Suggestions for activities that you can do collectively as a system
Notes: These are just some suggestions, they are not every idea ever. They are divided by themes but some may require more effort and resources than others.
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Activities to do together
Beauty, makeup and selfcare related
Make a self care or stim box
Have a self care day
Paint your nails
Go shopping and get one small gift for yourself as a collective
Practice makeup or a technique (it can be as serious as you want it to be)
Editing related
Make some edits (icons stimboards whatever) for you system or alters
Learn or practice a new technique for editing, or a new edit type
Make your simply plural profile 'aesthetic'
Request a gift for an alter from an edit blog they like and don't tell them
Education and brain related:
Do your school/collage work
Learn a cool fact about a random topic
Try learning a new language
Play a mind, word or number game such as wordle or suduku
Play a board game (this is easier with games such as candy land, others like battleship you probably won't be able to do as a system)
Food related
Do some baking
Cook one of your alters favourite foods or dishes
Make or eat a nostalgic food
Go to a cafe or restaurant and try something you haven't had before
Gaming related
Play a single player video game with character customisations and make your alters
Play a multi player video game with friends
Make your headspace and/or system in a building or life style game (ie the sims)
Music rated
Make a playlist
Make a song and/or write some lyrics about your experience as a system
Explore your or another alters music taste
Try some music in your reccomended and/or just listen to something new
Social media related
Watch your favourite youtuber, streamer, ect
Update your alters profiles on Simply Plural or Pluralkit (or whatever app you use)
Hold a poll for your system only with randomly nominated alters and prompts (my only advice would be to not allow really negative prompts)
Sports related
Try a new sport (if you physically can't then try watching a sport you haven't considered watching before)
Get ready for the next game of whatever sport your interested in
Go for a walk, jog or run with your favourite music
To to the gym
Syskid related
Play with them
Have a safe day where they can front and be themselves (it doesn't usually go to plan for us but the thoughts there)
Travel related
Go for a walk or a drive around your local area
Plan a system holiday or a day out to somewhere you want to go
TV related
Start a new show
Watch 'bad' reality TV
Set up a movie night for the system
Watch something you've never considered watching
Writing related
Write or finish a fanfic
Make a short 'story' about your system
Write in your system journal
Write lists of whatever you feel like
Other things I can't categorise
Build something (ie a lego set) or create something out of household materials
Try a new hobby
Sew a 'system quilt'
Practice your system communication
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Shout out to alters not ready to reveal themselves. Shout out to alters who are hidden from the rest/to parts of the system. Shout out to alters who don't/can't front. Shout out to alters who are dormant for safety. Shout out to alters the system doesn't know about.
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Listen man, you guys can't be like "you guys need to be normal about asexuality" and then turn around and get weirdly judgemental when you find out someone doesn't have sex by choice. Like that's weird that some of you do that.
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Happy 4/13 to people who wear aviators and wield swords, short angry perfectionists, bitches with one arm, nerds with glasses, people stuck in dream bubbles, angsty teens on spaceships, people who have ascended to godhood by tragic means, annoying men with perfect hair, unstoppable eldritch horrors, people in alternate universes, platonic soulmates, ghosts, apocalypse survivors, and everyone else in The Locked Tomb series
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John, do the windy thing for the @413countdown
John has been and always will be my favorite character 💙💙💙
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“fuck you, my child is completely fine.”
ma'am your child is a history major, with an unhealthy obsession of dark academia.
your child is not *fine*
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Me: Can I even really call it trauma, though? It wasn't *that* bad, right? Other kids have definitely been through worse.
The men in my head that my brain created to love and protect me because I couldn't handle my childhood otherwise: 🧍♂️😐
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boy it would be nice to be able to google something related to personality disorders, psychosis, intellectual disabilities, autism, DID/OSDD, etcetera without finding majority articles that are like “how to deal with a person with X” “how to cope with your child with X” “how to spot someone faking X” “can people with X be cured?”
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You can do it! (Throwing a little tantrum along the way never hurt)
This is a special print for patrons this month! ✨
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