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[nereidprinc3ss]

i LOVE aftercare! in every sense that you can imagine. ngl it ends up being my favorite part of a lot of smut tbh 😭 like the reader is coming down from something (like you and that anon said) that can be so overwhelming and i think it’s like another form of being talked through it tbh. like physically and emotionally you just handled so much and having someone there to talk you down and let you know it’s okay and they’re there with you is so important because they’re not just leaving you in the dark you know? and it obviously fits so well with spence as a character but especially dybmn spence!! because of readers inexperience she’s probs not gonna be used to the feeling of just *so much* during and after and is probably not gonna know what to do with herself 😭 and spence whether it’s because of the power dynamic they already have or the fact that he knows reader is inexperienced or the fact that he simply loves reader is just simply gonna want to take care of her- for all of those reasons! and it’s going to be comforting and a reassurance to reader because she’s letting him take the reins and he knows what’s happening and how to deal with it and she can just kind of melt and try to relax. like it fits so well i could talk about this foreverrr!!! love love aftercare and i love your writing i already know you would convey it in the best way possible. kisses babe

oh my god you’ve convinced me. i WILL be doing aftercare with these two. i am so excited. ily ty for this inspo your mind is so insanely powerful

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[nereidprinc3ss]

so random but i think your @ is the prettiest thing ever i am in love with it & you 😚

omg thank you so much!! i love my username because i made it years before i even started watching criminal minds :0 it’s in reference to nereids as in water nymphs from greek mythology so its like water nymph princess and it’s just serendipitous that i ended up being a spencer reid blog years later!! i am in love with YOU angel bby mwah

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[nereidprinc3ss]

i know we’re all excited for part 4 coming and ofc I don’t want you to get overwhelmed but i was wondering if we could have Spencer’s POV?

in one of the scenarios, he stated that he was in falling in love for reader and it has been noticeable that he has gotten laid with more/other women in the past.

i would like to know more about how was spencer as a lover back in that time like how he felt after s*x and stuff, like a flashback or something and how his relationship with reader has changed him, his own perspective. BUT ofc, you don’t have to if you don’t want to. it’s all good if you choose to ignore this; ily. thanks for always feeding us. we love being your children💗💗

hi love i actually do have headcanons for dybmn!spence’s romantic/sexual history and idk if they’re ever going to fit into that series but i’d be happy to share them here!!

18+ under the cut/season 8 spoilers barely

so basically in my head he loses his virginity to elle greenaway (DUH) and they actually have a little bit of a relationship but the dynamic isn’t quite right because she’s going through all her own shit and at that time of spencer’s life it’s more simple for him. like she’s his first everything and he’s super in love with her but she is older and more experienced and really cares for him but knows for a lot of reasons that this wide eyed rose tinted view he has of her and their idealized relationship is never going to work out. #ILOVEELLEGREENAWAY but anyway they are never exclusive and in the dybmn universe i think he doesn’t necessarily SLEEP w lilah archer but they hook up in that pool beyond just making out mwaha but he’s just a little guy like he’s not CHEATING on elle because they’re not exclusive but she realizes she’s way too into him and that actually ends up figuring into why she leaves the BAU like yes it’s everything with her trauma too but that’s part of it because she knows she can’t sustain that relationship and being much older than him she’s the responsible party so yeah. i also think that time he visits her hotel room was maybe the last time they hooked up

after that i think he kind of develops a pattern of sleeping with women who are older/more experienced than him because he’s just used to being around older people anyway and he feels he can relate to them better and im imagining this is like seasons 2-4 spencer so it’s him and a bunch of hot 30-40 year old women (and probably men) and he’s just like a slut honestly like he’s really easy because he desperately craves affection and validation and i’d say he continues slutting himself out in that way for many seasons, but slowly with people who are more his age, probably until like around season 8 when he meets maeve and then all that shit happens and he kinda is just not into sex or romance for a long while. and i think after that he occasionally will hook up w someone but his main slut era was like seasons 2-6. (it slowed down when his migraines started but did not stop because he’s unstoppable) (he also may have had an actual relationship during this season 7 period in my mind. idk why i just sense there was someone before maeve. no i will not be providing reasoning season 7 spencer just looks like he has a girlfriend)

anyway. the number of bodies that man has is unknown. it may be a number so high we can’t conceive of it. he’s a capital doubleyew Whore unfortunately. but he’s rlly reigned it in by the time he meets reader which can be whenever you want but i picture it as being anywhere from season 9-14. and i think by the time he meets her he really is like basically celibate. like he hasn’t been with anyone by choice for a long while by the time he meets her. he is a retired slut if you will.

saliently i don’t think he ever does anything with jj. that is a purely imaginative thing for him and he lowkey has a madonna whore complex about her. i don’t think he was ever really in love with her he just loved the idea of the pretty blonde girl loving him back. but that is a whole other thing. and he’s way over it when he meets reader.

n e way those r just my silly thoughts. like i said i don’t think i’m ever gonna fit this into the actual narrative but yeah that’s what ive been imagining!!

