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I truly fuck with people who understand that I won’t talk to them everyday but the love is still there.

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At the very least , Mr. Domly Dom doing his best impression of Gen. Ackbar up there ought to have been able to see with his big boy brain that the OP was as valid a statement about what D/s is than any other. It was a statement about what the aspiringobject thinks or feels, needs, and wants. Those are all valid, and not made less so by other folks feeling differently.

Put another way, D/s is not one thing. It varies with every scene, every partnership that practices it. *Healthy* D/s will necessarily involve communication, a commitment to mutual satisfaction, and a desire to avoid at all times doing harm. Stating that *your* dynamic and desires are the only "real" D/s is pretty narrow minded and ignorant. Real big boys know reality is a big, complex place and they should approach those facts with humility, not arrogance.

Guys, for real though. If you don't have love or care for your sub and constantly see them as inferior, worthless, or just an object, you need some serious help.

Love and care for each other. Check up on your sub. Make sure everything is consentual. Don't be a fuckin piece of shit.

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Yeah, this is that. It is also unsurprising to me. As an LGBT person living in the American South, I am keenly aware of the fact that the actions of governments often exist in sharp contrast to the wishes of the people.

Although I am very strongly against what Israel is doing over there, trampling all over human rights and international law, creating apartheid conditions at best and an open-air death camp at worst... when I say "Israel" I mean the actions of the administration of Israel, both its machine and political supporters/apologists. I do not mean Israelis as a whole, because they are people and I think better of humanity than to stand behind such a thing. A significant, non-zero number do quite obviously, and to them I have harsh words to say... but that doesn't mean I have those same words to say for all people born on the opposite side of some imaginary line to the one I live on. That's ridiculous.

This is incredibly heartening to read, especially considering the usual tripe you see on social media coming from Israel apologists

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Also pls like / reblog to reach more people that can degrade me 🤩

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I think I'm finally ready to film stuff in my brainwashing room! Been working on the setup for awhile and now it's at a point I'm happy with things. Idk why my brain is the way it is but I sometimes don't feel like stuff is finished even after it's technically finished and I def put a lil more work into my setup than I was originally planning.

video is of my vtg 1960s spiral machine made by schneider instruments co to assist with hypnosis and relaxation. they made some hypnosis adjacent machines for licensed medical professionals and the general public.

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A quite insightful quote from Stormy Daniels.

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Sharing this here too

I do not usually make posts like this but recently I have seen a lot of content on Instagram, Twitter and I think tiktok too misunderstanding the meaning of intrusive thoughts, which may cause people experiencing them to be upset.

I have tried to shortly explain the difference of impulsive and intrusive and hope it will help people to understand and use the words correctly.

Reblogs are very much appreciated!

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BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it's a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like "PUT MY ASS IN THE CHILI" while a new dom is like "Okay I think, we are reaching yellow for me,"

#Both happen way more than they ought to IMO #Though I have no idea what the relative frequency of each is #I could speak anecdotally but data is not the plural of that word

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Hey, for personal reasons I won't be around much today/the next couple days.

I know I talk a lot about some Darker kinks on this blog but always remember:

Consent is REALLY fucking important

Believe survivors

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girls who use the 🥺 emoji just want to have their pussy slapped

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I’m a slut for black metal and some well-applied pain😏

Fansly

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As an empath, I can sense that you need your dick sucked 🖤

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I’m horny for emotional connection and mental stimulation tbh

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Not gonna lie, my morale is at the lowest point it's been since the beginning of the invasion. Russians are successfully occupying more and more territories and shell frontline regions every day. People are dying, our culture and herritage is destroyed. International aid dwindled significantly because of american bullshit. Mobilization law has been signed and there is a chance that my family members get conscripted soon. Don't even get me started on internal political problems. A bunch of articles in foreign media talking about our defeat and "peace talks" (what a joke).

It feels like there were no at least moderately good news in a while. On top of that, the feeling that we are screaming into the void is stronger than ever. I'm happy when I see a foreigner online supporting us and spreading the word, because it gets rarer. Ukrainians feel like none of what's happening gets outside our info bubble. Most likely no one but Ukrainians will see this post either. Honestly don't know what to make of all of this.

#I'm sorry it is getting rough for you all #I have been doing what I can to keep it a talking point #But honestly stateside Congress has made it more a political football than anything and that sickens me