perfectlyhappypumpkin

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getting to know someone’s mind is so enjoyable.

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“Healing is layers. Healing is time. Healing is excruciating. Once you think it’s done, it’s not.”

— Mary DeMuth

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“Scare the world: Be exactly who you say you are and tell the truth.”

— The Shock of Honesty

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The problem is people are being hated when they are real, and being loved when they are fake.

~ Bob Marley

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Maybe it’s more about intimacy, not sex.

Maybe it’s more about connection, not attention.

Maybe it’s more about depth, not variety.

Maybe it’s more about being seen, not idolized.

Maybe it’s more about facing yourself, not escaping.

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I really do miss intimacy and being in love

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Aggressively friendly dog

(via)

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normalize to distance yourself once you feel unwanted.

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🍄*.✧✯ 💮

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someone you don't have to hide your "weird" side from >>>>

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“women are so hard to please these days”

personalized playlists??

hand written love letters??

pizza + movie nights??

forehead kisses??

words of endearment??

late night walks + talks??

loyalty??

picnics??

watch the stars, sunrise, or sunset??

cook/bake together??

flowers??

cuddles???

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people romanticise the idea of the ‘honeymoon stage’ a lot, but honestly there is so much comfort, familiarity, and vulnerability in a long term relationship… allowing someone to see you at your worst and lowest and ugliest and knowing they love you anyway and vice versa. it’s not all cute and fun and sexy it’s raw and messy and beautiful. it’s a deep kind of love and being seen and known that can only come with time. give me that any day over the honeymoon stage