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My Femme Masculinizer

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I spotted you for the first time at our university's lgbt social and had you singled out right away, a scared looking thing hanging out in the corner by yourself in your shapeless clothes. You hesitated for almost a full minute when I asked your name and I could tell that you chickened out of what you really wanted to say. When you left early without talking to anyone else I knew you needed my help, and you barely struggled when I pushed you into the stall in the men's bathroom. It was almost laughable how easily I pinned you under me as I pulled the cordless clippers from my bag. Your long hair was admittedly pretty but by the time I finished your buzz cut, you already looked more yourself, and when I released your hands they didn't push me off, instead stroking your head with a look of amazement. By the time I'd drawn the testosterone from the vial you knew I wasn't letting you leave this bathroom as the same person. "Now" I said, as I pushed the plunger, and the hormones entered you. "Tell me your name."

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this is bound to annoy someone

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THE KARDASHIAN - JENNER PHENOMENON

Men have ruled the earth for centuries. Shaping the ideas of mankind for ages, men were the dominant force, fueling society with values and beliefs regarding almost everything. Women were the inferior kind, trying desperately to contribute to their man’s success. Think about 10 iconic male figures who played an important role in history and then try to 10 about 10 female figures. Can you even tell 10 historically significant female figures?

Now, do the same for today. Try to think about 10 female public figures and then 10 male ones. Who has the most power today? Men?

Absolutely not. Women today are more powerful than ever. In a few months, USA, the world’s leading power, may even have a woman President. Germany already has a woman Chancellor, the IMF and the FED both have a women Directors. Women. Power.

In a few years, most politicians will be women. Ruling men. And men will be the new women. Learning that it is the norm, to be governed by women. That it is the norm to see a woman at the helm of a nation. They will be learning that it is the norm for them to be ruled by women. In general. 

See, norm shaping was always men’s territory. A few years ago, the norm was that there couldn’t be any woman related with politics. Because men were in charge of norm shaping. Now norm shaping is at the hands of women. Boys now see women with power. A proud American boy next year, may learn that his President is a woman. That boy will think of it as normal. Actually, that boy will think of the whole concept that a woman is his President as THE NORM. So, as that boy grows up, he will learn to think that being ruled by a woman is totally natural. And by the time he reaches adulthood, that boy will be a proud American, voting for women, listening to women, following women, being ordered by women. And most importantly, all this will be totally natural.

In a few more years now, society will have evolved even further. Boys of the future will be learning that the norm is that MEN actually CAN’T BE related with politics. Because women are better than them at making decisions or giving orders.

Now what is the role of pop culture into all this you may wonder.

Pop culture, has always been the seed for a new idea to grow in the mind of society. People in the 1930s would see people smoking on the TV and a few years later everybody thought it was cool to smoke. Do you see Hollywood promoting smoking now? Do you see people smoke the way they used to?

Pop culture is pushing ideas into everyone’s subconscious. Thing is that now, pop culture - along with society itself - is not ruled by men anymore. You do not see male icons now. You see female ones. And the most clear evidence of your change is that you don’t feel weird about it. You feel it’s normal. The way men of the future will think it’s normal to have an all-female Congress. 

In modern pop culture, women have a found a way up to the top. And now they shape. They shape collective thinking. They shape beliefs. They shape new people. Just like with politics and society, pop icons of modern day are now shaping the men of the future. With the exact same mechanism. Norm shaping mechanism is now at the hands of a handful of women. Society learns that it is the norm to think the way some women want society to think. The Kardashian - Jenner family phenomenon is the most profound paradigm of such an event.

About 10 years ago, a woman that would once be labeled as “short”, “fat-ass”, “cheap”, “slut”, made a sex tape. Now, what’s cheaper than that? A fat-ass, cheap slut, taping herself sucking a black man’s cock like a pro. Can it get any lower?

Well, things did not go as someone living in any time in history, before the 2000s, would think. A man-made society would humiliate her and then just throw her to the trash of history. Society would just forget about her. What happened instead?

She became a fashion icon. She introduced her whole family to you. She found her way into your house. And most importantly, she found a way into your mind. You now know a cheap, fat slut’s sisters. And not only you. But all yours friends too. Do you really care? Does anyone cares?

Of course he does. 35 million people do. More than the population of whole countries, get notified that a previously regarded as a “trashy slut” took a picture of her in her bathroom. Is that important? Of course it is. Millions of people notify her that they like what she did. And she gets more followers. More power. 

