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Get attacked!! ✨🌈SEND THIS TO OTHER BLOGGERS YOU THINK ARE WONDERFUL. KEEP THE GAME GOING🌈 ✨

Aww this is sweet 🥰

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I open this app. I read two posts and am reminded that no one here has ever been outside and talked to a real person. I close this app.

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for april fools we’re deleting this entire site sayonara you weeaboo shits

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Advice for new dog owners. If you take the poop bag with you, the dog will not poop. If you do not take the poop bag with you, the dog will poop. Hope this helps

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"adhd isn't a disability"

breaks down over trying to start tasks until he deadline is stupidly close

unable to do basic chores unless it's like 4am and then the whole damn house gets cleaned

speaks too fast

tangent and tangent and tangent. makes social situations hard

literally unable to stop themselves from interrupting people mid sentence (and the constant "*interrupts*- sorry, please continue")

knows what they want to say, cannot find the words, even if it's something basic

auditory processing disorder (pretty common with adhd), like how do you explain that you can hear but your brain has minecraft server lag and the chat will appear soon

hyperfixations, and people thinking they are special interests when they are not (they are short term, literally stops you from basic care like eating and drinking when in)

impulse purchases making bank accounts cry

all or nothing. not hungry to pain. don't need to pee until pain. you get the picture

cannot sit still, like actually can't, constant moving and shuffling which people think would be cute but actually just pisses people off

doesn't have a fidget toy, not bc they are popular but bc they would have to put it away bc dylan over there got a fidget spinner and has been loudly playing with it (dylan is neurotypical)

cannot do anything if there is something else to do that day, must wait

just stfu it is a disability

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“Kazul’s not my dragon.“ Cimorene said sharply. “I’m her princess. You’ll never have any luck dealing with dragons if you don’t get these things straight.”

Dealing With Dragons - Patricia C. Wrede

#This book changed my brain chemistry #Dealing with Dragons

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Anyone here into Nightwish a Normal Amount like me and want to talk with me about them

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the way being employed keeps you from video games and other various activities is so sick. genuinely demonic

#About me

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I do feel like there's a way in which some people who, for whatever reason, cannot understand lesbians will attempt to understand us by projecting themselves and their experiences onto us, and then get upset because they are not lesbians and would not want to live our lives. like instead of being able to imagine a life in which they do not desire relationships with men in any way (romantically, sexually, or even necessarily platonically-- not that we don't have men as friends but that friendship with men is not something that we specifically need to feel happy or complete, like it's whatever, cool if we meet someone chill but not something we necessarily go out of our way to find) they imagine desiring relationships with men but then forsaking these relationships or abstaining from them due to trying to conform to a politic or identity label (<- not what being a lesbian is) and then imagine lesbianism to be a restrictive and harmful identity that limits behavior. it seems like to some there's just this psychological barrier to understanding it as authentic instead of a performative set of rules, and it leads to a lot of weird takes where people think lesbians need to be "reassured" that "it's okay to like men" and it's like.. we know it is, we just don't. like it's not a rulebook, we're not denying ourselves anything, it's just an honest description of our experience. I'm not like constantly suppressing any part of myself or denying myself anything, I'm just vibing.

#I kind of get it tho #Bc I cannot fathom how anyone wants men #So I can see how hard it would be to understand an identity so foreign to your experience

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God, I’m in my Janeway feels today.

She’s a science nerd. She’s a mom to most of her crew. She has endless sexual tension with just about everyone. She’s a deadbeat parent to her lizard children. She’s one bad day away from a severe depressive episode. She’s unable to resist adopting most pathetic lifeforms that cross her path. She’s godmother to an all powerful space being. She’s addicted to coffee. She’s Starfleet Temporal Investigations enemy #1. She looks good in a suit. She went full Ellen Ripley once. She’s an actual war criminal. She likes dogs. She violates the Prime Directive. She’s got self-sacrificial tendencies. Her fiancé Dear Jane lettered her. She keeps falling in love with holograms. Her Vulcan bestie struggles daily to keep her alive.

#kathryn janeway #Star trek #Voyager #She really has it all

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#But actually tho

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Sorry it’s early but you really can’t use fanfiction terms in a non fanfiction context like if someone is trying to sell me a book to read and they tell me there’s an enemy to lovers I would be annoyed because why are you spoiling the story lol

#Where are are the rich stories and deep characters?? #I need them to feel like real people #Not marketable characters

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Coming out of my cave to say uh...the Netflix avatar show is um....bad

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Cant reblog that "why did u follow prev" post cuz i have no memory of anything. God himself just put u on my dash one day

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This is wonderfully niche and we need more necromancers on this platform.

#The old kingdom #Incredible

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#Cryptid

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#He's special