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Thank you Jaiden.

q!Jaiden I hope you enjoy many beautiful sunsets together 💜🩵

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I love the idea of the eggs still acting/being somewhat treated like kids/toddlers/babies

Like. yeah sunny can wield a sword and a chainsaw, but they still drink out of a sippy cup

Yeah dapper does weird, unethical experiments and is the child of the grim reaper, doesn’t mean she knows how to tie her shoes- they’re all velcro!

Of course Chayanne can cook a full course meal, but he eats it with those colorful, plastic utensils

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Fit: Are you sure that’s all it is? Because I spoke to Tallulah and Chayanne and they seemed a bit more concerned.

Phil: I mean they would be because they’re my kids so like. It should be- it should be fine.

Fit: Should be?

Phil: It’ll be alright.

Fit: Should be fine?

Phil: Yeah it’s- yeah, yeah, yeah. Like it’s- it’s- it- it- it’s just- it’s just mosquito goop I think….. I mean I think. (Turns away from Fit)

Fit: I mean I’ve known you a while Phil, you’re not exactly the best liar.

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Fit: Are you sure that’s all it is? Because I spoke to Tallulah and Chayanne and they seemed a bit more concerned.

Phil: I mean they would be because they’re my kids so like. It should be- it should be fine.

Fit: Should be?

Phil: It’ll be alright.

Fit: Should be fine?

Phil: Yeah it’s- yeah, yeah, yeah. Like it’s- it’s- it- it- it’s just- it’s just mosquito goop I think….. I mean I think. (Turns away from Fit)

Fit: I mean I’ve known you a while Phil, you’re not exactly the best liar.

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Anyway, while people are discoursing about men and not sharing Shubble points, here’s the actual advice I got from watching the stream bc I think that probably needs to be spread more. Shubble elaborates it much better but if you can’t watch it’s better than nothing.

Physical abuse is not just hitting or kicking, anyone causing physical pain intentionally to you without consent is physically abusive, regardless of how that manifests or if it seems silly.

Pressuring someone into using a safeword on something that’s not, like, a mutually agreed thing and is just something one partner wants is controlling and creepy.

Partners who push at the edge of your boundaries and avoid safewords are abusive.

A partner insisting you’re remembering things wrong and making you seem crazy is abusive (specifically, it’s gaslighting)

Grand romantic gestures from the beginning can very easily be a sign of abuse, as abusers use it to endear themselves to their victims.

Controlling behaviour and refusing to break up while also refusing to make changes is possessive and unhealthy at best.

Abusers will manipulate things to make it seem normal to those outside of their victims- by being kind and helpful even as they neglect their victim, by pressuring their victim to treat their abusive behaviour as a joke, ect. It’s often very hard for an outside observer to know if something is abusive, and making assumptions off of what you know in front of closed doors isn’t helpful.

It’s very hard to tell that you’re being abused, and you'll often still retain affection for your abuser for a long time- this is normal, and this isn’t your fault if you wanted to stay friends.

Even if an abuser is struggling with their own problems, taking it out on you is not acceptable. People can be bottling up their emotions and struggle with depression and past trauma and that gives them no excuse to hurt you.

If your partner relies entirely on you to take care of them, and support them financially, that’s financial abuse one way or another.

Abusers tend to hurt more than one person, and their actions escalate without outside influence (be it intervention if possible or something that keeps them away from victims if not.)

Listen to your gut, if you think a relationship is bad. Even if you’ve been through this before, sometimes you can’t realise in it, but you’ll feel it subconciously.

Also, Shubble is being supported by friends who helped her cope and went through different but similar things. She's specifically mentioned right now keeping the stories anonymised, but she might change her mind, if I interpreted the last bit correctly. She's doing alright, she's healing, and it sounds like she's being believed by her friends, at least most of them. I wish nothing but growth and healing for them, and wish them the best moving forward.

#discourse #wilbur situation #i hate to put these tags but i want people to have the opportunity if its triggering #this is the last thing im posting or rbing about the topic

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btw. i am not back yet. ive kinda fallen out of the qsmp and im slowly coming back into it but ive missed a bunch of lore so it's probable I might just start back up from here

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back from the dead to say if wilbur is ever mentioned on my blog it will only be one of the characters he played. thanks

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out of character for this, i think its important to share around this priv message quackity left!

Transcribed message under read more

"Merry Christmas everyone! I'm wishing everybody a wonderful time with their loved ones, but I'm also sending a big big hug to the people who for some reason or another, don't have that privilege during these holidays.

The ongoing QSMP stream right now is meant to add some background noise and a friendly face to everyone, but especially for those who are alone during these holidays, and a moving chat to allow everyone to feel accompanied in some way or another.

For some, these days can feel like the happiest ones, and for others these feel like their darkest. You're absolutely not alone, and the ongoing stream is meant to represent that.

Love and appreciate all of you and wish you all happy holidays."

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tubbo: oh it's a picnic basket, I've been packed!

fit's chat: PAC? PAC-ED? WHERE IS PAC I MISS HIM

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so glad to be spending my christmas eve with just a minecraft capybara and a rat <3

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IT'S A CHRISTMAS MIRICLE!

For my return I've finally finished the third installment of my bbh hurt/comfort fic. While I had to rush to bring it to a close, it is here!

Enjoy and happy holidays :]

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Totems don't fix all wounds, this is true.

But friends, family, and breakfast in bed just might.

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Y’all are doing God’s work in there

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Can’t believe Mike is gonna wake up from his kelp cocaine coma to an empty island and no Pac because Pac is a little too busy being in Actual Biblical Hell

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the english level of the french is horendous i love it (they're lying about not talking english to get put togheter)

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I feel like only person is doing this event right

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WAR IS OVER !!!!!!!

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MYNTHOS FOR PURGATORY 2 LET’S FUCKING GOOOOOO LA FRANCE EST EN LIESSE