10 years later, being a short, fat, slut does not seem so not-chic. Right? 

One of the sisters even became a model. Is she Kate Moss? Who cares? She has 35 million followers as well. She will become whatever she decides to become. She will become better than Kate Moss if she wants! Why? Because she has the power to shape people’s beliefs anyway she chooses. It’s that simple. It’s the sheer power of modern pop culture. Kim can be the absolute fashion icon, Kendall can be the new face of the fashion industry, Kylie can be whatever she chooses to be and so on. 

So what men do with this?

It’s just like with politics. Men are being raised in a world where women are everywhere. For them it is the norm to be that way. So men’s beliefs are being shaped by the female icons who have the power. So, if society tells a boy that Kim Kardashian is a fashion icon, then for that boy Kim Kardashian becomes a fashion icon. He will learn in his life that being “short”, “fat”, “slutty”, is not “trash”; it’s fashion. And when that boy grows up and finds a girlfriend, he will not judge his girlfriend for putting on weight, or for showing her hanging tits to everyone. Instead, he will look to compliment her for her fashion choices, if her outfit is matching for the occasion. 

Women of the future can be, what once would be called “fat whores”, or “trashy sluts”, making sex tapes with their boyfriends and showing them to their friends to brag about their cock-sucking abilities and men will have no other reality so as to judge them based on it. Instead, they will do, what those starlets have taught them it’s the norm to do. If Kylie Jenner gains 50 lbs and push to society the image of “hot”, society will be reshaped based on the new input. Boys will learn the new definition of “hot” and girls will learn that it’s okay to eat. 

It’s already happening.

Kendall and Cara are flirting openly. Maybe they have sex. Is it weird? Do little girls now think of it as weird? If they seek pussy as they grow up, will it feel weird?

You get the point.

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The Implicit Change of Men’s Social Values

Women have been ridiculed for ages for their supposedly lower IQ compared to men, an argument that has contributed to them being stereotyped in various social activities. One of the most significant accusations that women face historically is that they idolize female celebrities of low intellectual quality. This is based on the socially constructed biases that women are vain, self-indulgent individuals, with a never ending urge to follow glamorous public figures, mostly out of jealousy for their body characteristics. 

Things today have changed though. Men - being raised in a world where women have created men’s established social values - have now been added to the target group of modern pop icons. Teen starlets like Kylie Jenner, who in any other time in history would influence only 14 y.o girls, have now become worldwide phenomena with unprecedented power over both sexes.

Through the commanding force of social media, such divas create armies of followers, who are eagerly waiting to accept any new concept or idea that is pushed into their minds. Men are no exception to this. The world is now more feminine than ever. A modern man today knows who Kylie Jenner is. And he also knows that Kylie Jenner dyed her hair pastel blue. He is probably following her on Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter etc and he’s probably watching her TV shows. Now, can anyone answer one simple question: WHY he does all these things?

He does because he wants to fuck Kylie Jenner? Well, maybe that stands as an argument for some. But the thing is that for millions of other men - for the vast majority - something else happens. Society is constantly sending messages. Both sexes receive those messages and respond accordingly. The difference is that society today is ruled by women. Women have the power now to shape beliefs. And social values. So, modern society is sending messages to men that they have to care about Kylie Jenner. That they have to follow her accounts. They have to listen to what she says. And so little by little, men become accustomed to the idea that Kylie Jenner is someone. Someone they have to follow. Like they would do to an idol…

That means that men - not even being aware of it - are now in the making of becoming what they once used to condemn: loyal followers of female celebrities. The Kylie Jenners of this world are gaining more and more power. And men are being converted into their admirers. Because the Kylie Jenners of this world do not want men to seek for their nude pictures. They want them to seek to know their next hair color…

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Hi Shiny! I've come a long way, but the one woman I cannot force myself to idolize is Scarlett Johansson. I've tried my best, but I can't bring myself to admire her. Can you give you some task or method to help me understand why she is worth it?

Listen.

First of all, there is no such thing as “I can’t bring myself to admire a woman”. As a modern man you should admire EVERY woman. You should acknowledge that she is a) HOTTER than you, b) SMARTER than you and c) MORE EVOLVED compared to you. So, one thing is that the realization of your INFERIORITY compared to them, will help you see women in general, in a new light. 