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reid being an asshole in part 4????????????? omg, baby you have me in a CHOKEHOLD and eating by your hand. i love how everyone is hating on maeve BDBDBSNSJDOF since i asked for your thoughts, it just never made sense. being myself a little bit like spencer and a total whore for books, i would never give my books to anyone. i’m super possessive about them and if they have my annotations on them or quotes…my god no no no. that can never happen. she even kinda dressed like him?? looked so forced to me. +++ i love it so much when your spencer always goes like ‘Jesus fucking christ’ you can’t do that to me, i am so WEAK.????? I have a very controversial opinion, while i’m in love with spence, please know that i’m genuinely terrified of MGG. Because HOW, like seriously, HOW can someone be that extroverted?? The way my introvert self would be intimidated by him if given the chance of meeting him, I would probably run away. I just can’t

But

That’s just me………………..

oh my god no being afraid of mgg is so real…. i can say with confidence if i saw him in public i wouldn’t go up to him. partially cause ive always felt like going up to a random person you don’t know and inserting yourself into their day and asking to take a PICTURE w them is weird?? like even if they’re famous?? but like w mgg he seems to genuinely adore meeting fans. like that man just LOVES PEOPLE. but i don’t😭 i am SO SO awkward like painfully awkward and especially knowing the vile things i have said about that man on the internet and the disgusting thoughts ive had about him like nahhh i would look so guilty talking to him. but if we met in another lifetime i genuinely think i would get along with mgg SO WELL!!!! we have very similar senses of humor and we’re both weird and insanely talented and good looking and we both know what it’s like to be the funniest person in the room…….. we’re soulmates but unfortunately we’ve been separated by time and circumstance :( but im dead serious i just know we would get along so well if given the opportunity and i feel that way about VERY few celebrities and very few people in general but something in my soul just knows it to be true. and also i think i could lowkey pull him if the year was 2013 and the universe was exactly the same except ali michael was me and not ali michael. like it’s me with my face and personality but i lead her life. does that make sense? i need this to be true more than i need air to breathe btw

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[nereidprinc3ss]

Thank you for replying to so many asks! Love seeing you on my feed. You’re so sweet and I hope you’re doing so well!

i am doing well!! just had a gigantic dinner it was so good!!! i hope you’re well too my love thank you!!

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Babes we love hearing every thought that comes out of that talented head of yours don't ever apologise for posting, in fact do it more. Every time I get a notification that you've posted it makes me feel like I've gotten a text from a beloved friend

late response but thank you so much😭😭 i hope you still feel this way. i am a chronic spammer but i just love u guys u ARE my beloved friends

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…no but going on about the rant…that is just a very interesting perspective and hot contrast coming from spencer. LIKE him being such a sucker for love, for reader but at the same time, being so confident in his knowledge on s*x. ouf, the hicky or the vibrator thing using it in front of him…i hope we can get a one-shot or anything…

just to let you know…

just.

but still, i think there must be boundaries for all the affection he gives to reader? i mean, i believe it can get overwhelming for reader at some point. (i feel like this sounds so weird but i hope you can get me) s*x is already a very overwhelming activity in itself with all of the emotions & changes going on in one’s body. i wonder how they discuss or handle this?

the way i’m so invested into your rantings and ramblings….

i definitely get you!!! i do at some point want to write something where either reader does get genuinely overwhelmed during sex or something and they have to stop cause he would sooo take care of her like it would just be really sweet and i think going along with the whole him “teaching” her thing, that would be a part of it for sure. like learning that it’s important to listen to yourself and be honest when you need to stop and stuff like that.

