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[nonbinarymlm]

There is a reason that there has been such a concerted effort to remove queer people from their history. Queer history, in its nature, is empowering. It debunks the belief that queerness is unnatural. It reminds queer people that their legacy is that of change, revolution, and beauty. It challenges every defended belief about history being a story of cisgender straight white men doing brave things while the rest of us sat at the sidelines. There is a reason that so many people are so scared of queer people having access to their history.

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

On days where you feel like a fat, gay freak of nature, I often find it helpful to stop and think, "Haha, awesome."

#loving queue #awesome

[nonbinarymlm]

Pride Junimo Stickers 🥺💕🏳️‍🌈

I'm so thankful @syularis included my Pride Junimos in this collaboration. 🥺 These are the 8 designs I usually make as plushies.

We've only got them as stickers now, in my Etsy

I'd be keen to do mini charms of them too, if anyone's interested.

Then if there IS enough interest, I can have them as a permanent listing. They'd have the same options of phone string, earrings, or stitch markers.

So I'd appreciate the voting results for serious serious interest!

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

Sticker <3

#loving queue #don’t mind me just my sv obsession leaking into my mlm blog

[nonbinarymlm]

If you want some pride flags in your Stardew Valley town during the summer, here's the stardew file i modified. A trans-inclusive sign on the doctor's place, progress pride colored ice cream stand umbrella, a pride flag at the library, art the mayor's, and when the community center is finished, it will have a pride and BLM flag on it!

I have the file pinned in the #gaymes channel in the LGBTQ+ safe space server here: https://discord.gg/4RMQSHyzZX

Save a copy of your vanilla (unmodified) summer_town.xnb file, then replace it with this one!

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

Trans man vent rant incoming but its bothering the fuck out of me and I don't have anyone else to say this to.

I am so very very tired of being told to protect cis women. Don't make them uncomfortable in the bathroom or the locker room thats a "safe space," don't talk about how reproductive rights being stripped affects us too because "its a women's movement, don't derail," don't talk about how we are also victims of violence from cis men because "You're men, that doesn't happen to you, don't forget your privilege."

I'm so tired of it. Because you know what, I have been protecting cis women my entire life. I was that friend! I was the friend who stood up to cis men that made them uncomfortable, I'm the one they went to when they didn't feel safe, I was the one who slapped and punched and screamed at and reported every single fucking creep that made cis women uncomfortable and afraid. I was that person. And whether it was my masculine energy and look, or the fact that I'm ugly or the fact that I'm on the heavier side, you can blame it on whatever you want, but I was the person that cis women friends, classmates, and coworkers came to when they were uncomfortable. I was the person protecting them! Me!

But now that I'm a man? Now that I'm no longer a masculine women? Now that I've stepped over the smallest fucking line by daring to call myself a different word (I don't pass, before you get your panties in a bunch. Not you op, people in general) now suddenly I'm so scary?

When is it my fucking turn to be protected? Okay? When is it my turn? Because this has bothered me since I was a girl! Since I was that butch that everyone flocked to to stand up to cis men. When do I get to be protected? Because it is fucking radio silence from cis women. Now that I'm not a girl, what I don't matter anymore? Now that I'm the one who needs protecting LIKE IVE ALWAYS NEEDED no one is going to stand up for me? None of them.

When is it my turn to be afraid? When is it my turn to be comforted? When is it my turn to be protected? Why do they never, ever care?

I love my queer siblings, my trans siblings, and they've been nothing but wonderful, but it is still something I see even within the queer community, people that have done no or minimal work deconstructing gender, they are so quick to turn coat on trans men for the crime of being men. I'm so tired of being a man only when I've done something wrong, to have them call me a man as an insult. To project all their anger at cis men at me, who, surprise surprise is also treated like shit by cis het men. I'm a gay trans man. My passing goal is to be called a faggot instead of a tranny, so fuck, even passing isn't going to get me into their good graces.