Now if that woman is a celebrity even better. Modern society oversells female celebrities more than ever before in history. The overexposure of such celebrities has a drastic effect on men’s perception about them. A man, would once see male public figures almost everywhere, resulting in him idolizing the best of them. A man today, sees FEMALE public figures everywhere from a very young age. 

That means a man’s brain today, is bombarded with so many inputs DESIGNED FOR WOMEN, which are eventually changing his mindset to resemble that of a woman’s. So, a female celebrity today, is turning into an idol, not only for a woman, but also for a modern man.

Let’s take your girl for example.

Say you are on the street right in front of her and you look at this. You instantly recognize that she’s Scarlett Johansson. How do you feel? 

A. Humble? 

B. As if she’s someone and you ‘re noone? 

C. As if she’s a Goddess and you ‘re just one of the millions that worship her around the world?

If not, then you are doing the following mistakes:

1. You do NOT know how to think about her hotness.

One thing Scarlett Johansson is know for, is for her obvious sexuality. Scarlet Johansson is considered one of the hottest female celebrities out there. So, you make the following mistake: you look at the following picture and you try to think that she’s hot. 

Well, your mistake simple: “NOONE CARES IF YOU FIND HER HOT”. So, STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. 

You SHOULD LOOK at her ASS and her LEGS and her TITS and you should think HOW MANY COCKS GET INSTANTLY HARD just looking at them. Yes, sweety, it’s weird; but when you are looking at a photo of Scarlet Johansson where it’s obvious that any male would find hot, you should think about all the cocks hardening. So, from now on, a hot photo of Scarlett Johansson should remind you of the POWER your girl has, to RAISE the cocks of EVERY MALE out there.

2. You do not know how to think about her cleavage.

Scarlett Johansson is mostly considered hot because of her curves. Now, her most prominent curve in her sexual body is obviously her massive cleavage. So you make the following mistake: you look at the following picture and you try to think that you like her tits.

Well, your mistake is simple: STOP WONDERING! YOU LIKE HER TITS! YOU WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THEM!

You should look at her massive cleavage and you should instantly think how it would be if YOU HAD IT! Yes, sweety, it’s weird; but you are raised in a society where a big cleavage is considered the peak of hotness. You couldn’t escape from the same trap that most females fall into: YOU WOULD LOVE TO HAVE BIG TITS. And you can’t but admire beautiful female celebrities who own them. It would be a dream come true to hear people telling you that your cleavage looks like Scarlett Johansson’s. So, from now on, a photo your girl’s cleavage should remind you of your desire to have it.

3. You do not know how to think about her lips.

So. We intentionally left Scarlett Johansson’s most prominent trademark for the end. Ask anyone, sweety, to tell you one word when he hears the name Scarlett Johansson. What do you think he’ll answer?

That’s right: LIPS. Big, soft, pouty lips.

Now, when YOU think about her lips, I’m sure you make the following mistake: you try to think that they are sexy.

Well, your mistake is also simple: YOU CAN’T FIND THEM SEXY! GET OVER IT!

You should look at her big, pouty lips and think what A MALE WOULD THINK about them. It’s the only way to try and get an idea of why people say they are sexy. Because YOU CAN’T on your own! So, try and think what a real man would want to do to those lips and you ‘ll have your answer. You will see that those lips that your beauty proudly displays, are CRAVED TO BE FELT on EVERY MALE’S HARD COCK. Yes, sweety, it’s also weird; but again, it’s not your fault. Just like most women, you just CAN’T think how DIRTY A MALE MIND IS, for a simple female body part. As we said, modern society has diminished that ability of yours. So, from now on, your girl’s wonderful lips, should remind you of every filthy male’s dirtiest thoughts. 

So.

Clear your mind from all the previous faulty thoughts. 

Think about what we said. 

Give yourself some time to adjust to the new inputs. 

And I’ll be waiting for your news… 

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Hi there. Your blog is a masterpiece! I was always against all this feminism and equal opportunity stuff but you changed my mind, that's incredible. I wonder if you could recommend any blogs or books on feminism, sexism, fashion etc. I could read regularly to understand womens' point of view and perhaps support actively. I was thinking about making this the primary type of literature I read. What do you think?

Of course you should make it the primary type of literature you read.

Becoming a women’s supporter is not something that you should see as a new kink, or a new hobby. The woman’s point of view on everything, must invade your subconscious and change its logical reasoning mechanism.

For that to happen, you must change every last input that you receive visually, mentally and even subconsciously. 

