'Beyond the door, a winding stair lit by black nephrite lamps, and far below, the place called Nowhere where the Dead drift down, where nothing is exactly forgotten.'
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@nestaarcheronweek
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⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ — a/n: my baby nesta has been through so much and she deserves the world. she's a complex character that has so many different colors to her and honestly she's a kaleidoscope of them, hence the title. for @nestaarcheronweek
⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ — summary: nesta realizes her worth.
⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ — warning: mentions of depression and self-love.
platforming palestinian joy is just as important as sharing the suffering they're enduring during this genocide. despite continued displacement and bombardment, you cannot steal their joy and spirit. happy birthday to this sweet baby 🖤🇵🇸 may they grow up to see a free palestine
edit: @saffronlesbian made a video description for this post!!
[vd: a screen recording of a tweet from the 20th of April 2024 with 2.5 million views, from Ruhi @/ruhi_hi. the caption reads, "This video of this little Palestinian angel celebrating his bday in a refugee camp" followed by three emoji of a smiling face with teary eyes. the video clip is 11 seconds long and shows a one-year-old baby seated on the sandy ground, smiling hugely and clapping his hands while people sing to him from offscreen and a large cake is placed in front of him. stuck into the top of the cake is a decoration that reads "happy birthday" in english. the video has the tiktok handle @/ibrahim.jamal99 visible in it. /end vd.]
Look for the root of the problem. Maybe you’re stuck being a people pleaser, or maybe you don’t even know what your boundaries are.
If you identify with the first one, ask yourself why are you a people pleaser. Independently of the situation that might be making you act like this, internalize the thought that bending backwards for the sake of other people and completely disregarding your needs and values will destroy your sense of self-love and self-respect and make people lose respect for you, making you miserable. Surround yourself with communicative people and stop trying to guess everyone’s needs, it’s their job to communicate them to you. Do things you’ve always wanted to do in order to practice focusing on yourself and having your space all to yourself instead of giving it away that easily.
If you identify with the second one, you might need some time alone to reconnect with yourself. The way you find out who you are and what you want is to spend time with yourself, because you naturally gravitate towards what feels good to you. At the end of the day, you’re going to be stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so turn this into something positive. Start meditating, journaling and look for question prompts to get to know yourself better. Once you know who you are and what you want, setting boundaries is going to be a piece of cake.
What boundaries should we set?
Even if there are some non-negotiables, everyone has their own boundaries. Set boundaries that make you feel respected, comfortable and authentic. Tune into your emotions and thoughts and stay true to yourself.
II. SETTING BOUNDARIES.
Now, this is the hard part. Once you know what you’re boundaries are, approach the situation by what you consider the best approach: assertively, politely… But without diminishing what’s bothering you. State the problem calmly and how it affects and bothers you.
Don’t make this whole situation into a bigger deal than it is, be chill about it and don’t act emotional or upset. Remember that you don’t have to apologize or explain yourself too much, you also have a right to say no and you don’t need an excuse not to do something that you’re uncomfortable with doing.
What do you do if someone tries crossing them?
If you’ve told someone about your boundaries and they still try crossing them on purpose, they’re out. Letting someone disrespect you is an act of self-deprecation, and if they do something once, they will most definitely do it again. Don’t be upset over it and tell them calmly that if your boundaries make them uncomfortable enough to not respect them, it’s better to part ways. Let them go.
III. BOUNDARIES WITH OURSELVES
It’s even harder to set boundaries with ourselves than it is to set them with other people. We’re always making excuses for our acts of self-deprecation. We even keep making depreciative acts against ourselves subconsciously, making it even harder to change it and set boundaries.
Here are some examples of acts of self-love and setting boundaries with ourselves:
Limit the time spent on social media and stop consuming content that makes you sad.
Learn your triggers and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
Communicating with other when you feel uncomfortable, hurt or upset.
IV. TYPES OF BOUNDARIES.
Physical Boundaries: These refer to personal space and physical touch. They include awareness of what’s appropriate, and what’s not, in different settings and types of relationships. They also include preferences for respect, privacy, closeness and touch.
Sexual Boundaries: These are related to consent and include the emotional, intellectual and physical aspects of sexuality. Healthy sexual boundaries involve mutual sexual understanding and respect of limitations and desires between sexual partners.
Emotional Boundaries: These refer to how your own and other’s emotional needs are handled. They are all about respecting and honoring feelings and energy. Setting emotional boundaries means recognizing how much emotional energy you are capable of taking in, knowing when to share and when not to share, and limiting emotional sharing with people who respond poorly.
