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“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance - you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behaviour and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”

— Daniell Koepke

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Habib b. 'Ubayd said:

“Learn knowledge, understand it and benefit from it (live by it); and do not study it in order to decorate yourself with it, for if you live long you will likely see a time when knowledge will be used for beautification like a man beautifies himself with his garments.”

{Ibn Al-Mubarak, Al-Zuhd wa al-Raqā'iq}

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“you’re so polite with your sadness. you don’t want to ruin this for anyone.”

— — Silas Melvin, from “Twenty,” Grit

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Rindu

Jika rindu terbalut iman, maka ia akan tetap syahdu. Mengisi rasa dengan harapan indah terbalut iman pada Sang Pemilik hati.

Padamu yang sedang merindu, bersabarlah..

Seperti hujan yang pasti akan reda, begitupun rindumu

Ia akan ada akhirnya

Nanti..

Kala Allah takdirkan dirimu dan dirinya untuk sama-sama melihat tawa nyata, atas izin dan kehendak Nya

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Tidak ada alasan untuk meremehkan orang, sekalipun dia pelaku maksiat.

Sebab pertama, yakni bisa saja dia memiliki amalan hati yang besar di sisi Allah Ta’ala.

Sebab kedua, yakni bisa jadi dia memiliki amalan yang ikhlas yang menjadi sebab dosanya diampuni.

Sebab ketiga, yakni bisa saja dia mendapat hidayah sehingga bertaubat dan tidak menutup kemungkinan kita yang berbalik arah.

— Ustadz Muhammad Nuzul Dzikri حفظه الله

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We don't fall in love with people because they're good people. We fall in love with people whose darkness we recognise. You can fall in love with a person for all of the right reasons, but that kind of love can still fall apart. But when you fall in love with a person because your monsters have found a home in them— that's the kind of love that owns your skin and bones. Love, I am convinced, is found in the darkness. It is the candle in the night.

— C. JoyBell C.

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Love as Acceptance

Caitlyn Siehl // Leonard Cohen, "Anthem" // Rumi, "Bitterweet" // trans. Anne Carson, "Euripides" // Sade Andria Zabala, "Coffee and Cigarettes" // tumblr acct @/gayassnatural // Anne Carson, "H of H Playbook" // William Shakespeare, "Sonnet 116" // Clementine von Radics, "Mouthful of Forevers" // Toni Morrison, "Jazz"

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Riley Samels on Instagram / Etsy

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Istikhorohkan saja semua pilihan itu pada Allah, nanti Dia yang akan memberikan jalan keluar dari arah yang tidak terduga, Dia pula yang akan menenangkan hati dari gemuruh dan sulitnya pilihan.

Sebab, dimana ada keputusan yang dibangun atas istikhoroh, insyaallah disitu ada keberkahan untuk semua hasil.

@jndmmsyhd

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life really is just like. you meet people you love them and then you lose them and you never see them again. and it's inevitable and it happens to everyone and there's nothing you can do about it

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You don’t get to hurt me anymore.

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Putus Asa

قَالُوْا بَشَّرْنٰكَ بِالْحَقِّ فَلَا تَكُنْ مِّنَ الْقٰنِطِيْنَ

Mereka menjawab, "Kami menyampaikan kabar gembira kepadamu dengan benar, maka janganlah kamu termasuk orang-orang yang berputus asa." Q.S Al-Hijr [15] : 55

Tafsir Ibnu Katsir : Maka Ibrahim menjawab mereka, bahwa sesungguhnya dirinya tidaklah berputus asa, melainkan selalu berharap kepada Allah agar memberinya anak. Sekalipun usianya telah lanjut, begitu pula istrinya. Karena sesungguhnya Ibrahim mengetahui benar akan kekuasaan Allah dan rahmat-Nya yang jauh lebih besar dari hal tersebut.

Jangan berputus asa ya, sebagaimana Ibrahim yang tetap berprasangka baik pada Tuhannya. Mudah bagi Allah untuk mengabulkan segala inginmu dalam satu waktu.

Rahmat Allah itu luas dan banyak sekali, Allah Mahakuasa untuk mengabulkan segala pinta yang engkau inginkan, meski kata sebagian orang harapanmu mustahil tercipta.

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“I think one of the saddest things is when two people really get to know each other: their secrets, their fears, their favourite things, what they love, what they hate, literally everything, and then they go back to being strangers. It’s like you have to walk past them and pretend like you never knew them, never even talked to them before, when really, you know everything about them.”

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It’s like ‘we’ never existed.

#dayswithoutyou

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everything is going to work out even if it seems so scary and unknown right now. every little thing is going to be ok and you will end up where you are meant to be.

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One Hundred Ways to Say ‘I Love You’

“Pull over.  Let me drive for awhile.”

“It reminded me of you.”

“No, no, it’s my treat.”

“Come here.  Let me fix it.”

“I’ll walk you home.”

“Have a good day at work.”

“I dreamt about you last night.”

“Take my seat.”

“I saved a piece for you.”

“I’m sorry for your loss.”

“You can have half.”

“Take my jacket, it’s cold outside.”

“Sorry I’m late.”

“Can I have this dance?”

“I made your favourite.”

“It’s okay.  I couldn’t sleep anyway.”

“Watch your step.”

“Here, drink this.  You’ll feel better.”

“Can I hold your hand?”

“You can borrow mine.”

“You might like this.”

“It’s not heavy.  I’m stronger than I look.”

“I’ll wait.”

“Just because.”

“Look both ways.”

“I’m sorry.  I didn’t mean to.”

“Try some.”

“Drive safely.”

“Well, what do you want to do?”

“One more chapter.”

“Don’t worry about me.”

“It looks good on you.”

“Close your eyes and hold out your hands.”

“That’s okay, I bought two.”

“After you.”

“We’ll figure it out.”

“Can I kiss you?”

“I like your laugh.”

“Don’t cry.”

“I made this for you.”

“Go back to sleep.”

“Is this okay?”

“I picked these for you.”

“I’ll drive you to the hospital.”

“What do you want to watch?”

“You can go first.”

“Did you get my letter?”

“I’ll do it for you.”

“Call me when you get home.”

“I think you’re beautiful.”

“Are you sure?”

“Have fun.”

“Sit down, I’ll get it.”

“I made reservations.”

“I don’t mind.”

“It brings out your eyes.”

“There is enough room for both of us.”

“You don’t have to say anything.”

“Wow.”

“Happy birthday.”

“I’ll pick it up after work.”

“It can wait until tomorrow.”

“Cross my heart and hope to die.”

“It’s two sugars, right?”

“I’ll help you study.”

“Stay over.”

“I did the dishes.”

“You didn’t have to ask.”

“I bought you a ticket.”

“You’re warm.”

“No reason.”

“I’ll meet you halfway.”

“Take mine.”

“We can share.”

“I was just thinking about you.”

“I want you to have this.”

“Call me if you need anything.”

“Do you want to come too?”

“I’ll still be here when you’re ready.”

“Is your seatbelt on?”

“Sweet dreams.”

“I was in the neighbourhood.”

“Stay there.  I’m coming to get you.”

“The key is under the mat.”

“It doesn’t bother me.”

“You’re important too.”

“I saved you a seat.”

“I’ll see you later.”

“I noticed.”

“You can tell me anything.”

“I hope you like it.”

“I want you to be happy.”

“I believe in you.”

“You can do it.”

“Good luck.”

“I brought you an umbrella.”

“I’ll pick you up at the airport.”

“Take a deep breath.”

“Be careful.”

And…

“I love you.”