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almost none of the reasons why i support abortion rights have anything to do with babies. really it’s more about the fact that I think the government shouldn’t be able to force you to lend all your organs to someone else and change irreparably in the process. is a fetus a person? I don’t care! If it is a person, I don’t want anyone to be forced to host one against their will! If it isn’t a person, guess what? Nobody should be forced to host one against their will! What’s a soul? What’s a person? When does life begin? IRRELEVANT! A world in which the government can force anyone to manufacture an entirely new human body at the cost of their own is not a world I want to live in!

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Me, plunking Stinky Bastard Man’s carrier on the counter: hi he’s here for shots and a nail trim and he’ll need to be sedated

Nurse: Are you sure? We can try-

Me: he needs to be sedated

Nurse: Well, it’ll take longer-

Me: he needs to be sedated, he will try to rip your face off

Nurse: Well we’ll try without first and we’ll let you know if we need to sedate

Me, watching her carry him away: you will need to sedate him

Nurse, coming back 10 minutes later clutching her hand: so, we will need to sedate him

Me:

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idk im really tired of 15-17 year olds who have never interacted with the gay community irl and spend too much time on tiktok trying to act like the authority on all that is lgbt+ 

#save for later

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Every night you dream that you talk to a genie, when you wake up you can't remember what you wished for. One morning you wake up with a giant crab pincer replacing your right arm. What do you do?

Melt some butter

#show and tell time #show and tell #satt #satt-prompt #satt-writing-prompt #satt-genie

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<3

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trans women are real women

art by liberal jane

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show lesbians of color the same love, admiration and respect you show to white lesbians. listen to lesbians of color, love us without fetishizing us, befriend us and protect us, boost our voices and stop automatically seeing us as even more “aggressive” or “mean” for speaking up. we’re tired and we want respect.

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I want to apologise to

- Britney for making fun of her when she had her breakdown

- Monica Lewinski for judging her when she was a 22year old temp sexually assaulted by the most powerful man in the world

- Ke$ha for ever thinking she was trashy when all she wanted to do was make party music

- Kristen Stewart for ever thinking she was dumb when she’s actually one of the coolest people ever

- Megan Fox for ever thinking she was just a slut when actually she was an actress being harassed by her employer. 

- Hating all the women who made a career out of having a hot body. Being is shape is hard, beauty is a weapon and auto promotion is hard work. 

- All the Mary-Sues, who exist because young girls everywhere want to be part of a story they love so much

- All the female characters I ever snobbed because they got in the way of my ship.

- Hating the color pink during my teenage years, when it’s actually a lovely color and what I resented was society’s pressure to perform femininity. 

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Mmm.... it's funny when you talk about your sexuality and identity confusions with your bestie who minored in gender studies and she can confirm that 99% of the issues you're working through and getting caught up in can be traced back to the 2nd Wave Radical Feminists of the 70's and 80's.

Who coincidently had a direct hand in the mass closures of lesbian bars

Who were the roots of trans-exclusionary "feminism".

Who are now moderately wealthy white women teaching gender studies classes to young lesbians.

So in case you were wondering, I very much stand in support of trans women, trans lesbians, trans butches, and trans femmes. We built together a community that we got kicked out of and steamrolled over and now we're being silenced and misheard by women who think the only way to "fight the patriarchy" is to reject femininity, be a cis woman, and be so aggressive that no one wants to be close to you.

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Goyim are banned from talking about the holocaust until you learn to behave yourselves.

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“Language is powerful, and even those of us who don’t choose the bisexual label have a responsibility to ensure that the world is safe for those who do. One way to accomplish this goal is to practice the word ‘bisexual’. Say it again, ‘bisexual’. Paint it on the walls; wear it on a t-shirt. Write it in toothpaste on your bathroom mirror; notice it as you stare at your beautiful self. Bisexual. Say it louder; say it in public; say it to someone who might not be comfortable hearing it. Let them begin to get over their discomfort. Begin to get over your own. Ask yourself: what is it about that word that is so frightening to people? How can we lower the fear content, undo the negative associations, create new meaning, open possibilities?”

— from Bisexual Politics: Theories, Queries and Visions (1995)

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Sure would be a shame if this got spread around and he lost his job 💅🏽

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people are STILL out here talking about how jenna deciding to take accountability and taking a step back to reflect on herself as a person was a result of “cancel culture” please shut up that’s not even a real thing. stop making the one white person that decided to be responsible look like a victim to hoards of angry mobs when no such thing fuckin happened. I’m so tired of white people’s bad takes unintentionally villainizing POC for rightfully being upset from things that were clearly racist and horrible. yes she’s grown but again it’s not up to white folk to decide anything

#finally #ive been looking for a post like this on the matter

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Found this on Facebook! BOOST!

Tell Etsy that #ThisIsNotNative

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