18+ only! | She / Her | 40s | Bi | Poly | FFA | Female Feeder | If I told you that you had a nice belly, would you hold it against me? | Harboring a few feedee fantasies of my own (shhhhh!)
sometimes for me the best part of feedism is sexualizing ed recovery. like oh you had three full meals today?? and snacks?? and dessert??? damn thatβs fuckign hot π« you ate to fullness and maybe even past that?? fuckkkk π₯΅π₯΅ umm you should do that tomorrow too π€ and the day after that π
π’UNDERSTANDS AND EMPHASIZES THE IMPORTANCE OF CONSENT.
π’ Knows the difference between βfeedismβ and βfeederismβ
π’ Understands and respects boundaries and hard limits. Will not (without consent) push you further than you are truly comfortable with and will not get mad/angry when you use safe words during play
π’ Has a willingness to establish safe words and other protocols to ensure you stay comfortable and safe during play
π’ Has done research and understands the complexity of size discrimination and fat politics
π’ Is a vocal advocate for the rights and equality of fat folks and other marginalized groups
π’ When planning dates and outings, they take the time to plan the most comfortable route and accommodations for their larger partner. (restaurants with space and no booths, travel accommodations like taking uber instead of walking, buying extra seats on airplanes, etc)
π’ Worships your growing body but also adores you and your body outside of the context of kink.
π’ Sees you as a person first and not a sex toy. Values your opinions, hobbies, perspective. Appreciates your humanity and makes you YOU.
π’ Constantly shows you how appreciative they are of your choice to participate in this kink
π’ Values and protects the trust you have placed in them. (not sharing private photos, not using language that makes you self conscious, etc)
π’ Occasionally pays for meals/stuffing sessions. And/or contributes to your meals and gain when possible.
π’ Understands that being an online feeder/encourager does not by default offer the same privilege and authority as being an irl feeder/encourager. (Thereβs only so much you can realistically demand for through a screen)
π’ Is aware of trendy plus size brands and clothing options that will accommodate their partnerβs size
π’ Follows fat people on social media (not to fetishize but to have a diverse social media experience)
π’ HAS IRL FAT FRIENDS
π’ Respects the limits to your gain and will not pressure you to gain more (without consent)
π’ Stays aware and respectful of teasing and comments made about your gain in relation to your gender expression. Avoids triggering language and gender based teasing when there is no consent
Omg. Gonna have to figure out what time zone hungrykeaton eats dinner in and tune in! Check out the interplay between him and an anon below. I wonder how much he could eat if several of us tag teamed him?
Awww! You still look nice and round to meeee! You just need an in-person feeder girlfriend, and you'll be hitting SSBHM in no time! European ladies and theydies - I'm looking at you here!
Had a tray of pizza yesterday. It was absolutely delicious. The one before felt like a century ago.
Today I felt like shit most of the day π π
I'm so out of shape. Both as a person in general but also my old feedee form π₯² What an embarrassment
Where do I sign up for important PSAs like this, instead of yet another winter storm warning from Alexa?? Or maybe that's what those "excessive heat" warnings are all about in the summer. π€ππ
Important update, just in time for Fat Ass Friday:
The shirt just went from "covering" to "framing". I fail to see a problem here...
This top was able to hide my belly hang just fine before my McDonald's stuffing.. well maybe just barely π«£ but after chugging all that melted ice cream even my belly button was showing π³