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ok but does anyone else ever just

#friendship culture is #platonic love culture is #this is such a mood #i experience this quite often actually

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no better feeling than when you get close enough to a friend to find out the ways that they're weird and strange

#friendship culture is #platonic relationship culture is #reblogs

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oh my god same

god

i adore my friends

#friendship culture is

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tell your friends you love them. tell them that they're beautiful. show them that you care in the details, in the little things. pay attention, remember things, and surprise them. and do it all, not for your own ego, but for the purpose of seeing their eyes light up, and their toothy grins and seeing the weight on their shoulders get just a little bit lighter. so that they can be reminded that in this unforgiving world, they are loved. and they are not alone—you are not alone—we are not alone. we're together in this world and it's beautiful to be reminded of it.

#platonic love culture is #reblogs

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idk what a music crush is, does this fit?

petition to use the phrase 'in love' more liberally

#bc like you know when youre in love with someone #but not like romantically #like platonically #like squishes #and music crushes (trhere should be a separate term for this istg) #<- prev tags #platonic love culture is

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oh yeah absolutely

you ever have that one person who just pretty much completes you like if you don't see them one day you just feel sad.

#i have a couple people like that #but one of them i barely see #so ive kinda gotten used to it #but! ill see them a lot again soon #and its definitely gonna be like this then #platonic relationship culture is #friendship culture is #reblogs

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tell your friends you love them. tell them that they're beautiful. show them that you care in the details, in the little things. pay attention, remember things, and surprise them. and do it all, not for your own ego, but for the purpose of seeing their eyes light up, and their toothy grins and seeing the weight on their shoulders get just a little bit lighter. so that they can be reminded that in this unforgiving world, they are loved. and they are not alone—you are not alone—we are not alone. we're together in this world and it's beautiful to be reminded of it.

#platonic love #platonic love culture is #platonic culture is

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i feel like "loveless" and "lovequeer" are two sides of the same coin like we both saw how much amatonormativity obsesses over love and the loveless people decided to destroy it and the lovequeer people decided to steal it

#like either way #we're fucking up amatonormativity #and that's beautiful #and we get to do our own thing #loveless lovequeer solidarity #aspec solidarity #aro #not platonic culture #cw swearing

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you ever be living your life just chilling and then your heart grows ten times its size and you're so full of love and affection for someone/something, just all of a sudden? could be either a real person or a fictional one, usually it happens to me with fictional characters

yes

no

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Platonic attraction culture is having a squish on someone who is already a very close friend and being very confused about it

#platonic attraction culture is #platonic squish culture is #squish culture is #reblogs

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now that i know im alloplatonic i can't unsee it. i get flustered by my squishes and i bravely tell a really sweet person that they look super cool in that photo or that i think their playlist is great and it's like. my brain is screaming i want to be your friend so bad i want to hold your hand and watch a sunset with you and hang out on a call for hours. like actually platonic love can be something that is so strong and so beautiful and on the flipside it makes perfect sense to me that some people don't experience this. so anyway congrats to alloplatonics that have lots of love for their friends and also congrats to aplatonics that don't really understand all this stuff and would rather form other kinds of relationships or none at all. all attraction styles are poggers cool actually including the really complex ones and the non-attraction ones!!!

Submitted February 19, 2023

#alloplatonic culture is #squish culture is #platonic squish culture is #reblog

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"Who got you smiling like that?"

My friends. I'm so sorry that you can't gain joy from platonic interactions but I'm gonna go back to texting them now.

#friendship culture is

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do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely

like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day

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why is trying to make a new friend so embarrassing. hi. me again. asking for your attention once more even though i am literally just some random person to you. it's because i want to be not just a random person to you. please understand

#platonic squish culture is #squish culture is #reblog

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having friends is so cool like here’s a person i love soooo much and i get to make inside jokes w them and make them laugh and be there for them when they’re sad and share in their suffering as well as their joy. what a beautiful and sacred thing. friendship is holy

#reblog #friendship culture is #platonic relationship culture is

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after seeing your friends for a few hours sometimes u walk away and return home with a little ball of glowing golden light in your chest

#platonic relationship culture is #friendship culture is

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I GET TO SEE MY SQUISH TOMORROW!!!!

💚🖤💜🖤💚🤍💜🖤💚🤍💜🖤

(I mean I see them everyday bc we go to the same school but it’s been over 24 hrs since the last time I saw her and I’m lonely now 😅)

#platonic attraction culture is #platonic squish culture is #reblogs #mood tbh