Start reading women’s magazines, sweety. Start watching women’s shows. Start learning about fashion, start following female celebrities. Start hanging out with women. See how they interact. What they like. Learn about the things that make them laugh. The things that amaze them. The things they adore. The things they are afraid of. The things they hate. 

Open a small door in your brain and let every female share all her thoughts with you. Let her pass all her knowledge to you. Let her show you HER way of seeing things and you will see a new world forming up, sweety. A new reality. 

One where this picture will not bring dirty thoughts to your brain. But thoughts of adoration and praise.

Gradually, you will see women differently. You will love them more. Not like sexual beings, but like HUMAN beings. You will start admiring their excellence. You will de-attach their sexuality from their other qualities. 

And once you do, you will start finding new reasons to admire them even more.

And finally. Once you start thinking like a woman, you will eventually start fighting for their causes. Against your own gender. 

And it will feel the right thing to do… 

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Call Her Daddy

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Can you elaborate on the importance of bimbo's, because I don't understand why I should worship them. I understand why men should be subservient to dominant and intellectual women, but why dumb girls?

We’ll have a future series elaborating on that matter. 

For now, what you have to realize is this:

The fact that you are making that question, shows that you are still thinking like a male. Stereotyping and categorizing women as if they belong ON THE OTHER SIDE. Modern men do not. Keep that in mind.

A modern man’s mind, totally in line with the female thinking patterns that enter his mind since his early age, does not categorize those women the way it did in the past.

Look at the following photo for example.

Any man in the past would describe those women as “dumb bimbo girls”. Exactly how YOU described them earlier. Would any man give the same description today? No. You know why? Because the inputs that modern man is receiving today, are generating a female perspective in his logic. And under that logic, those women can not be described negatively. Instead, they are seen in a totally new light.

Why? Because the thought that is attached to every visual stimulus he receives from them, now has a female root.

Modern man today sees those lips and doesn’t think of fucking them. Instead, he acknowledges how hard those lips must make the alpha males that are out there waiting to fuck them.

He sees those cleavages and doesn’t get hard. He acknowledges that it is just another body part in female anatomy that brings pleasure to alpha males.

He enjoys seeing modern women showing off in every way possible.

He loves the nails. The accessories. The glam. They are not negative aspects of female vanity anymore in his mind, but more like a celebration of the female nature.

He loves pink. Not being afraid to admit it.

And this is just a brief idea.

What it means, is that women who look like this, or dress like this, or tease like this, or speak in a certain way, or behave in a certain way, are not seen today as “dumb bimbos” by modern men, but more as interesting people, potential friends, or just all-powerful icons.

We’ll say more in the future.

Stay in that photo for a while and think about what we just said.

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Guy who said that he hates Anita Sarkeesian here, I did what you asked of me and then watched one of her videos. I found myself pleasantly surprised that I enjoyed it. Though I was still resistance to her logic. What should I do to resolve my issue?

Listen sweety.

First of all the fact that you enjoyed watching one of her videos means that you don’t hate Anita Sarkeesian, so there’s no need to introduce yourself as the guy who hates Anita Sarkeesian anymore.  

Now.

We said in the previous post that mind is a powerful tool. And it is. You said you don’t hate that girl anymore. Actually you said you enjoyed her videos. That is perfect. Because in time you will not feel weird about it as you may do now. In time it will feel perfectly natural for you to enjoy Anita’s videos, because this is who you are gonna be.

What we didn’t say though is that mind, beyond its absolute power over man’s body, is also something else: 

it’s EGOCENTRIC.

What this means is that mind, once it decides about a certain move of your body, or a certain action you take about a certain matter, it stands by it. It tries to justify that action with a certain logic behind it. You know why? 

Because it is self-centered. 

Now here’s the interesting part though. What happens if your actions can NOT be justified by your already established ideas?

IT RESHAPES YOUR IDEAS!

Think of it like this: Say you want to buy a car. And let’s say you know nothing about cars. Now let’s say that you finally decide to pick a car based on a randomly selected - but totally insignificant - variant; like its color. And after a month that you drive this car, a friend of yours - who happens to know more about cars - learns about your acquisition and he starts pointing out one by one all the mechanical flaws of your car and asks you why you bought this specific car. 

And that is when magic happens.

You do NOT accept that you picked the car just because it had a nice color. Instead, you are standing by your action and you try to support it finding a number of reasons and most importantly a number of GOOD characteristics of your car! 