Im just so tired. Cis women. Cis HET women especially, God, fucking do better.

(And yes I'm making generalizations based on my own experience, fucking sue me, I'm upset)

it reallly does seem like the terf and general rad fem movement is more concerned with feeling comfortable within the bounds of gender as they know it than our safety. it always seems to come second- a weird mix of “we’re not harming you, we’re defending ourselves” and “well, you deserve it for being a gender traitor”.

#loving queue #transphobia #trans experiences #protect trans mascs

[nonbinarymlm]

hey you!

yea you!!

your gender’s looking great today!!

whatever you identify as

however you prefer to present yourself

however you look

it looks great on you!!!!

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

god i fucking love trans men like the act of making yourself a man is so breathtakingly beautiful the ability to build yourself up brick by brick to keep pushing forward through the mire that tries to hold you back to be able to hold your breath forever while the whole world tries to drown you like truly every trans man reading this you are the strongest bravest cleverest most enduring people i know i love you forever

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

I’m a boy and I kiss other boys.

I’m a boy and I was not born a boy.

I’m a boy and I use unconventional pronouns.

I’m a boy and I want to live as a boy.

I’m a boy and I want to be free to say that out loud.

I’m a boy and I want to live without fear of being hurt.

Just like the other boys.

My friend is a girl and she likes boys.

My friend is a girl and she was not born a girl.

My friend is a girl and uses she/her.

My friend is a girl and she wants to be called a girl, not a slur.

My friend is a girl and she should be allowed to live as a girl.

My friend is a girl and she shouldn’t be assaulted because she is a girl.

Just like the other girls.

My sibling is nonbinary and they like every gender.

My sibling is nonbinary and they were not born that way.

My sibling is nonbinary and uses whatever pronouns they feel like.

My sibling is nonbinary and wants to be perceived as a person too.

My sibling is nonbinary and should be allowed to choose what they call themselves.

My sibling is nonbinary and shouldn’t be shoved under the rug because their gender identity “doesn’t make sense”.

Just like other people.

WE ARE PEOPLE.

TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS.

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

(ID: ten pride flags with white and black text that says "dysphoria is tough but I am tougher. Flags: trans, genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, agender, bigender, demigirl, demiboy, transfeminine, and transmasculine.)

#loving queue #dysphoria mention

[nonbinarymlm]

(Image description: two images with multicolored text in the center surrounded by multicolored flowers, stars, and hearts; the text on one image reads "trans is holy" and is in the colors of the trans flag, the text on the other image reads "queer is holy and is in the colors of the queer chevron flags).

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

Transfem to Transmasc solitary must exist as much as any trans solidarity must exist.

Protect my boys.

#loving queue #much appreciated #solidarity to you too

[nonbinarymlm]

It's great to be Queer.

It's great to identify as Queer or Genderqueer or Neuroqueer.

Queer is just such a great and lovely and powerful word.

Queer history is rich and vibrant and empowering.

Queer culture is wonderful and important.

Queer communities are necessary and life-saving.

No one should ever have to be ashamed or embarrassed of being Queer.

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

(ID: background is a pastel rainbow gradient, there is bold white text in the center that reads "proud to be queer")

#loving queue

[nonbinarymlm]

Can someone tell me where these feminine trans guys with massive tits who wear push-up bras and skimpy outfits that I keep seeing transphobes complain about are? I’d love to see massive tboy boobs.

#loving queue #I don’t think transphobes can tell amab and afab drag queens apart #transphobia mention #so chances that they’re not even tracking about a trans guy are high #not that it matters

[nonbinarymlm]

REMINDER TO NOT TALK TO THE GUARDIAN ABOUT DIY HRT IF ASKED ❗️❗️❗️

Susanna Rustin is a huge TERF too, and a quick search of her name on The Guardian brings up repeated proof.

#loving queue #TERFs #transphobia #warning #hate this

[nonbinarymlm]

And if feel comfortable share your queeeer journey. I love reading them.

#loving queue