C'est tout-à-fait normal pour les messages. C'est sans doute pas un passage évident pour toi mais tu continues et c'est le principal ! Je ne t'ai pas connu pour ça, mais je trouve que c'est normal de t'encourager, tu le mérites ! Encore bravo !
Même si pour toi c'est normal, c'est pas le cas pour tout le monde alors ça fait d'autant plus plaisir ahah
Et c'est cool de voir que mis à part notre passion commune du gras y a d'autres choses qu'on peut partager et échanger avec les autres ça fait toujours du bien. De ce côté là, la communauté est plutôt bienveillante :)
So it's been a long time since I posted something here...
And I thought it'd be nice to give you all an update.
As you already know I'm not gaining weight anymore and I'm focusing on how to be a better version of myself (in my own opinion).
So on my journey to feel good in my body and to become my true self, this is how I look today.
The work is still in progress, even if we can already see some changes.
I know by sharing this I will loose many followers who are here for the fat fetish. And I totally understand, it's fine. I just wanted to be clear about the future of this blog :)
I'm still chubby but I no longer want this so maybe one day you'll even see a pic of my abs (I really doubt about that since until now I've never been into sports but I have hope ahah!)
I hope you're all doing well and I'll try to keep on updating more often ~
Hii! I've been following your page for a long time now, and I just wanted to say congrats on finding yourself and that I hope your transition brings you tons of happiness!
Also, do you want us to call you by a different name?
Hey, thank you for your support!
You're all so nice to me, it's so helpful :)
You can keep calling me Maxxy or Max, as it's pretty neutral and not even my real name I'm good with it ^^
But thanks for asking
King, there’s thousands of people gaining weight, sharing about their gain- but they’re all unique. You’re unique. Everyone has a personality that makes others stick to them. We will stick to your blog, probably, because you have your own personality- whether your fat is the main subject or not!
I personally felt uncomfortable with being a man, so I can understand wanting to have a different body. Good luck on your transition chief, and stay safe out there
That's really nice of you, I appreciate the support.
Some kinds words like yours are the reason I loved being around here for the past few years ♥
Je suis ravi de te voir revenir, même si tu vis tous ces changements. J'espère que ça se passera au mieux pour toi et que tu seras le plus heureux possible à l'avenir ! Bravo pour le choix de la transition et de l'acceptation de toi !
Hey! Un grand merci pour le soutien, j'étais plutôt inquiet des retours que pourraient avoir mon post mais pour l'instant il en ressort beaucoup de positif 🥰
I don’t know where to start actually; it’s been so long...
I’m making this post to clarify some things about this blog. I started to gain weight on purpose and actively not so long ago and at this time I loved it, I regret nothing about that. But some events in my life made me rethink about myself and what I really want/need.
Recently I broke up whit my (now) ex-boyfriend, I had to leave the house we bought together, so I moved out. Then I’ve been transferred to another city with my job so I had to move again, it was exhausting. But in the meantime it made me think, and some feelings and thoughts that I’ve buried deep inside me started to come back.
I’ve never really been fully comfortable with the body I have (nothing to do with my overweight) and for several years before meeting the man I shared some years with, I’ve been questioning myself about my identity. Now that I had some time alone to think clearly it appears to me that for more than 15 years I evinced the fact that I’m not feeling well in this woman body. So, for now on I will start transitioning and focusing on my future as a fulfilled man. I’m taking a break about gaining weight, I don’t know yet if or when I’ll come back. Maybe I won’t, I can’t tell for now if the feedism will be compatible with my needs as my life gonna change a lot…
I know and understand that some of you won’t stay if I stop sharing about my weight. I won’t delete the account because it’s still a part of me that I don’t want to erase. I just wanted to come out properly and I think I owe you this explanation since some of you are following me for a long time now.
I also know that some reactions will be bad and if there are insults or inappropriate answers to this post I will obviously delete them. I’m not here today to provoke some hate, I needed to express all of those feelings to move on and it feel so good to finally starting to feel myself.
So, please, if you don’t like it just don’t say anything. But I’m not telling this to seek some support either. I’m definitely not seeking for some attention, I want to be clear about that. I just don’t want to leave all of you all of a sudden for no reason.
All of this being said, I’ll still be around here to enjoy fat and proud people sharing their journey. My love for big bellies will never fade ahah
Wishing all of you a bright future, and most important, be and love yourself ♥