Do you accept that you didn’t buy the best car possible? NO. Do you accept that your car was NOT the best buy at the time? NO. Do you know why?

Because your mind tells you to think that HE DID THE RIGHT CHOICE. 

Now how this is related to your matter you may wonder…

You already enjoy watching Anita Sarkeesian videos.

You may not be a true fan of her yet, but it is more than sure that soon you will be seeing her in different light. I’m sure you already see that she is a beautiful woman who sees pretty much anything from a feminist standpoint. You may just don’t be able to empathize yet, probably because you are a man. Should you were a woman, her feminist angle would be heard in your ears as a “fight for your rights as a woman.” You are not though. And that makes you sceptic about her.

What you need is simple:

You need to make your mind take over your body. And for this to happen, you have to push your body first, to do something that normally it wouldn’t. Remember what we said? What you need is to surprise your mind with a move that normally it would never let you do and then leave it do the rest. Your mind will soon start trying to justify your action, creating ideas that were never there.

I already have something that may help you on this:

http://feministfrequency.com/donate/

Here. You may not like her ideas, but you can still donate for her ideas to spread everywhere. It doesn’t have to be a big donation if you can’t afford it. Even the slightest one-time donation would be money coming right out of your pocket and straight into hers. 

I, for example would never donate her. Probably none of the people who are reading this too. YOU though, can be the guy who has given her money. How would you feel about that? Would you have the same courage to come here and tell us that you don’t like her, or her ideas?

Look at this for crying out loud. 

Would anyone want to listen to a Warrior Princess subscriber who’s “fighting the patriarchal media gods”, whining about not believing in Anita Sarkeesian’s ideas? 

Think about it, dear. I’m sure soon she’ll sound better too..

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A Basic’s Favorite Song

Hello sweeties. I know it’s been a while. Today we’re going to discuss something every basic like you needs: a favorite song.

I don’t know if you listened to something gross like metal before you went basic or if you were into rap or something like electronic music, but that doesn’t matter once you’re basic. Because a basic only cares about one factor, and it certainly isn’t something as trivial as genre.

When you listen to music, you only care about one thing, and that’s popularity! You wanna listen to music that everyone knows! That’s the music that matters to you. It gives you common ground with every other basic, and let’s be honest. If it wasn’t popular, like, how good could it be?

So what popular song that everyone is still talking about should be your favorite of all time? Isn’t it obvious sweetie?

You absolute luv luv luv luv luv luv WAP! How couldn’t you? As someone who’d never dream of listening to a gross, unrelatable male rapper, it doesn’t just have two of your favorite rappers, but two of the best rappers of all time! We’re talking about two of your all time idols!

Cardi B

And Megan Thee Stallion!

It’s like getting two songs in one!

The music video even has another one of your all time idols Kylie in it! Does she do anything in it? Why would that matter as long as she’s there!

And the lyrics? They’re are so smart and relatable! They really just speak to you, don’t they?

I think we should play a little game. Whenever you’re able to choose what music you’re going to be listening to, you should always choose WAP. You should be listening to it all the time and proving just how much you love the song. You can stop and start listening to your other favorite basic jams once you’ve memorized every single lyric. But no looking up the lyrics and cheating! ;)

By the time every word of the song lives in your brain, you’ll be free to listen to whatever you want, but maybe you’ll still just want to listen to a fave you can sing along to!

Now if anyone asks you what music you’ve been listening to recently, you know exactly what to say! And if someone ever hands you the aux, they’ll know exactly what to expect

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The Implicit Change of Men’s Social Values

Women have been ridiculed for ages for their supposedly lower IQ compared to men, an argument that has contributed to them being stereotyped in various social activities. One of the most significant accusations that women face historically is that they idolize female celebrities of low intellectual quality. This is based on the socially constructed biases that women are vain, self-indulgent individuals, with a never ending urge to follow glamorous public figures, mostly out of jealousy for their body characteristics. 

Things today have changed though. Men - being raised in a world where women have created men’s established social values - have now been added to the target group of modern pop icons. Teen starlets like Kylie Jenner, who in any other time in history would influence only 14 y.o girls, have now become worldwide phenomena with unprecedented power over both sexes.

Through the commanding force of social media, such divas create armies of followers, who are eagerly waiting to accept any new concept or idea that is pushed into their minds. Men are no exception to this. The world is now more feminine than ever. A modern man today knows who Kylie Jenner is. And he also knows that Kylie Jenner dyed her hair pastel blue. He is probably following her on Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter etc and he’s probably watching her TV shows. Now, can anyone answer one simple question: WHY he does all these things?