Spiritual Boundaries: They relate to your deepest values, sense of meaning, and inner truth guiding your life journey. They anchor you when outer forces challenge your identity or purpose.
Financial Boundaries: These boundaries are designed to protect your financial well-being, maintain healthy relationships, and ensure you are not taken advantage of financially. Financial boundaries can cover a wide range of areas, including lending money, sharing expenses, giving financial advice, and discussing personal financial details.
Time Boundaries: Time boundaries are the limits you set on how much time you spend on different tasks, activities, and relationships. They help you prioritize your goals, protect your energy, and avoid burnout.
How do these boundaries benefit you?
Boundaries should help you establish and maintain healthy relationships with others and yourself by helping us build trust, safety and respect. They also prevent burnout and resentment, and protect our mental health and wellbeing
‼️ takes place after chapter 21, feyre and rhysand’s wedding ‼️
masterlist previous
— NOTES
we were robbed of a canon feysand wedding moment…
y/n is basically the fourth archeron, views them all as sisters so this moment was really special for them 🥹 (nesta and cassian both gave speeches for feyre and rhys)
invisible string theory for azriel and y/n is so real!! they finally get a happy ending :)
i love your works so much how do you do your colorings for covers in fics? they look so good
thankyouuu !! here’s how i color the manga panels — using one app — picsart 😙
first: get your desired pic, go to picsart and start editing it.
second: at the bottom, you see a lot of buttons, such as ‘cut out’ ‘crop’ etc. what you’ll do is you’ll click on the button ‘FX’
third step: when you’ve clicked on ‘FX’, you’ll see a row of more options that you can choose of. choose ‘colors’
note. (look down below at the upper two pictures for visual representation of this)
fourth step: you can experiment with any of the options that appear on your screen! but, what i did, is i clicked on ‘Color Gradient’
fifth step: you can then experiment with the colors you want your cover to be and how you want the gradient to look. after choosing your colors, you can also play with the hue, saturation and fading if you would like!
sixth step: once your colors are chosen, you’ll see another row under the ‘fade’ button, that i’ve circled in the picture on the left (bottom two pictures). those are blending modes. you want to scroll past until you’ve got the mode ‘Lighten’.
note. that is what i personally like to use. you can use screen, overlay or whatever you think is best for your cover!
seventh step: after that, you can save the picture or you can go ahead and edit your picture some more. i like to add ‘blur’ — which is also in the ‘FX’ category.
eighth step: on the right picture, you see that i choose the first option ‘Blur’. play with the two buttons ‘Blur’ and ‘Fade’ that pop up to get the desired amount of blur.
ninth step: blend modes again. i choose ‘lighten’ as per usual, but you can also choose ‘overlay’ or whatever suits your tastes!
that’s it !! you can save your picture and voilaaaaaa - you have your own edited manga panel
my second request (and plz ignore these if you don't want to do them) is for Gavriel. Can I please pretty please have some general relationship headcanon's for him. like how much he absolutely dotes on you and what you do for each other also maybe some nsfw stuff
the biggest i hate you moment was his death... i was in love w this man, and hoho did a nono smh (i am planning a riot)
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Relationship with Gavriel:
man is a HARDCORE dilf
like, he will protect you and keep you safe, but is also incredibly respectful of your boundaries
i am a FIRM beliver that this bitch buys you flowers weekly- like the second the ones you have are wilted, even if it's like barely, BAM! new ones
def takes you out on dates at least once a week, probably more tbh
hand placement >>>>>>
this man has RESPECTFUL hands, which only makes him hotter
they'll sit on your waist, the small of your back, thighs (not too high tho, lets be real), between your shoulders
you can not tell me this man is not an ass man
like, he will grab a handful of that whenever he can, if only to make you laugh
sore after training???
no worries, massages all day
i also feel like he's a good cook??? like some of your dates are just being chefs in your own house
arguments??? not a thing
if you have any discrepancies, this man talks it out
he is VERY open about his feelings and views with you- you never have to wonder what he's thinking
i could also see him telling you sweet things long after you've fallen alseep in his arms
jusy about how lucky he is to have you, how excited he is for your future, and how much he loves you
NSFW:
one word: GENTLE
i won't accept anything else
the only time this man gets rough is if you are literally begging for it, THEN he'll be mean
otherwise, he is so careful and kind with you
pillows and comfort all the way for him
he def makes you come at least twice before he indulges
he might be gentle, but man is still very much a dom
he knows what he's doing, and he acts like it
"Hands and knees, beatiful girl."
ya know?
he 100% loves it when you ride him
also, i feel like he would always wanna see your face??? (whether you're facing him or there's a mirror or something, idk)
only time he would ever turn you away from him is when he's being mean (after you begged, obvi)
that's another thing, he DEF likes begging when he is being more rough
but the after care??? DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED
10/10
he cleans you up, feeds you, tells you how much he loves you, makes sure you're coazy after - the whole thing
imagine eventually convincing bakugou to start making those vlogs for your future kid when you find out youre pregnant.
at first he rolls his eyes at the shitty camera you bought from 5below on a gift card for christmas. acting like the camera was bothering him and you were annoying him at first.
