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[pretzelpussy]

since incestuous creeps aren't willing to put trigger warnings on their shit i'm logging off indefinitely. bye

#self rb

[pretzelpussy]

i realized that the way i engage in kink has been unhealthy for me and so i've decided that from now on i will only sub for my best friend. i will still be on here but i am going to mostly keep to myself. i am reexamining a lot of things about myself and this is what's best for me now. apologies if this is disappointing to those who i've subbed for in the past, but i need to take care of myself

#lee's stuff

[pretzelpussy]

Do NOT dismiss these signs.

If a dom (or even sub, but especially a dom) doesn’t open the conversation with asking about your kinks/turnons and limits/boundaries/turnoffs they are likely not going to be a safe person to talk to.

If a person doesn’t offer aftercare (or, at the bare minimum, affirmations that you did good and that they had fun) after a scene then they are likely not a safe person to talk to.

If you are trans and a cis (or trans!!!) person does not affirm your gender before and after a scene (during as well if you aren’t doing a misgen/detrans scene) then they are likely not a safe person to talk to.

If anyone claims to have no limits/boundaries/turnoffs, then they are not knowledgeable enough about kink to engage in it with. Or at the worst, they could be a dangerous person.

While I’m only a dom when engaging in kink on this blog, I am a switch and have made myself vulnerable to several unsafe doms. I have been violated emotionally, physically, and psychologically in ways I did not consent to.

Whatever you think you can handle now, may reveal itself as a trauma later on.

[pretzelpussy]

deactivated / inactive mutuals I miss u and hope you're living your best life far away from here </3

[pretzelpussy]

I’m very worried about some of y’all where I can’t tell if the stories you’re telling are real or not. Don’t ruin your lives over kink. Don’t ruin your social lives over your kink. Don’t damage relationships with your real family members over your incest kink (it’s very common to have these fantasies but like…don’t…proposition your family members…). Don’t compromise your mental health over your kink.

I need some of you to understand: a LOT of us are just making stuff up. A lot of people posting about detransitioning or stopping their hormones aren’t actually doing that in real life. If you post “hee hee guys should I do (thing that would be really bad for you to do)” a lot of people will assume that it’s just fantasy and encourage you to “do” it because they don’t think you’re actually going to, or because they’re bad people who don’t actually want what’s best for you.

Use your brain and make good choices. Engage with kink in a healthy way. If you don’t know the difference, talk to kinky friends who you know actually care about you, or find a sex-positive therapist to talk to.

You *need* an income and a social life and a roof over your head and a solid support system of people who care about you. You *want* to engage in your kink. Be mindful of the difference.

#tw incest #<- just in case

[pretzelpussy]

gonna be inactive for a bit. lately porn has been really bad for my OCD and triggered some trauma. i'll come back, but i don't know when. love you

[pretzelpussy]

You're awesome!

thank you 🥰 you're pretty cool too :D

#asks #lee's stuff

[pretzelpussy]

I think tgirls should get to have a good time on a website. has anyone tried making a website like that yet

[pretzelpussy]

I'm so sorry to the trans women who are getting targeted every fucking day by some harassment campaign. Don't let these fucks stop you from being loud and opinionated, don't let them stop you from showing love and support for each other, don't let them stop you from being here and taking up space. You're all amazing and I'm so proud of y'all.

#beloved trans girls: i would fight to the death to protect you

[pretzelpussy]

blasting my mutuals and all my honeys out there with my pink “have a good day” ray gun 💕

[pretzelpussy]

Thank you for your services to society o7

it's my pleasure 🥰 this pussy belongs to the girlies

#:3 #i love asks #lee's stuff #asks

[pretzelpussy]

Need to be presented nude to a room full of lesbians that want to inspect me like a prized new toy for them to use.

#mmmmfgh. #please please please

[pretzelpussy]

happy women's day, i love you women

#especially trans women ilysm #t4t forever #lee's stuff

[pretzelpussy]

what U guys need to understand about me is that i think with my clit and also i have a poet’s soul

[pretzelpussy]

my purpose in life is to be a good breeding bitch for trans girls 🥰

#transfem superiority #transfem supremacy #lee's stuff #nsft t4t

[pretzelpussy]

i am high and horny and want attention

#also bored

[pretzelpussy]

“Why are you so upset about adult content bans? You don’t even post that stuff. can’t you just look at porn somewhere else?”

Well, you see, I have this small problem where my very existence is considered adult content by a small but very powerful group of people and I actually rather enjoy being able to exist in public without restriction so uhhhh put that in your bong and smoke it kiddo.