He does because he wants to fuck Kylie Jenner? Well, maybe that stands as an argument for some. But the thing is that for millions of other men - for the vast majority - something else happens. Society is constantly sending messages. Both sexes receive those messages and respond accordingly. The difference is that society today is ruled by women. Women have the power now to shape beliefs. And social values. So, modern society is sending messages to men that they have to care about Kylie Jenner. That they have to follow her accounts. They have to listen to what she says. And so little by little, men become accustomed to the idea that Kylie Jenner is someone. Someone they have to follow. Like they would do to an idol…

That means that men - not even being aware of it - are now in the making of becoming what they once used to condemn: loyal followers of female celebrities. The Kylie Jenners of this world are gaining more and more power. And men are being converted into their admirers. Because the Kylie Jenners of this world do not want men to seek for their nude pictures. They want them to seek to know their next hair color…

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The Excessive Sexualization of the Female Pop Icons in the New Era

Sex sells. This has always been the case. And since sex is mentally attached in society’s mind with women, popular culture has always advertised women as sex objects. Female singers, actors, TV presenters have always been in the center of media attention because of their bodies. Their highly sexual bodies. A typical female public figure had to satisfy one thing and one thing only: MEN. It is a man’s world. Actually it has been a man’s world for centuries. But what has woman’s place in the world been until today?

That of eye candy. Sex object. Meat. Why? But of course to satisfy man’s hunger for sex. Patriarchy has been shaping people’s beliefs for centuries. And according to those established beliefs, it was considered perfectly natural for a woman to be treated like eye candy for the filthy male eyes. Actually it was considered her duty to become eye candy for the male population. “BECOME” is the key word for woman’s place in society. 

Woman historically has had the unprecedented burden of BECOMING something that is attractive to man, so that she succeeds to her goal. And what has been that goal? MALE ACCEPTANCE. Woman has tried to become attractive so that she receive’s male acceptance. But what “attractive” meant for men?

Curves. Curves. Curves.

Men wanted their women to be curvy. Special attention here must be given to the meaning of the term “curvy”. Because “curvy” for men meant big tits. Not a fat ass, or a big belly. Just tits. And did we mention that they had to be BIG?

So. Until today society wanted from women to do their best so that they have a curvy body for the sexual satisfaction of other males. Pop culture was based on that foundation. Female celebrities were pushing those images to the submissive female minds. For ages women thought they wanted to have bigger tits, because bigger tits meant higher male acceptance. 

Well things today are nothing like this.

Society is now based on social structures made by women. The world has never experienced a more a more cataclysmic change in its social values. Gender dynamics are now changed and the dominance of the female gender is almost absolute. Men today learn the values that women tell them to learn. Men now think they think something in a certain way, but truth is that women have decided for them what to think.

Popular culture is a tool to do that. Men see women everywhere in the media and shape their beliefs according to them. They don’t understand any change of course. But the change is there. Men used to see fake-titted bimbos everywhere, with no-opinion, no second thoughts, no nothing. The submissive nature of women was being projected with all means. From Hollywood to music to well, everywhere.

This is not what happens today though. Women today are freed from the chains of patriarchy. And with that they have unleashed their powers on society. Their sexual and mental powers. Women now are not ashamed of their sexuality. Of their natural urges. Of their opinions. Of who and what they are. Men wanted them to have curves so that they fuck them. Now women take advantage of those powers.

And that is what modern men see now everywhere. They see hyper-sexualized female celebrities which in any other time in history would be regarded as trash and what do they do? They listen carefully what they are “told”. Such celebrities are now being followed in the social media by millions. Khloe Kardashian has more followers than the population of more than 210 out of 256 countries. When she posts something, 35 million people get noticed. Today, a once called “trashy” celebrity has enormous power at her hands. The power to shape beliefs. So, if Beyonce decides that wiggling your fat ass is sexy, society adjusts to the new input.

Men today see women like Kim Kardashian or Beyonce gaining so much weight that would once instantly make them regarded as laughable, to be treated like fashion icons and what they do? They accept it. They learn. They evolve. They learn that for a woman to gain weight is not bad anymore. That it is actually sexy. But not sexy as in “fuckable” sexy. Sexy as in “fashionable” sexy. 

