless, women who are single mothers. ♀️

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So I thought I’d try come up with same names and rules to some popular tickle games/challenges

#Tickle Games #Theses all sound so fun!