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Alright I'm taking a break from radblr getting way too depressed and angry at other women

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the most reasonable moid on reddit

(for context, a man was hitting a ladys car while she was in it, she starts slapping him saying "don't touch my car" and he knocks her out. comments are filled with "equal rights equal fights" morons)

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How to tell if you are emotionally abusive

I feel we talk about signs of abuse from the victims standpoint but not from the abusers standpoint. In order to stop emotional abuse and recognize when we engage in unhealthy behaviors I made this list.

Do you react to important people in your life by ignoring them completely and not acknowledging their presence? Especially if they do something you don’t like?

Do you feel that your partner/friends/family members are the cause of your bad moods or frustration?

Does your partner/etc “do things the wrong way”?

Do criticize your partner/etc for being unreliable or a bad person?

Do you feel you have to constantly overlook your partners flaws in order to be around them?

Are you frequently accused of being “moody” or “hard to please”?

Do your partners complain that “nothing they do is good enough?

Do your partners appear to avoid you when you are angry or upset rather then comfort you?

Do you negatively comment on their intelligence or appearence? Either in private or in front of others.

Do you blame them when someone goes wrong?

Do you ever use phrases like “I could just hit you right now” or “I”m so mad I could punch something”?

Do you ever punch walls/throw things in front of your partner/etc?

Do you leave during fights and not inform of where you are going and when you will be back?

Do you behave the same alone with your partner that you do if you were in front of your friends or in public?

Have you frequently accused your partner of being too sensitive?

How often is your partner praised and complimented by yourself?

Do you think your partner spends too much time with friends and family?

Do you feel your partners friends and family are trying to drive you apart?

Do you actively comfort your partner when they are upset or angry even if you don’t really understand why they feel the way they do?

If your partner brings up a behavior that bothers them do you respond by discussing how to change it or do you respond defensively?

Do you have difficulty apologizing?

All of these things are abuse tactics. Obviously even the healthiest of us will do these sometimes but if any one becomes a regular habit that’s when the problem starts.

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Do I hate that ship or do I just hate the shippers, a novel by me

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I wish there was more to this caption. But there isn’t.

Legalise Marriage Equality for LGBTQIA+ folks in India 🇮🇳 🌈

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people will be like "why can't lesbians be horny?" and every single time they mean "why are people saying it's bad to associate sex w/ pain and humiliation?"

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Currently obsessed with this gay pigeon couple up for adoption and I think tumblr will be obsessed with them too.

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wake up wake up wake up wake up

#Imp #Receipts

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She's QUEEN Latifah for a reason

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people complain that feminists are the fun police until we start making jokes about divorce, abortion and menocide suddenly everyone becomes mr politicall correct

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entertainment business makes bad castings (race swaps) on purpose. this provokes people and the project gets instant attention without putting much effort into marketing. they are able to create entertainment which can't be criticised without you being branded as a bigot for not liking it. the audience has to love it. we have to stand up and clap.

especially black women are often used as objects for virtue signaling and marketing boosters but it's branded as "diversity" and "representation" - but they are also the ones who are put in the spotlight for people to verbally abuse them online. I think all of this is racist itself.

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it's extremely frustrating how many people can't talk about incels or terfs or zionists or neo nazi's or any particular group of people with horrifying beliefs without insisting every one of these people are also fat and balding and ugly due to their evilness and vice versa, when like no a good chunk of mra's and terfs and zionists are straight up supermodels, your political beliefs just can't be "the people i agree with all are hot ladies and giga chads" and "all the people i disagree with the are ugly women and fat neckbeards" cause that's not how that's works, it's not how it ever worked and i am extremely tired of it.

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Acknowledging how shitty periods can be and how women might have separate needs from men because of their biology is transphobic and ‘cringe’

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sometimes i just brood about how i can't walk around shirtless in public, which is such a simple privilege males have over females that really shouldn't mean much. however, it's impossible for me to rebel against this expectation on my own; the reason i don't just say "fuck it" and walk out shirtless is because i would become a sexual object to every man i see. the intent i had would be hijacked by the male gaze, if that makes sense.

i also see this hijacking thing happen with sexual liberation, where women were/are trying to reclaim their agency and right to have sed with whoever, but many men don't see it like that. they just see women they can have sex with, and the meaning is lost on them.

this observation has always frustrated me and it just sucks that you can see the pattern in a lot of aspects of feminism, where men will pick out parts that benefit them and THEN support those parts for their own benefit.

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trans women are not women and see women's pain and sexualisation as a mere tool to get their gender affirmed, example 7355

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if i could remove the shame and guilt girls feel from same sex attraction and give it to porn addicted straight boys, i would. how can they feel nothing for the way they dehumanize us while sapphics apologize just for existing?