Remember? Society is a woman now. That means women show what they got. They do what they want. They eat. They show off. And ultimately they fuck. Society is currently “educating” men that women who don’t care about their slim figure are sexy. Pop icons, one by one, become what would once be called fat. Kim Kardashian, Beyonce, JLo, Nicki Minaj, Iggy Azalea, Lady Gaga, Kylie Jenner, Christina Aguilera and so on. Men learn to accept “fat” as sexy and are being mentally trained to provide pleasure to such ladies. Not “fuck”. Men today do not fuck. They provide pleasure.

And a woman with the excess fat of Nicki Minaj would never find pleasure from a male. Today though, whole armies of available males are in the making. Nicki Minaj is becoming “sexy” and teases millions of men with what would once be called a laughable body, to fuck her. And men learn. Men are starting to accept the label of “fuckboy” in their relationships with women, as normal. In the near future, women’s body measurements and male sexual acceptance will have no correlation whatsoever. An overweight woman will be considered equally attractive from a male’s perspective with a skinny one. The “fuckboy” though?

Well, that is a future post’s main theme.

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I need your guidance, Anita Sarkeesian really annoys me to no end and I can't help but hate her. Please tell me what to do so I can be a better person. Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.

First of all there is no such thing as hating a female public figure. No matter who she is or what she does, you should naturally maintain a positive disposition towards her at all times. She is a woman, remember? It should become part of your DNA to maintain a positive attitude when something ends up to a woman saying something. Anything. It’s the way your brain should function. When a woman opens her mouth to say something, your default processing mechanism of that message should push you to support what she just said. Even if it was obviously wrong.

It doesn’t matter what she says or why she says that. The fact that she has a vagina, should make her words echo in your brain differently.

Now, if those words are part of a debate with another male, then your default behavior becomes clearer than it could ever be. The woman’s argument reaches your brain’s reasoning mechanism passing no screening process; In other words, when a woman opens her mouth to argue with another man, you take everything she says in you. Questioning almost nothing.

Now I understand that sometimes even women can be irritating, or even obviously false in their assumptions, arguments, or plain ideas. I also understand that those ideas may oppose some of YOUR established ideas. Perhaps, the situation you experience with Anita Sarkeesian.

The solution to your problem though is rather simple, dear.

See. As we have said many times before, mind is a powerful tool. It helps you create and establish your thoughts about certain situations and even about certain people.

What you have here is a simple example of a perception misplacement about a specific person:

In your situation about Anita Sarkeesian.

Since you say that she annoys you to no end then I think it would be better if we actually put an end to it. I think it would be best if we stopped with all that negativity regarding her and shape it into something useful for you.

So dear, listen to me:

The first step in solving a problem is to accept that  the problem really exists. So what I want you to do is simple:

Just look at the person that annoys you that much. That simple. Just a nice big stare. Don’t be quick though. Make that look count. Just take your time and think about how much that woman annoys you.

Now when you feel you‘ve had enough of her go even deeper.

Spend some time staring at an even worse image of the person you hate so much.

Now spot that person between others. Make it easy to your mind to make her image stand out.

Make sure that your mind tells you 100% that the person your are seeing right now is an ugly, annoying person.

Stare at that person. Notice every little thing that you DON’T like about her.

Now, it’s time for the most critical part of your transition.

It’s the part where from being one person, in a blink of an eye you become someone else. Just like that.

Listen , dear.

What happens to you is a perception misplacement about a certain person: you have created a negative outlook on that person in the first place and from that moment on your brain reinforces that already established outlook.

Although, as we said, mind is a very powerful tool. Which means it can shape and reshape whatever it wants if the circumstances are right. What it needs is a drastic force to activate that process. And that force is simple:

What you need to do is just close your eyes and stay like this for at least 1 minute. That is going to be a mind-bending minute though. You will take those 60 seconds and you will unleash a quick, instant, but unprecedented force to your mind. Your eyes will close and you will visualize that person.

Now pay attention:

For the first 30 seconds Anita Sarkeesian will be a hateful, annoying person.

From the 31st second on though, 

from that specific second on, things in your brain will come upside down:

From the 31st second on, there will be a new you regarding that person:

Anita Sarkeesian will be and will have always been an inspiration.

From the moment you open your eyes again her words will speak to your heart and no matter what she says, or what she does from then on, will seem ideal. 

You don’t need negativity in your life. Only positive reinforcement. 

Her opinions on everything, will seem obviously right and anyone who opposes her will instantly be regarded as being wrong. 