kinda nsfw discussions below the cut abt aftercare

i love writing aftercare😭😭 idk i know it’s random and idk if im going to do this for dybmn but ur right like i think sometimes sex IS rlly overwhelming especially the first time and it does feel weird and does weird things to you and i have this vague idea of her being like rlly confused and overwhelmed and kinda achey and stuff afterwards cause that’s very real and having him just take care of her and be reassuring idk idk….. maybe that will go in to the final part of dybmn maybe it won’t i’m not sure

im also not sure if that’s something anyone else would be interested in or if it’s just super niche and weird and nobody wants it LOL😭 if you do pls let me know and if you don’t pls let me know

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[nereidprinc3ss]

in dybmn 1 when reader said that when she touched herself it didn't feel good and spencer said we'll make it feel good... i actually combusted 🙂 i love ur writing sm and soft dom spence is my downfall

yeahhh that was a personal favorite too🤭🤭 does he know he can do Anything he wants to me??? someone should tell him

thank you ily he’s my downfall too

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[nereidprinc3ss]

Ok ok I know all this has already been said but OH MY GODDD YOU'RE WRITING IS MAKING MY PACE MY ROOM AT 3 AM IT'S SO GOOD. I can be pretty picky with characterization of certain characters because like what's the point of reading that character when all their traits are no longer recognizable yk? But you!!! You never miss UGH you write Reid so well it's a crime. I love strange perfections, I love dybmn GODDD I love it all

(and ik Garcia was only there for a split second but you have her character down too!)

I LOVE WRITING GARCIA!!! i love writing the whole team tbh i have a few fics i haven’t posted that have more team interaction it’s so fun to try and capture all their personalities

anyways thank you for the kind words and i completely agree abt the character things like if i want spencer smut i want it to be spencer not fucking daemon targaryen or something idk

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the dybmn prequel is everything i could have ever asked for it fits SO WELL and i was so genuinely smiling the entire time that i read it 😭😭😭😭 you are incredible this was the perfect little treat to save for myself ILY.

YAYYY im glad you like it!! i feel like i could write infinite stories about that pair like they’re just so cute and so fun to write idk i love their dynamic!! thank you lovely

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spencer's and maeve's relationship feels really forced to me idk the whole concept is all over the place i agree that spencer needs challenge and she doesn't challenge him AT ALL the writers were always wasting potencial

yeah i just. idk there are a lot of “big” cm plot lines that i don’t like and while it’s not my least favorite i just think it would have been SO much more emotionally intense if it was someone interesting who had chemistry and a more believable connection w him

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the condescension ask OH MY GODDDDDD i feel like my eyes have been opened!!! If you ever feel like writing more condescending spencer please know i will devour it i now need it like i need air to breathe its so intriguing and so hot

part 4 spencer is lowkey being an asshole but like in a sexy way so there is something for u to look forward to HEHE lol

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dybmn is seriously the best reid fic out there, i'm not even joking!!!! i had the most visceral reactions whilst reading everything, literally had to put my phone down and do laps around my room!!! like it's impossible to not get so immersed in it YOU ARE INSANE FOR THIS ILY YOU'RE AN AMAZING WRITER YOU'RE THE BEST!!! <3333

im so glad you like it so much my angel honestly im just writing what i want to read so im really glad so many people are enjoying it😭😭 ily!!!

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WAIR WHERE IS THE you didn’t even know she was engaged QUOTE FROM IS IT CANON

YEAH I THINK SO i think it’s when she’s rightfully flaming his ass when he gets defensive about her potentially having a girlfriend (which was hella weird btw one of very few sus spencer moments lol) so idk for sure what episode but jj says that very close to the actual thing happening so whatever episode in s8 that is😭

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question/request, would you ever write something about spencer saving reader from SA? doesn’t have to be super explicit, i know this is a harsh request too but i read your pinned post & the part about people doing asks about things that they seek comfort from so i wanted to give it a shot 🥹 hope this isn’t too much to ask thank you for all that you do

hi! thank you for asking, definitely potentially but id be curious as to what you mean by saving from! i’d love for you to elaborate on what you mean if you feel comfortable just so i understand the request!! thank you love you

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you’re so right about how lame maeve’s storyline is ! how is it that you never miss

im simply too media literate!!!criminal minds never thought someone as insightful and introspective as me would see every single flaw in their show

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im sorry in advance for how long dybmn4 is gonna be i simply have no self control and can’t shut the fuck up so by proxy neither can the characters i write for

but also tgif i just had a strawberry lemonade im up and im abt to write smut let us gooooooo

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