Call me Desmone or Butch || 22 y/o white stone butch He/They/Ly || I am back from the dead || Read my BYF/DNI but just so its immediately in my bio: trans women/transfems are more than welcome and safe here. || @catgirlhighfemme is my lil meow meow in heat
it's interesting to me how sex workers are not considered an important part of pride history & the lgbt+ community unless the sex worker aspect of their identity is completely erased, and at the same time, every single pride, i see posts go around reminding people that leather daddies & ungendered kinksters should be credited and celebrated for protecting & cultivating pride as we knew it before it became the sanitized corporate holiday that it is today.
marsha p. johnson was a sex worker. sylvia rivera was a sex worker. brenda howard (who organized the first pride parade) was a sex worker. why can we only address the sanitization of pride when it comes to men's sex lives? why can't we talk about how working class women in the sex trade are continually ostracized from & caricatured by the community we helped create?
orgasms are super awesome but also remember it’s totally normal to not cum every single time you have sex, sometimes intimacy and connection are the peak!!! this is healthy and normal and wonderful too!! 🩷🧡