From the moment you open your eyes, Anita Sarkeesian won’t and never have been, ugly, annoying, or hated by you. On the contrary, she have been a beautiful, elegant, sexy woman, whose words must be an inspiration for all women out there. She is a modern icon. A true role model from whom you can learn about life. Everything that beautiful woman says when she opens her mouth to speak is right beyond any doubt and you would be proud to be as vocal as it gets about it.

Feminist Frequency is and have been the unequivocal epicenter of modern pop culture and you want to help spread even further. It’s already bookmarked so that you get a daily dose of that smart, funny, sexy woman.

So.

Are you ready to do this, sweety?

It is going to be perfect.

You will see first hand that everything is a matter of perception. And perception is susceptible to randomly established beliefs that are falsely reinforced by our own brain.

So just shut down your mind and restart it.

Closing your eyes, you will think that Anita Sarkeesian is an ugly, hateful, annoying person.

But opening them again will find you on the other side; 

When you open your eyes you will live in a world in which you are a keen admirer of Anita Sarkeesian’s work, a true supporter of her every word and a fool for her unreachable beauty. 

Everything is a matter of perception, sweety.

Do this and tell me how it goes.

Shiny.

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Hi, so I'm a currently studying music in college, and I can't stand anything about Nicki Minaj, especially her music. Can you explain to me why I should like her, and if/why I should like her music? I can't really see anything good about her.

Listen, sweety.

First of all, the fact that you are studying music is wonderful, as I’m sure you must be in a position to understand what brings quality in a song and appreciate it for its depth. Most people today have no idea about music and that is one of the main reasons why the biggest part of mainstream music is pure trash. 

The fact that you can recognize a really good song even if it’s hidden under piles of trash is a real gift to you.

Now, that being said, we have to add one minor detail.

Every belief of yours, every established idea and perception about people, situations and lifetime values, every thought about what or who is right and wrong, every attitude on any matter or any behavior and every opinion on who you like and who you don’t like, it should all come down to one universal core truth:

“It doesn’t count when there’s a woman involved in it.”

Isn’t it so?

I’m sure you know it just feels right.

I’m sure it does, sweety. 

I’m sure that you already feel that women is your cryptonite and all you really want deep down is to strongly support anything that comes from them. Right?

Even if it opposes your taste.

Even if it violates your ideas.

Even if it represents the worst part of your beliefs.

I’m sure you know that there is a tiny little glitch in your psyche that pushes you to shut off logical reasoning every time it comes down to a woman.

Wasn’t there for that glitch, would you ever see that woman in anything other than disgust, or pity?

I’m sure not.

But I’m also sure that now you don’t so much.

I’m sure that a part of you, deep deep down there, wants to come out and support that woman. And not as a sexual stimulant. 

But as an artist.

I’m sure there’s the main part of your brain pushing you to feel offended by what you see or hear from that woman.

But there’s also another part. A tiny, dark part that doesn’t.

A tiny voice whispering that this is not that offensive.

A tiny whisper that this is actually exciting.

Admirable.

Sexy.

Isn’t it so, sweety?

Don’t bother, dear. I know it is. And I know why this happens.

Because that artist happens to be a woman. By the way, don’t you feel a tiny tingle when you think of her as an artist? I think you do. You know why? Because deep down you want to think of her as an artist. 

You know why?

Because that artist happens to be a woman. And your beliefs stop working when it comes down to that fact. You forget them. You defy them. If it was about a male artist you would be strict and ruthless.

But she is not. She is a woman. She looks like this.

And so you know it just feels right to support her. 

You know she SHOULD be thought as an artist. 

As an ICON.

So listen what I suggest, sweety.

I suggest that you keep all your beliefs and your ideals. Be who you are. Be an idealist. Keep making, listening and studying music like a real artist in the making. 

But when it comes to Nicki Minaj: 

just forget everything and be a mindless follower.

When it comes to that artist, I suggest that you let yourself embrace the exhilarating feeling of forgetting everything you know about good quality music. Even better, I suggest that you let that artist wipe out all those complex music judging skills of yours and leave you with those of a 15 year old girl.

You won’t feel different at all. You will still be the same person. You will just be able to see with your own eyes: 

How much of a star Nicki really is.

How good her songs “really” are.

And most importantly how could you NOT see it in the past…

I hope I helped, sweety.

There are so many artists today that need good, quality followers like you…

Shiny.