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be a girl who isn’t afraid to fill her cup first. metaphorically but also literally. stay hydrated bitch.

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i just want to be a better woman. upgrade my vocabulary, my lifestyle, how i handle people + situations. i am focused on positivity and growth. i don't want any distractions or negativity around me while i am on this evolving journey.

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Locking in for the next 6 months

Physical

Going to the gym 4x a week

Daily walks outside

Eating 140g of protein

Showering daily

Mental

Therapy every week

Reading a self help book every month

Using this blog as a diary

Educational

Studying a little bit everyday

Paying attention in lectures

Practicing skills at home

Social

Calling someone to chat every other day

Meeting up with friends every two weeks

Making sure to attend special events (weddings, baby showers, stuff like that) and if I can’t attend making sure to apologize and still send gift

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five recipes for an exciting life (in my opinion)

spending enough time creating things with your hands (baking, drawing, scrapbooking, doodling, crocheting, journaling and so on)

keeping track of things like pretty skies, milestones, happy memories, appointments you're looking forward to

listening to music that genuinely makes you feel happy and energetic

making a habit of reaching out to people in a way that's comfortable to you (i send my dad songs he might like, my friend sends me monthly life updates)

being kind to all your five senses → like investing in a scented candle or essential oil dispenser or body mist, having a soft blanket or socks (or a soft animal to pet), listening to birdsong or the rain, looking at the sky more often, and having your favorite foods enough times

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It’s cool to not be totally healed from something 9 months later and it’s also cool to understand that you don’t really heal from anything you just live beyond it and find new happiness and it’s cool to grieve the loss of some sort of innocence you can’t quite name and it’s cool if you’re crying because I am too

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No matter how shitty it might feel in the moment, most of the time when someone comes to you to communicate a boundary or a need or a negative feeling about something you did, it is actually a compliment. They are telling you BECAUSE they care about you and want it to work between you and because they trust you to care to do better. If they didn't care about you, they'd just avoid you. That uncomfortable convo is in fact a declaration of love and trust. Or at least intention of friendship. If they didn't like you, they'd just try to avoid you whenever possible. They wouldn't care to have The Talk (which is often scary and uncomfortable for them also). So try to treat their trust with care, even if it really upsets you to learn that you've accidentally hurt them

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march by Mary Oliver

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When it comes to your goals, you need to keep them private for a multitude of reasons, but one that is often overlooked is that people will place their own limiting beliefs, either about themselves or about how they perceive you, into you, thus influencing you in negative ways and keeping your from reaching as high as you know you can.

With all the online talk about being "delusional", one of the most successful ways to use delusion to your advantage is to set "unrealistic" goals, having a deep roster belief in knowing that not only can you achieve them, but that is a more of when and not if.

So don't tell people - even if they seem authoritative in the field - about your ambitious goals. Make yourself prepared, and engineer your own success by consistently taking action and manifesting that which you want through knowing that achieving it is the only option available.

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I think it’s really important to write down how you feel when you actually feel good. Write about the environment, what you’re thinking, hearing, seeing–It’s necessary to take notice and be aware of that. I feel good right now because the window is open and there’s a nice light breeze coming in, and because it’s silent in my room, and not an anxiety inducing silence but a comforting one. You don’t have to pull out a notepad every single time it happens but every single one of us experiences one moment, however small, as being comfortable and safe, and I think they’re worth remembering. I think if I do this more often it’ll help with my crashes in the future. It’s not much but it’s something. It feels like a meditative state that I didn’t plan or force myself into but that the universe brought to me and it’s a nice thought.

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Sunrise, Louise Glück

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life always works in my favour.

the universe is always on my side.

i receive unlimited blessing and miracles.

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Drive is something I wholeheartedly believe everyone needs to have. It doesn’t have to be hardcore and it doesn’t need to be present all of the time (we all have our sad moments or reevaluation points), but you need something to remind you why you wake up every day. You have to work towards SOMETHING. Even regular relaxation or light work works towards your happiness—but being aimless all day every day is terrifying to me.

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sevdaliza !!

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Dont be fooled by scarcity on the dating scene . Or friend scene.. lots of people out there who will love u and make your life lovelier… so many people… just be yourself, you’ll find them..!