"get that shit out of my face and go to sleep."
he ignores you when the two of you are cuddling and you pull out the camera to tell it goodnight, or you set the camera up to record you both getting ready in the morning and everytime he'd yell "turn that shit off I'm naked!!"
but the more he hears you talk to the camera saying things like; "hey! its mom again!" , "I cant wait to meet you!" he can't help but melt into the whole idea.
so eventually he's posing when the camera is pointed to him, not making stink faces when he sees it, he's kissing you when you pull him closer into the frame and even sometimes (rarely) taking the camera and talking to it himself.
"hey uh-kid. don't know what were gonna name you since your momma wanted to keep the gender a surprise, shes so corny. and you need to start kicking for me too because everytime I go to feel it you stop! little asshole."
i can imagine fasting forward on this, your daughter is 18 and on her way to collage when she finds these in the deepest darkest depths of the downstairs junk closet.
ad when she brings it up to the two of you bakugou is instantly in denial but you're willing to watch every single one with her and laugh at the memories.
watching them all in order and literally in every single one at some point in the video bakugou is yelling "turn that shit off!!!" or when your kid sees her dad back in 2006 shes oddly shocked.
"the 2000's were such a trip, I remember when your dad was training to be a hero, but he'd use a ton of hairspray and it ended up lighting his hair on fire one time."
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katsuki knew you better than you knew yourself. he knew your preferences, style, personality, even memorized your social security number since you always forgot it. he’d lived with you for damn near 5 years now.
“katsuki”
so when you wake him up in the late hours of the night, all needy and pent up he shouldn’t be surprised, he doesn’t even bother getting angry at you because you always tended to get needy in the night.
you shook him softly, his back turned to you as you tried to wake him. his body rising and falling with quiet snores that became irregular when you shook him.
“katsuki?”
“mm”
“katsuki!”
“what’s wrong”
he didn’t even bother opening his eyes, still laying there like a rock as he waiting for a response from you.
“can we fuck? please katsuki”
the male sighed and lazily grabbed his phone from the nightstand, squinting hard just to see the time. 2:06AM.
“you can’t sleep?”
the silence in the air already told him the answer, katsuki didn’t bother to keep questioning you as he began to shuffle out of his boxers.
“take your panties off.”
he muttered, helping you on your back and pulling the green underwear off your ankles, not without noticing the wet part on the middle of them and giving you a ‘you needed me that bad?’ look. he put your hand around his cock gesturing for you too put it in since he was too tired to find the hole.
bakugou moaned as he settled himself into your sopping cunny, strong hands almost making dents in the headboard as he rocked his hips into yours and watching your slick create thin strings between you and him.
your legs were loose around his waist, toes curling everytime he let himself go deep with your hands touching at his chest and stomach.
“shit.. pussy make me wan’ give you a fuckin’ baby.”
he grunted the words out with a small shake in his voice, like he was trying to hold back a couple moans. he tiredly let his head fall in between his strong, well built arms that held the headboard as he looked down at your face, eyes teary and mouth half opened while you clenched around his cock.
katsuki sat up from his position with hard-to-silence heaves to pull the black wife beater he had on over his head and throw it somewhere across the room as his body temperature started to rise.
he secured his position by grabbing onto your sides so he could fuck you harder. needy moans filled the warm room along with the quiet sound of skin connecting. you could’ve sworn that you went mute every couple of minutes from the surges of pleasure he was feeding into your cunny. wait could you hear how wet you were?
your long time boyfriend gave a lazy smile as he leaned down to make out with you as an attempt to get you quiet so you could her your cunny talk to him as well. quiet squelching could be heard if you really did listen in detail.
“hear her singin’ ? s’ all you—…shit girl..gets this bad at night?”
your pretty eyes were rolling as you tried your best to nod, barely even hearing him while you were concentrated on not cumming too fast and trying not to squirt since you knew you forgot towels. still, loud pornographic moans bounced off of your bedroom walls.
“y..es..kat-suki..”
“alright. ima take care of it baby”
a/n: i refuse to write a whole smutshot!!!!!
aizawa ver
blondieeu xx
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